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Wednesday, October 22, 2025
Important and Fun Weekend! Go Big Red...join us on the Hill this Saturday 10/25 2pm
Wednesday, October 8, 2025
Thankful for the Life of James Alden Leithauser 1937-2025
James Alden Leithauser (click on link for obit)
A beautiful man and life. A life that made a difference to family, community, church, and children. A life of service and caring and laughter. This is how I will remember my father-in-law. As we reflect on how he cared, we think of breakfast and meals. Napkin-wrapped English muffins, fruit salad, fruit and veggie platters, HAM - oh the hams. When Joe took me home to meet his parents, not just one roast but two were prepared. He always shared a perspective or joke that guaranteed a smile or laugh. He cared that he brought that smile and would look and wait for it.
Last fall, we thought we'd be saying goodbye as Jim's kidneys and heart were thinking it was time to be done. It was not the time. That said, Jim's dementia and weakening health kept him from engaging and provided frustration for many including Jim. This was unfortunate. So many dear people helped care for him, kept him smiling with great-grandchildren visits, Cokes, outings, and patience and love. We're so grateful to all of those people. Last weekend his body did finally say, enough and he passed peacefully with the support of Hospice, and as you'll read in the obit, Nadine and Alicia were by his side.
I hope you'll read the obituary that outlines his service to the fire department, Little League, church. I always admired Jim and Nadine and their support of the community. We also liked the snacks and popcorn that made their way to our house! Alicia reminded us of his Donald Duck voice, and I'm so grateful his great-grandchildren smiled and giggled thanks to Jim.
He kept a beautiful yard, made a baseball diamond for his sons, and simply made the world a better place. His corner of the world in Sherwood was a delight to visit as a daughter-in-law, especially with small children. I love his son Joe Leithauser and love how he modeled care, partnership, love, and laughter. We always say Joe is the funniest Leithauser, I would like to amend this statement- it was Jim.
Life on Newark-Granville Road is so grateful for Jim's life and the legacy he made while here and the legacy that remains with his passing.
So many have asked what we need...we're okay- thank you! Yes, it is hard to say farewell and now don’t have Jim in our lives. And at the same time we're grateful he is not in the state he was, it was time. We're looking forward to gathering to honor and remember him. In place of flowers or looking for a way to support/honor Jim's life, Joe and I encourage you to make a gift to your local fire department or little league!
As I type this and think of ways to honor Jim, it is simple- doing something kind, make someone smile or laugh...thank goodness he did that for us.
Like many posts, there will be more- photos, relfections, memories...but for now these make me smile and capture Jim's essence and legacy!
10/20- Yesterday at the Delaware Township Fire Department- see their post below. We're grateful to Cupcake for the leadership with the food and the whole department for the event.
The gun salute from the VFW was very moving. Having Caiden caring and playing with Alden, Alden smiling, pushing toys and then asleep in his grandmothers arms also added an element that was comforting. It was a special day and we're grateful for those that could attend, the messages and cards, we felt so supported as we navigate this time.

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| Nadine with her siblings |
I want to make sure I share two important memories to this post about Jim!
First our wedding...I left my purse with our room key. We had already driven off in the convertible (the top would not go down so I was annoyed) but we got off, happy. Then oh darn- we needed the purse- Joe circled back...leaving me in the car. Well that is its own story and amazing laugh with the buddies trying to drive off with me...but Joe came back and his Dad was so happy to see him. Joe's Dad said oh good- this is the lesson I forgot to tell you about marriage...they always leave their purse- always. It's your job- you have to remember the purse. I can hear him saying it, his voice, his smile....I think I have a photo of that but I wasn't there, maybe someone else took the picture, maybe my mind did...oh yay Jim for Jim and sharing little bits like that that, that matter.
The other memory CASH EXPLOSION 2014.....At Easter we had Cash Explosion scratch tickets. Joe said when we were choosing the type- get the Cash Explosion ones, Dad loves that show. At the end of the afternoon Jim explained Joés ticket allowed him to write his name on the back of one, and send it in to be a contestant. Joe said no but Jim should. Well we all forgot about it. Then a friend calls one Sunday and says they were watching the show and Joe's name had been picked for a future show. What? Jim had submitted Joe's name. Fast Forward Joe arranges for Jim to go in his place! They ended up in Hillard at a hotel with a pool, fun day out for Alicia and to meet others. Then those of us that could gathered to watch Jim on the show. It was a day of laughs, stress, family and memories. It was a fun way to honor and celebrate Jim. As we did yesterday. We'll continue to keep him close in our hearts and unite with the grandkids as family in December. We truly never leave our loved ones or let them leave us, gatherings are important and yesterday was an important and special day in our life on Newark-Granville Road with Jim as the focus.
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| 2014 Cash Explosion Day! |
Sunday, September 28, 2025
Sign Time VOTING time- Fall 2025
Our house on Newark-Granville Road has a nice corner. For years during election time people ask us to place a sign in our yard. Joe and I have created frameworks for our decision on who/what sign appears here (you can read past blog posts about it).
Here is this year's approach!
If we have a relationship- meaning we know you, you've attended Derby party, we have conversations, we can discuss issues, we've served together, etc...and you are running for office, we're grateful you are willing to run and serve...we'll say yes to the sign.
Issues- similar- if the person advocating for the tax levy knows us, has a relationship with us, we'll say yes to the sign.
What the sign doesn't mean- this is the way this house is voting. (Yes, reality is some times we vote differently.) It would be interesting to poll people on what a sign in a yard means to them. Should one assume it is how a person votes? An important life lesson- never assume!
What does sign placement in our yard mean: let's talk! Let's talk about the candidate we know and why we did say yes to a sign. Let us tell you about the conversations had with Len Hubert at community events for YEARS, serving with William Hoekstra on a Board, debates with Ben Barton and his care during our Derby parties. Matthew George is a fair and impartial judge a known entity seeking reelection. Joe values Kim's service so much on CURRENT COUNCIL and Diane Marshall's thoughtful work and time to understand the important impact she can have for our village. Stephanie Mollica's commitment to Mental Health & Recovery for Licking and Knox counties and the renewal levy is inspiring.
UPDATE- Melanie Kohlheim is not doing signs, thank you Melanie for running for Granville School Board!
And most of all our Lucy...she has the message for us all..VOTE..but really know the issues, know the candidates...don't assume...say thank you to those willing to serve and put themselves in this position!
Our son Peter was asked by a friend how we vote, his answer which we love was "It's about the person, not the party". Life on Newark-Granville Road is Grateful for our local public servants and those that support them (staff), volunteers, donors and our citizens that engage and are active as it makes Life on Newark-Granville Road and beyond beautiful and safe.
PS- https://www.boe.ohio.gov/licking/ get info here- Early Voting starts Oct 7th! Find sample ballots too!
Tuesday, September 16, 2025
Sharing Good Things...Sales...Invest..Ask!
I found my career path early, but I didn't know it. When people ask how long I've been in my role, sometimes I say- I've been raising money for Denison since my senior year...Class gift for 1990! I kept volunteering and then turned it into a full time role with focus on philanthropy directly for Denison in 2015. I love the fact that my first role was loaned executive for the United Way of Southeast Michigan in 1990..Federal Mogul knew I was fundraiser before I did! I've never stopped asking...
This week it is the CABI ask...amazing clothes, presented in a home or with personal consultant. Last night's show was fun! The show prior to that at Katy's was a hoot and I can't wait for future friends shows. I have fond memories at Vicki's and Sue's...Anne's...making memories. We were reflecting last night on my Just Ducky shows and the friends that met there!!
Update- my CABI show will close tomorrow- 9/17- if you want assistance/to order- contact Roanne Gotttshalk at 740 404 9718 rgotts1752@gmail.com She is AWESOME!
No pressure- just me sharing what works for me and others..helping another woman at work too!
And next up to sell/offer/ask....PEO NUT SALE 2025!
Promoting Women's Education through Scholarships and Grants- PEO is a women's philanthropic organization and I'm a proud but not very active member of Chapter AB in Granville. Mom and Myra inspired me and I'm grateful to Jan, Leda and others that keep me connected! A great fundraiser for us is offering the amazing KREMA nut and mixes....I'm happy to send you the order form if you are interested!! They do make great gifts. Thanks for thinking about it!
Orders due Oct 9th!
And while I'm at it...why not...Denison Ways to Give! Every dollar and donor matters! Denison has a big beautiful campus. Denison shapes amazing lives and supports students, employees, alums and the community in amazing ways and we count on philanthropy...thanks for considering investing! Want to know more, let's talk, have coffee. I'd love to share more about the impact each gift makes to our students and beyond.
So much good on Newark-Granville Road to share...
Sunday, September 14, 2025
Heads-up- Correct Email and Transitions in the E/Cyber world....in LONGR!
I'm trying to move this Blogger Account for Blog updates to a different email.
I'm having difficulities with an old email that I don't use- the roadrunner email. íf you are communicating me via roadrunner it is being or has been forwarded to gmail. Please call me, find me, contact me, I like and value our commuication. Some times we don't know what we are not receiving.
This blog site may transition...stay tuned via personal interaction. THAK YOU for reading.
Update- I'm able to now use gmail account to access this blogger account...fingers crossed I've made things smoother in my cyber life on Newark-Granville Road! Thanks for helping with the email address use!
Friday, September 12, 2025
Monday Monday Gathering in September 2025
Coming up- CABI party at my house 6 to 8 pm MONDAY September 15, 2025 Join us!
CABI info- great clothes, fun trying on and being with women who support one another as they shop! Thank you to our great CABI rep Roanne Gottshalk! Let me know if you can attend please!!
Monday September 8th was BOOK CLUB selection night...I do love how we gather to select our books for the year. Life on Newark-Granville Road loves hosting this at our table. We love the treats friends bring- cookies, dips, bars, chocolates, fruit, chocolate...yum...we can cook and procure well!
We also reflected on the complete list of past reads...since 2004- when we started documenting this way we have 239 reads! One duplicate- Huckleberry Finn! Twenty one years of selecting, reading/listening, discussing, gathering...most of it at Cherry Valley Hotel in the lobby or on the verenda- thank you CVH!

Lists:
25-26 To Read & Discuss:
| Oct 6 | Grandma Gatewood's Walk | B. Mongomery |
| Nov 3 | The Wealth of the Shadows | G. Moore |
| Dec 1 | Jane Austin's Bookshelf | R. Romney |
| Jan 5 | Secret Agent Man | M. Singer |
| Feb 2 | The Egnima Girls | C. Fleming |
| March 2 | Remains of the Day | K. Ishiguro |
| Aprl 6 | Everthing is Tuberculosis | J Green |
| May 4 | The House of Fragile Things | J. McAuley |
| June 1 | Another Country | James Baldwin |
| July 6 | The Girl with the Louding Voice | Abi Dare |
| Aug 3 | Fighting Words | Kimberly B Bradley |
Have Read & Discussed:
| Title | Author |
| All Over But the Shoutin | Bragg, Rick |
| Bel Canto | Patchett, Ann |
| Bury Me Standing | Fonseca, Isabel |
| Golden Compass | Pullman, Phillip |
| Ishmael | Quinn, Daniel |
| Me Talk Pretty Some Day | Sedaris, Davis |
| One Thousand White Women | Fergus, Jim |
| Persuasion | Austin, Jane |
| The Book of Salt | Tryong, Monique |
| The Way the Crow Flies | MacDonald, Anne Marie |
| A Million Little Pieces | Frey, James |
| Huckleberry Finn | Twain, Mark |
| My Sisters Keeper | Picoult, Jodi |
| Prayer for Owen Meaning | Irving, John |
| Silent to the Bone | Konigsburg, EL |
| Someone Not Really Her Mother | Chessman, Harriet Scott |
| The Bluest Eye | Morrison, Toni |
| The Kite Runner | Hosseini, Khaled |
| The Other Boylen Girl | Gregory, Phillippa |
| The Plot Against America | Roth, Philip |
| Trans-Sister Radio | Bohajalin, Chris |
| Truth and Beauty | Patchett, Ann |
| A Tree Grows in Brooklyn | Smith, Betty |
| Consider This, Senora | Doerr, Harriett |
| Fortune Rocks | Shreve, Anita |
| Garlic and Sapphires | Reichl, Ruth |
| Monique and the Mango Rains | Holloway, Kris |
| On Beauty | Smith, Zadie |
| The Eye, The Ear and The Arm | Farmer, Ruth |
| The Glass Castle | Walls, Jeanette |
| The World is Flat | Friedman, Thomas |
| Tipping Point | Gladwell, Malcolm |
| To Kill A Mockingbird | Lee, Harper |
| A Walk Two Moons | Creech, Sharon |
| A Wrinkle in Time | L'Engle, Madeline |
| Ana Karenina | Tolstoy, Leo |
| Echo Maker | Powers, Richard |
| How Reading Changed My Life | Quindlen, Anna |
| If You Lived Here I'd Know Your Name | Lende, Heather |
| Omnivore's Dilemma, A Natural History of Four Meals |
Pollen, Michael |
| Snow Flower and the Secret Fan | See, Lisa |
| Suite Francaise | Nemirovsky, Irene |
| The Book Thief | Zusak, Markus |
| The Girls | Lansens, Lori |
| Water for Elephants | Gruen, Sara |
| Infidel | Ali, Ayaan Hirsi |
| Loving Frank | Horan, Nancy |
| Mr. Pip | Jones, Lloyd |
| Room with a View | Forster, E.M. |
| The Absolutely True Diary of a Part-Time Indian | Alexie, Sherman |
| The Country of Pointed Firs | Jewett, Sarah Orne |
| The Faith Club: A Muslim, A Christian, A Jew-- Three Women Search for Understanding | Ranya Idlib,Suzanne Oliver, & Priscilla Warner |
| The Painted Drum | Erdrich, Louise |
| The Thirteenth Tale: A Novel | Setterfield, Diane |
| The Winters Tale | Helprin, Mark |
| Thread of Grace | Russell, Mary Doria |
| Distant Land of My Father | Caldwell, Bo |
| Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society | Schaffer,
Mary Ann & Barrow, Annie |
| Hunger Games | Collins, Suzanne |
| Last Chinese Chef | Mones, Nicole |
| Last Town on Earth | Mullen, Thomas |
| Mrs. Dalloway | Woolf, Virginia |
| My Life in France | Child, Julia |
| My Stroke of Insight | Bolte Taylor, Jill |
| The Black Book of Secrets | Higggins, FE |
| The Elegance of the Hedgehog | Barberry,
Muriel & Anderson, Alison |
| The Help | Stockett, Kathryn |
| The Maytrees | Dillard, Annie |
| The Middle Place | Corrigan, Kelly |
| The Space Between Us | Umriger, Thirty |
| A Reliable Wife | Goolick, Robert |
| Glenapp Castle | Rosenberg, Tina |
| Great Expectations | Dickens, Charles |
| Hotel on the Corner of Bitter and Sweet | Ford, Jamie |
| Let the Great World Spin | McCamm, Colum |
| Marcelo in the Real World | Stark, Francisco |
| Olive Kittredge | Strout, Elizabeth |
| Prisoner of Tehran: One Woman's Story of Survivial Inside an Iranian Prison |
Nemat, Marina |
| Telex from Cuba | Kuschner, Rachel |
| The Children's Book | Byatt, A.S. |
| The Magicians | Grossman, Lev |
| Those that Save Us | Blum, Jenna |
| A Dog's Purpose | Cameron, W. Bruce |
| Light in August | Faulkner, William |
| Love and Summer | Trevor, William |
| Murder on The Orient Express | Christie, Agatha |
| Okay for Now | Schmidt, Gary D. |
| People of The Book | Brooks, Geraldine |
| Revolution | Donnelly, Jennifer |
| Room: A Novel | Donoghue, Emma |
| Someone Knows My Name | Hill, Lawrence |
| The Moment I Knew | Nelson, Terri Spar |
| Year in Provence | Mayle, Peter |
| Behind the Beautiful Forevers | Boo, Katherine |
| Everybody Matters: A Memoir | Robinson, Mary |
| Out of Africa | Dinesen, Isak |
| Outliers | Gladwell, Malcolm |
| River of Doubt: Theodore Roosevelt's Darkest Journey |
Millard, Candice |
| She Walks in Beauty | Kennedy, Caroline |
| The Fault in Our Stars | Green, John |
| The Master | Tóibín, Colm |
| The Shadow of the Wind | Zafón, Carlos Ruiz |
| The Tempest | Shakespeare, William |
| Vaclav and Lena | Tanner, Haley |
| A Fort of Nine Towers | Omar, Qais Akbar |
| Brothers Karamazov | Dostoevsky, Fydor |
| Code Name Verity | Wein, Elizabeth |
| Empire of the Summer Moon | Gwynne, SC |
| Little Bookstore in Big Stone Gap | Welch, Wendy |
| Me Before You | Moyes, JoJo |
| Moloka'i | Brenert, Alan |
| Orphan Master's Son | Johnson, Adam |
| Secret Life of CeeCee Wilkes | Chamberlain, Diane |
| Setting the Table | Meyer, Danny |
| The Snow Child | Ivey, Eowyn |
| My Antonia | Willa Cather |
| The Good Lord Bird | James McBride |
| Landline | Rainbow Rowell |
| Independent People | Halldór Laxness |
| The Homestead | Rosina Lippi |
| Desert Queen: The Extraordinary Life of Gertrude Bell: Adventurer, Adviser to Kings, Ally of Lawrence of Arabia | Janet Wallach |
| The Pearl That Broke Its Shell | Nadia Hashimi |
| Outlander | Diana Gabaldon |
| We Were Liars | E. Lockhart |
| Orphan Train: A Novel | Christina Baker Kline |
| The War that Saved My Life | Kimberly Brubaker Bradley |
| Brain Rules | John Medina |
| The Organied Mind | David Levitin |
| Three-Eight Charlie | Jerrie Mock |
| So Long a Letter | Mariama Ba |
| Lila | Marilynne Robinson |
| Americanah | Chimamanda Ngoi Adichie |
| All theLight We Cannot See | Anthony Doerr |
| Half the Sky | Nicholas Kristof |
| Sheryl WuDunn | |
| Longbourn | Jo Baker |
| The Bookman's Tale | Charles C Lovett |
| The Things They Carried | Tom O'Brien |
| Counting by 7s YA | Holly Goldberg Sloan |
| Hillbilly Elegy | J. D. Vance |
| Offshore: A novel | Penlope Fitzgerald |
| Man Called Ove | Fredrik Backman |
| The Ghost Map | Steven Berlin Johnson |
| Secret River | Kate Grenville |
| Boys In the Boat | Daniel James Brown |
| Salt of the Sea | Ruta Sepetys |
| Short Stories | Anton Chkfov |
| The One in a Million Boy | Monica Wood |
| Our Souls at Night | Kent Haruf |
| The Age of Innocence | Edith Wharton |
| Dreamland | Neil Hellegers |
| The True Tale of America's Opiod Epidemic | Sam Quinones |
| Bad Feminist: Essays | Roxanne Gay |
| Beneath a Marblerd Sky | John Shors |
| Underground Railroad | Colson Whitehead |
| Underground Fugue | Margot Singer |
| Rent Collector | Cameron Wright |
| Small Great Things | Jodi Picout |
| The Hate U Give | Angie Thomas |
| Dispatches from Pluto | Richard Grant |
| Lost and Found in the Mississippi Delta | |
| The Girl in Hyacith Blue | Susan Vreeland |
| Marin Marten | Brian Doyle |
| Killers of the Flower Moon… | David Grann |
| Born a Crime | Trevor Noah |
| Fifth Business | Robertson Davies |
| The Warmth of other Suns | Isabella Wilkerson |
| What is the What | Dave Eggers |
| The Great Alone | Kristin Hannah |
| The Last Days of Night | Graham Moore |
| The Miseducation of Cameron Post | Emily Danforth |
| Southernmost | Silas House |
| A Place for Us | Fatima Mirza |
| An American Marriage | Tayari Jones |
| Little Fires Everywhere | Celeste Ng |
| Gentleman in Moscow | Amor Towles |
| The Overstory | Richard Story |
| Educated | Tara Westover |
| Beloved | Tori Morrison |
| The Woman Who Smashed Codes | Jason Fagone |
| Shape of Water | Spollen |
| Before We Were Yours | Lisa Wingate |
| Lilac Girls | Martha Hally Kelly |
| The Little Paris Bookshop | Nina George |
| Rebecca | Daphne Du Maurier |
| Have you Seen Luis Velez | Catherine Ryan Hyde |
| The Dutch House | Ann Patchett |
| Talking with Strangers: What We Should Know about the People We Don't Know | Malcom Gladwell |
| The Elephant Whisperer: My Life with the Herd in the African Wild | Lawrence Anthony |
| My Beloved World | Sonia Sotomayor |
| I Am Not Your Perfect Mexican Daughter | Erika Sanchez |
| The Vanishing Half | Brit Bennett |
| The Tea Girl of Hummingbird Lane | Lisa See |
| The Night Watchman | Louis Erdrich |
| Letters to a Young Poet | Rainer Maria Rilke |
| Caste | Isabel Wilkerson |
| Broken | Jenny Lawson |
| Such a Fun Age | Kiley Reid |
| Beyond the River | Ann Hagedorn |
| Pregnant Girl | NicoleLynn Lewis |
| The Wife Between Us | Sarah Pekkanen |
| When We Were Still Alive | Keith McWalter |
| The Memory Keepers Daughter | Kim Edwards |
| In Pursuit of Disobediant Women | Dionne Searcey |
| The Four Winds | Kirstin Hannah |
| Mother Trucker | Amy Butcher |
| News of the World | Paulette Jiles |
| How the Word Passed | Clint Smith |
| Fountains of Silence | Ruta Sepetys |
| Human Kind: A Hopeful History | Bregman et al |
| Bit Flip | Mike Trigg |
| Bad Ass Libraians of Timbuktu | Joshua Hammer |
| Crying in Hmart | Michelle Zauner |
| Invisible Life of Addie Larue | VE Schwab |
| A Woman of No Importance | Sonia Purnell |
| Stoner | John Williams |
| Hey, Kiddo | Jarrett J. Krosoczka |
| Destiny of the Republic | Candice Millard |
| Taste | Stanley Tucci |
| Firekeeper's Daughter | Angeline Boulley |
| How to Be Perfect | Michael Schur |
| Personal Librarian | Heather Terrell & |
| Good for a Girl | Lauren Fleshman |
| Horse | Geraldine Brooks |
| Midnight's Children | Salman Rushdie |
| The Island of Sea Women | Lisa See |
| Demon Copperhead | Barbara Kingsolver |
| The Haunting of Hill House | Shirley Jackson |
| Bazooka Charlie, The Unbelievable Story of Major Charles Carpenter and Rosie the Rocketer | James P Busha with Carol Apacki |
| Huckleberry Finn | Mark Twain |
| James | Percival Evertt |
| Uncomfortable Conversations with a Jew | Emmanuel Acho and Noa Tishby |
| Dinners with Ruth | Nina Totenberg |
| The Beast of Extraordinary Circumstance: A Novel | Ruth Emmie Lang |
| Independence Day- retirement | Steven Lopes P'25 |
| Tom Lake | Ann Patchett |
| The Shell Seekers | Rosamunde Pilcher |
| The Lost Year | Katherine Marsh |










