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Wednesday, July 31, 2013

keeps them growing.....


And isn't that what it is all about....this is our jobs as parents- grow them....look how my babies have grown! I took this top photo this year- 2013.....I took the other photo in 2008!  The 2008 is one of my favorite favorite photos..I should have it turned into a watercolor portrait...but the the older picture makes me just as happy.....I love how they are growing up.  I just emailed with an old friend that I loved my babies but I also love my grow-up kids. Embracing where we are, accepting it- and going beyond that loving it and using the energy to keep us moving forward...the best is yet to be......on Newark-Granville Road...they keep on growing up!

Tuesday, July 30, 2013

Riding the Wave.....finding a new favorite....

I use to say - just ride the wave- I'm not sure why- I like the ocean, I felt it fit.  Then I found the mantra...."sit loosely in the saddle of life"  Robert Louis Stevenson that I love for my job as it connects to The Works founder who rode horses- his saddle is one of my favorite things in our collections.  Well at the beach I learned about "riding the wave".....and how hard it is.  It is a very good metaphor for life.  Life isn't easy and neither is riding the waves- or surfing the waves as I had a real life lesson when I ventured off Newark-Granville Road to the NC beach, my new favorite vacation spot.

Greg, my brother-in-law (sister Sarah's husband) is a surfer. He is a big reason why we go to Hatteras Island at the Outer Banks (OBX) of North Carolina. We had heard how nice it was there and six years ago rented a hometown friend's house in Nags Head and gave it a try.  This was without my sister and her family- just my parents and my family.  We loved it!  It is low key, great beaches, fun oceans, very simple vacationing.  The next year my sister and her family joined us and we went further south on OBX and loved it. We went further south for better surfing for my brother in law. The reality is we all love how even simplier it is an hour south of a beach town outlet mall.  The next year we settled into the fun of "under one roof" and the entire Stoner clan united.  We went even further south to Avon because that was the town with the real grocery store....the prior year in Waves we spent a lot of time driving to the Avon store.  The time togehter, traditions like fishing on the pier, taking yoga overlooking the beach, the kid talent show that wraps up with all family dance party, charades, bonfires, each of our dinners and amazing meals- all under one roof has made it my favorite.  I will always hold Naindi just outside of Middlebury, VT on Lake Dunmore close to my heart, not to mention Sea Colony and the Delaware/MD shore....but it happened. I embrace all the beauty and declare it the new favorite of my favorite vacation spots in my life on Newark-Granville Road.

As part of this all these years I've watched my brother in law surf. I've seen his passion for this hobby, way of life, activity.....he gets up early to go to his board, he leaves us to float/drift...it sounded wonderful.  I've watched him give Clare coaching and seen her go confidently into the sea board in hand.  My brother and sister chatted about it.  This trip I decided I wanted to try and so on the last afternoon of the vacation I went surfing.

Well kind-of...the reality is I just wanted to float on something and the board looked nicer than the kids boogie boards and we didn't have an old fashioned canvas raft I grew up with....may need to go back to that.  So on the last day of the week hearing how challenging it is and how it relates to yoga and Pilate's and a strong core....and having reconnected with Yoga with two beach practices (Koru Village!!) I went out into the sea....I love the ocean- always have. I love a rough surf to jump the waves. My father would take me out after storms in Delaware when I was little.  I don't mind getting tumbled and sandy- I find it all therapeutic- the salt water, stones and sand...I chose a choppy day according to Greg and had some challenges getting the board past the breaks to the right spot...but I persevered and did it.  I had challenges staying on the board, opening my legs/hips to be able to sit up and changing my center of gravity and weight distribution to made it all work....but I stuck with it (as Sally encouraged me to do immediately when learning I was going to try to surf) and kept trying and figuring it out. I was on my own- my brother in law did his thing and I found myself pretty far away but comfortable.  I decided it was time to try to catch a wave or at least take the board to shore....was pretty pathetic but made it in...never attempted to stand or kneel....then the last step out of the surf onto the sand- wham- not pretty- I tumbled and the board was awkwardly rolling- not a pretty site.  Haven't had sand like that in places like that in years...oh well.  I composed myself and headed up the beach to our spot and some coaching- I wanted to try again.  Kids came to carry my board for me- but no- I wanted to set the example- you surf you carry your board- my sister told Greg (who sent the kids) that is what I would do- she knows me well.  I took a rest, got some water and we went back at it with some coaching.  This time went much better- I was able to truly float, paddle and stay on the board, getting beyond the breaks was not near as hard.  I loved it- it was yoga on the ocean- the board was the mat and the waves the energy that I love when I'm with others practicing yoga- it was really beautiful.  However trying to catch the wave, to ride it was really hard and I didn't get there.  I didn't expect to and I am just glad I had the chance to understand a bit what Greg finds and connects with and for me to be in the beloved ocean in another way. So I knew it was time to return to land and move the day forward.....I was buying clams for Sarah to make for appetizers!!  I made my way in sort of by riding some waves on my belly. I  was attempting another dismount from the ocean and wham- the wind caught the board and I was smacked on the face- wow! A bit dazed...I composed myself and made my way up the beach....sure enough the next morning I woke up with a black eye. Good for me it was my cheek with the injury and not the nose.  Again the metaphor is there- life is like riding ways- transitions can be the hardest part, it can be cruel and it takes practice, practice, practice, coaching, time but there is so much beauty and joy and energy to be received from it too......I love seeing the kids' reaction to the black eye too. I've had them before- one in particular makes us laugh from my Kentucky Days- it was laser tag.  I learned the lesson that injuries happen when you are tired and should probably be resting, not moving on...sort of like my parents advice that nothing good happens after midnight and my curfew saved me on several occasions.....Sally is quick to tell you it wasn't a surfing dismount but a shark attack and I won- she says it with such pride and enthusiasm...and that makes me happy and proud of my shiner on Newark-Granville Road too.  Life is about being a life long learner and this amazing vacation gives many lessons.

Monday, July 29, 2013

My Beach Reads

As promised easy simple post tonight....beach reads....LOVED The House at Tyneford by Natasha Solomons- Downtown Abbey with real life influences for this historic fiction.....makes me want to go visit England.....recommended by college pals I chat with on email!  Really enjoyed The Light Between Oceans by  ML Stedman...thank you dear friend that delivered to my doorstep on Newark-Granville Road....  Reading more than one book in one week is one of the many reasons I love vacations like last week!

Sunday, July 28, 2013

Vacation Love

So this was the first photo I want to share from vacation- my sister Sarah and my husband Joe.  This photo represents so much that is good in my life and what is good about our annual vacation. I titled the photo "love"...because that is what our vacations are really all about.  It goes beyond the things that we adore and value highly- building sandcastles together- adults and kids, reading great books (things I forgot to list on last night's blog) and our awesome family dinners and great lunches and breakfast by Nana and co.....it is about our love for one another.

Sarah- a common question to Nana from my kids was- who do you love most- which kid, my Mom? or which grandkids?  Sally in particular is so caught up in the whole BFF, who will cousin Louisa love most....we try hard to explain and show her...we love equally and differently... we do have unique and special love for one another.  We love Sarah deeply and value our time with her and her beautiful family greatly.  Sarah's fight with cancer (diagnosed Sept 2008- just after her daughter was born in August) provided an amazing gift and special time.  This vacation we were able to see Sarah strong, shining and active- we went to Yoga, went running and enjoyed her amazing cooking.  With Sarah comes Greg and Louisa- amazing brother in law and niece/god daughter....they love so completely and beautifully - it is a joy to behold.  I'm so blessed and so excited to share this on the blog I kept to update Sarah's friends and family on her progress during those scary times when we thought we might loose her to cancer.   In all things there are lessons and beauty and the value of love was never stronger on Newark-Granville Road than these past years and so good to feel last week.

Joe-what a guy- I always new in my heart and subconscious he was "one of the good guys".....we knew one another at Denison but not that well....but the signal, vibe, energy I picked up always was "good guy"....the good news for me is that vibe got stronger and stronger as we made our figure eight path after graduation that led to the alter and put us in movement together.  These past 14 years he continues to get better and better...his care and love of the kids, cousins and in-laws on these vacations is amazing.  For better or worse, in sickness and in health....we don't make that vow to our own family- we just get born to that commitment and it isn't always easy.  But in marriage we say it out loud and Joe lives it.  We cannot be the easiest family to love- we have ups and downs, we get annoyed, we yell...but we love deeply, we care and we vacation well....thank goodness this good guy loves not only me but my family.  He said his favorite part of the vacation was time with his brother in laws...sweet- cause all 3 (and my Dad) are really "good guys" too!  And for the record I am pretty lucky with sister in laws too....Ann on Joe's side and Dawn on my side!

The picture was taken on a beautiful afternoon on Ocracoke Island, NC.  The kids love this tradition of taking the ferry over...it is hard to take time off from the beach and we almost appreciate one rainy morning that gives us permission to go....it worked out to be Thursday this year. We missed the Sunshine Stoners that departed that morning...but we found the positive of the smaller party and embraced the time.  Sarah secured an amazing table (practically sitting on man's lap as he paid the bill) and our outdoor, waterfront Jolly Roger restaurant was lovely.  Bloody Mary's, pitcher of Yuengling, fresh seafood....lovely (base word- love) backdrop for this favorite photo.

So there you go....a bit of vacation love to share.....I'm a lucky girl....more  lighter things tomorrow....for now just know I love my life on Newark-Granville Road.

Saturday, July 27, 2013

in the south!

Oh the things I can blog about....what a full and fun week plus I've had...wandering off of Newark-Granville Road and into the lovely south....I admit it - I love the south! And how nice it was to escape from the usual responsibilities of life on Newark-Granville Road...take a break and soak in family time, adventure, pampering, sun, sand (lots of sand- brought home a bunch) and the kids!!! Clare is home after a month away and Peter and Sally two full weeks!

I look forward to sharing the "why" I was so pleased with: Clare's 3 week Camp Alleghany experience, my surfing lesson with a black eye to show for it, time at the Greenbrier just as wonderful as last year, my declared new favorite vacation location of Hatteras Island, and a number of other valuable lessons and perspectives this vacation and spending time "under one roof" with my family has given me.

We're home- I wasn't quite sure I wanted to come home...it was that much fun, it was that good to just get away....but my life on Newark-Granville Road is that good too and I'm ready to jump back in...but for now...it's sleepy time......


Thursday, July 18, 2013

everything in moderation, including moderation...

My father loves this quote....to me it says- keep things in balance, but know there will be days and times you are out of balance.  Electronics- how do we keep balance when they are all around us and help us, connect us...for someone like me who loves to connect!  Work and Life- when you love your work, how to keep the balance....staying in motion, trying our best and knowing there is no perfection.

So tonight I'm taking a break from electronics for a week or so....take care this week my blog readers. I will return probably with an overload of updates and thoughts to share.  I'm going to move to the old fashion journal for a week or so....we'll see what I can glean from that to post when I return.

Life on Newark-Granville Road is quiet tonight and it is what I need.  Joe and I pick up Clare on Saturday- the time has flown and it has been good for us and I know in my heart regardless of her feelings at this time good for her.  Sally and Peter our loving their grandparent time in Maryland. Life is good if we let it be, if we look for it....if we stay in motion and enjoy moderation....

Wednesday, July 17, 2013

Remembering and thanking Lisa, a STEM role model....

I learned today of the death of wonderful woman.  Her death is tragic and I am trying to separate the disappointment and anger over the situation and remember and honor her.  I hadn't been in touch and I so wish I had...busy working moms- it is hard to keep in touch with my friends here, my own family...my past work life friends aren't on the regular routine with communication as much.  Luckily Facebook keeps me connected to some and I was just reaching out to a few...need to do more.....but back to Lisa.

Lisa was one of the first women I met when I went to Detroit- Southfield, MI to interview with Federal-Mogul my senior spring- 1990.  I accepted the interview just because..I had no intention of going to work there- I was headed to Chicago to get a job in PR.  The how I ended up interviewing and that process is it's own blog...probably a past one.....Anyway- I remember meeting Lisa and enjoying our conversation, the interview and her presence.  Our work lives continued to crisscross- figure eight style for years.  Eventually we ended up peers on an incredible team in the call center environment.  Lisa was always positive, encouraging, patient, kind....I shed tears as I type this knowing she is gone from each of her family, her friends and coworkers.  I remember visiting her home - always offering wonderful hospitality and making you feel loved.  She hosted a wedding shower for us with Michigan friends that was so very special. I was blessed and lucky to have had Lisa showing me the way- a very early professional and personal role model on so many levels.

I haven't thought of myself with a STEM(science, technology, engineering and math) career. I'm a fundraiser, a connector, an advocate for supporting things you love, a partner to develop and advance the mission of organizations I believe in- one in particular that lucky me- compensates me for the effort. But back in the day I worked for an automotive company.  In training classes I took V6 engines apart and put them back together. I matched bearings for combines in Nebraska. I checked quality processes on packaging lines in Kentucky and understood telephony routing in the call center in Detroit. I would not have done any of those things with out Lisa's positive encouragement and leadership.  Thank you Lisa.  Thank you to all my Federal-Mogul friends and co-workers, teammates and managers. I learned a great deal that makes me able to do what I do today and lets me value what we need to do to help the next generation, the future work force.  Your life made a difference in so many ways. My life on Newark-Granville road is filled with figure eights and I'm glad we had so many in and outs....I'm so sorry there will be no more direct ones on this earth.

Tuesday, July 16, 2013

b,p,p....

Business, Politics and Philanthropy- my day today.  I started with the Licking County Chamber's Leaders Breakfast. A wonderful panel of leaders shared perspectives about their businesses. Each speaker had their own style and gave different views of their working worlds.  There were some connections....technology- no way around it we all have to embrace and utilize it.  Here I am blogging way on my i-pad with key pad...I'm liking this option.  But so many more to embrace and really use....love to know your favorite- can't live with out, helps you work aps....

I always love to hear about the  growth and development of our community businesses.  There is a lot to be proud of in Licking County and a lot to be inspired for our future.  Manufacturing is alive and well, innovators continue to innovate- we have a strong community. These leaders value preparing the future work force and the efforts are community embraces to do just that....I found the business part of my morning a wonderful start to the day.

Lunch time included Politics in Pataskala.  I sooooo enjoy the Pataskala Chamber meetings.  Great folks and good things happen in this growing community. Congressman Tiberi addressed the group and I appreciated the time to think about our nation's situation, the leadership's direction and various point of view.

The day ended with 100 plus women of Licking County at the beautiful Granville Inn. I am so pleased to have united with a team for this year.  Three incredible women spoke on behalf of three wonderful organizations and efforts making big differences in our community. And LOTS of awesome women were there to learn, encourage, cry, cheer and share our way to supporting them.  The philanthropic energy was incredible.

It has been a full day and I will sleep well on Newark-Granville Road...wonder what I'll dream about tonight....

Monday, July 15, 2013

Why attend 100 plus Women that Care of Licking County......

Tomorrow evening women will gather at the Granville Inn...women from all over Licking County.  Some have been part of this from the very beginning- a year ago....some just attending to get the scoop. Some on their own as individual participants, some with a team....no matter what together they connect and make a difference, have a big impact in more ways than one.

The gist is you commit and you get the option to put a charity up to vote.  3 will be selected and then the membership votes on who gets all the committed money.  $100 for individuals, totally $100 for the team.  If you are on a team you share the opportunity to nominate a charity and you share the vote.  A $100 certainly makes a difference to an organization. As the development officer for a local non-profit and as a volunteer fundraiser for groups, church, school...I can tell you $100 is wonderful and valued.  However 100 x 100 or 100 x 50....wow!  Seriously things happen with that funding and it happens because women get together tomorrow. Our leadership sets the dates, sends the message and says- lets make a BIG difference, lets have an impact on the people in our lives, in our community.

So I say- join me, be part of this or at least check it out.  Friends reading this- reach out to others and invite them!  Men reading this- send your wives, sisters, girlfriends, daughters, nieces, neighbors....Email me at ssleithauser@gmail.com or call or text me at 614 507 0751 come with me...I'll help you find a team, introduce you to my wonderful friends that are part of this difference in Licking County.  Life on Newark-Granville Road is always sweeter the night after I've been this group and seen philanthropy at its best- I look forward to sharing that with you tomorrow night- Granville Inn, 6 pm social, 7 pm meeting. Done by 8!  I may even know a babysitter or two if you need that to help get you there!!

Sunday, July 14, 2013

Sermon was well timed....

Sermon today was about the good Samaritan and service had one of the nicest baptisms I've seen.  The beauty is it was more than just seeing...we participate. When a child of god is baptised we all accept responsibility for his/her upbringing.  Early in the morning we were Fire Chief Hussey at our neighbors, the next morning we're at his child's baptism...good Samaritans are all around us in our lives on Newark-Granville Road and we're blessed.  We can all be those Samaritans, we are all children of God and can help one another. Amen

well protected.

Did you see the fire truck on our end of Newark-Granville Road tonight?  All is OK. I've learned when you see a squad or fire truck you go offer to help and that is what I did tonight when we arrived home to the lights.  A random "natural cause" of glass magnifying sunlight causing fabric to burn/ smolder. The smoke set off an alarm and when neighbors came home they identified the need to call 911.  3-4 minutes and they were here...good to know our life is protected.

Pretty exciting end to a wonderful day in my life here on Newark-Granville Road.  Sally and Peter happy at Nana and Pap's. Joe and I happy for some time for us and work...oh yes and Griffey. Griffey's neighbor- Bodie the dog-seems OK too if you were worried.

Please take this lesson to makes sure everyone knows where your fire extinguishers are,that your smoke alarms work and talk about your plan for a fire. In our life on Newark-Granville Road the kids take us through these lessons in the 2nd grade- our fire fighters do a great job responding first and quickly but also with education to prepare us for nights like tonight.Thank you GFD!

Friday, July 12, 2013

2nd or 3rd Child at Camp....

So here is the scoop about taking Peter to camp.  A friend encouraged me to share it here as she assures me I'm not alone in this approach. Now that he is home and there is happy ending it is easier to show the world my inadequacies... Peter went to camp the Sunday after the holiday weekend. Which meant we packed for him in early July and then went about enjoying the holiday fun- fireworks late, out all day on the 4th of July with the 5K, parade, etc.., we went to a Clippers game for my birthday and then up to the lake...from the lake to drop Peter off at camp.  At some point I realize we didn't have any paperwork- it never made it from the summer to do folder, Joe who was the point person on this camp never even saw the paperwork...yes communication with 3 active kids, 2 working parents things can get overlooked....or lost in a pile...We thought we knew what time Peter was to check in...

The morning we took Peter to camp was a lovely morning- the kids wanted to swim across the lake so we did- Peter kayaked anticipating camp energy would be needed. We had a yummy breakfast and "breakfast with Wimbledon treats"...we were excited we were 1/2 way to camp from the lake and departed a bit later than we thought we would but felt like we were in good shape..it was that happy holiday relaxation place....then reality hit.  15 minutes before we arrived in town (Wooster) we realized we should find the building and details on line- since we didn't have any paperwork- my bad.  We figured out we'd be arriving with 15 minutes left in the check-in process.  We realized Peter didn't have a pillow, a water bottle or an alarm clock...so the plan became to send me to Walmart and Joe would get him situated. We all did the check-in- at this point I realized Peter never really had lunch (and probably didn't eat a big breakfast) and it is now 2:45 pm...why hadn't we done the drive through for him on the way in to town. Reality is Peter usually tells us he is hungry- we figured out he was pretty nervous and not quite himself as we were checking-in. You all know Peter- outgoing, smiling, talkative...not this Peter. As we met coaches and engaged with the staff...Peter didn't smile or speak up..I was worried.  However I had to get to Walmart....

I was able to get to the store and procure his things in a timely matter, however not before it was time for Peter to report in the gym ready to go.  When I returned to campus Joe had his room key and took me there to apply the forgotten items.  I was disappointed they didn't assign Peter a roommate and I was worried he'd be very lonely and oversleep.    We took his bag with room key and filled water bottle back to the gym- I was hopeful I could get my goodbye hug in....no such luck.  We waved across the gym and blew-a-kiss- that was it.  Poor me- not getting that hug was torture for me.  The only good thing was seeing his smile as he was in a gym with a room full of other kids there to do what they all love to do- play ball. That would have to carry me for the next few days.

The first day was the hardest as I described in my earlier blog about needing to cheer myself up. Work, quality Sally time, Joe's encouragement and Clare's good news helped me realize he would be fine. I rationalized even if he wasn't happy, he was safe and would learn from the experience.  The good news is when Joe picked him up and put his phone in Peter's hands to call me the energy on that call was amazing. Peter was beaming via the cell signal happy as could be.  When I finally got my hug- the welcome home hug it was filled with appreciation for his time away and to be welcomed home.  The next morning he cuddled up and told me all about the time at camp.  The reality is he did oversleep one morning, he was missing anti-itch cream, he was indeed starving that day and didn't eat until 5 pm....but he made up for it with unlimited pasta and ice cream in the college dining hall for both lunch and dinner every day he was there. He didn't have enough money to go bowling but hung out, and didn't mind living alone and the best news- he can't wait to go back next year.  Parenting is indeed the hardest and most rewarding thing we do, the tests and challenges get harder and I know these are easy compared with what it is to come. I just never really thought about how much growing up as a parent I do as they grow up too.....Life on Newark-Granville Road is filled with imperfection, we forgive and move on, laugh and learn, cry and yell, smile and laugh, kiss and make-up.  Who knows how Sally will ever get to camp....we've always said we treated Clare like a 2nd child- we were not overly worried about germs and things over anxious 1st time parents were....our approach to camp may prove the point.

Thursday, July 11, 2013

I scream, I scream, we all scream for ice cream.....

A simple evening with a good dinner and friends...the past beloved salad wasn't quite as good (the appetizers were and the cocktail though) and to wrap up a lovely evening my sweet tooth kicked in...what is a girl to do. Whit's was closed so I ended up at the IGA (Granville Market) picking up Jeni's....I wanted something unique and Jeni's delivered.  Something to share with Joe when I arrived home....Whiskey Pecan was the choice!  Yummmm.....and the good news I dished it up in ramekins and put a bunch back for another night......

Life on Newark-Granville Road has me sweetly satisfied- hope all is well with you!  It may also be due to the fact that Peter is home from his camp- happy happy happy- wanting to return, fine with not having a roommate, overslept one morning and did OK with his minimal packing by his parents- no food for his room, only $4 in cash, no phone, a small bedside fan.  I'm pretty proud of him and appreciated his hug and cuddle to tell me all about it last night- no blog last night!  I also breath a little deeper knowing Clare is happy and her cold almost gone- I received another letter, my sister received a letter as well as my mother- both called and read me the letters!  We'll wrap up a full fun week at work tomorrow- hope you'll join the fun at Music in the Courtyard 11:30-1:30 @ the Works! Velvet Ice Cream and Dad's Root beer will allow us to toast the joy in our lives with root beer floats- yes life is sweet on Newark-Granville Road!

Tuesday, July 9, 2013

why I support Pelotonia

Unfortunately cancer is part of my life on Newark-Granville Road, too much so. However there is lots of good news around that statement.  Closest is all the success and healing.  My sister continues to do so very well- Louisa- her daughter will be five in August. Sarah's Ovarian Cancer diagnosis came shortly after her delivery.  Way way too many friends in my adult life have battled this disease, this disease that needs to be stopped and it will be stopped because amazing efforts in our world today. One of those efforts is Pelotonia.

Pelotonia is an amazing movement and I support each and everyone of those involved. I wish I could take the time to donate to each individual effort- there are so many riders and Pelotons I want to donate to...however I chose one tonight and made my on-line gift.  I hope you will do the same.  I am a volunteer lover- I can't do my job without volunteers.  I wouldn't of had so many of my greatest experiences without volunteers, I was raised by incredible and inspiring volunteers. So when I read Janice LoRaso's "why I volunteer" on her Pelotonia page I made my decision- that is where my money is directed this year.

I think it was Kevin Plaugher that called my attention to support his ride- my first gift to Pelotonia years ago. Witnessing the death of his mother and sister to this disease were two of the saddest unforgettable moments in my time on Newark-Granville Road. Bob Baldwin is still so very missed in my life on Newark-Granville Road. Through the pain comes inspiration and energy to move forward. Brett Jump's incredible journey and lessons for all of us has inspired and rallied this community in so many ways and her husband Ben (our dentist) love and commitment and leadership in this fight deserve kudos and actions of giving.  Erin Kennedy's amazing and heroic fight with unbelievable grace and stamina- she attributes research for her ability not to just go on but volunteer and make a difference all while in treatment- it is why I support this one cause event and movement- end cancer. The good news is so many survivors- Kay, Medha, Tina, Judy, and too many I'm forgetting or don't even know are survivors- give us that hope and inspire this support tonight.

I could go on and on...all the new riders- Jeni, Tami...all the riders that keep riding and share the stories... Jennifer, Ben, Hugh, Bill, Laura, Joan...all the virtual riders...Kelly, Laura, Jen...I'm going to leave way too many people out and I'm sorry. Bed calls and I've wanted to get this post up for some time.  Please look around, be aware of the events and ways to support these groups and individuals raising money.  Encourage and support in any way you can these riders and their efforts to end cancer!   Life on Newark-Granville Road has too much cancer and we can all do something about that....MCC friends- attend the dinner dance on July 19th for me.  Kay Barton's efforts are incredible and a wonderful night is in store- this long standing incredible tradition deserves support. Licking County non riders/volunteers-August 8th know that we can cheer on our riders as many ride through Granville on Broadway!! (Newark-Granville Road west...) and we can support the efforts with our dollars- they all add up and make a difference   http://pelotonia.org

Monday, July 8, 2013

what a difference a letter makes!

Ahhh it finally arrived- the letter! The letter I've been waiting for to get a hint of what is happening in West Virginia with Clare Catherine.....And that wonderful postman actually delivered not one, but two - one to me and one to Sally and Peter. Yay Nana for giving Clare addressed and stamped envelopes- I'm not sure she would of reached out to her siblings on her own...well maybe.  She actually told them that she loved them and missed them.  She also says she has a cold....poor baby! I will mail tissues and goggles tomorrow- her request in that note.  In my birthday card letter she requested brain games for rest time....Nana put those in the mail today.  Bonus points for Nana!  I mailed more stamps and comics and soduko from the Hagerstown newspaper (see yesterday's blog!).

She answered my big question- what is she eating. Turns out she likes southern cooking- fried chicken. I remember that fried chicken...Sunday mid day meal....my mouth waters and I want to lick my fingers.  In her siblings note I learned she was not a fan of beanies and weenies...Pap will be disappointed. Funny- Sally and Peter loved baked beans.  

I've always been a fan of mail, real letters. I know my hand writing isn't easy to read but I hope my readers appreciate the hand written sentiment. I read this blog a few weeks ago and knew I'd get to share it at some point as I reflected on Clare's camp life.  This author does a great job and I find it refreshing to hear this sentiment from a teenager.  I know a number of great kids that think like this but I know we all get pulled into the electronic world and the diversion, distraction, connection it offers.  

The letter did indeed lift my spirits.  Saying I was holding my breath, watching the mail box like a pot on to boil may be going a bit far but I do feel relief knowing she is good.  The universe knew I needed contact as to make it all happier of days on Newark-Granville Road the camp photo posting page captured Clare straight on- full page- no need to magnify and guess is that she? Sure enough Clare with happy Blue spirit (Blue or Grey fun camp competition) arms wrapped around other girls- ahhhhh!! So I read about her happiness and saw it with my own eyes.  And an email from a counselor arrived today as well giving me insights Clare won't- she is taking some leadership roles with flag duty and...guess what...mail call! Can you see why I love this camp- no electronics, bed inspections, chores, singing, time to be a kid, sleeping in a platform tent, swimming in a river, canoes.....yes if I could go back I would!  

If you would like to mail a letter to Clare she can be reached at Camp Alleghany, Tent 24J, PO Box 86, Lewisburg, WV24901-0086  I doubt if she'll write you back...maybe a post card from the beach after camp.... All this mail talk makes me wonder....What mail call experiences do you remember?  I vaguely recall CA's mail call- I can feel the heat of the day and have some memory.  The big mail fun was Denison and our Slayter boxes....mail from home was such a treat.  I wonder how much mail kids get today at college.  I love the written letter, card and don't want to see it go extinct- I wonder what the camp or being away from home experience is on one's relationship with mail. Was it camp where I learned to value and appreciate this form of correspondence?  I know our USPS isn't making money and has issues....my visit to the post office today sure shows it busy. Often I stand in line...I'm sure mail is declining-we don't mail as much from Work as we use to and of course we like to be "green" and save paper but there is a balance act and I hope we'll encourage one another and write to one another.  All I know about mail for sure is life on Newark-Granville Road is all the better with mail delivery! I will sleep so very well!

Sunday, July 7, 2013

cheering myself up on a Sunday night....

I haven't had to do this in a long time...cheer myself up...find ways to get out of that melancholy place. This is the 2nd Sunday in a row I've been in this place and it takes me back to the Sundays when Joe and I were dating. We had a long distance relationship and Sundays were always filled with ups and downs- we'd only have Friday evening, Saturday and most of Sundays together so we'd focus on positive and time together, often using Sunday to plan future weekend gatherings.  But then we'd eventually have to depart to our work cities and say farewell to each other- and I'd get sad.  Often work and life could help distract the emptiness during the work week, plus email and phone calls would connect us.  Last Sunday I said goodbye to Clare for 3 weeks and it was difficult...today it was Peter only for a few days- he's at basketball camp at Wooster.  My head knows they're fine and this is good for them and probably me too- however my heart aches.

So after getting home and getting the cry out, getting Joe's feel better hug I went to work.  Tidying up, going through piles and putting things away made me happier.  Reading with Sally and talking with her lifted my spirits.  And I admit it- blogging is something I enjoy too- thinking about subjects matters- so here are a few highlights that made me happy...
-I swear the universe knew I was sad- I received two texts from friends that perked me right up- thank you friends- the check in was perfectly timed- can't wait to find time to connect!  Reaching out to say hello means so much. Lucky me had lots of this this weekend!
-Birthday fun- put away- scratch- found perfect places for my birthday gifts- love love the wonderful ways I was remembered and people thought of me.  Some fun cards and notes....the gift from my parents that I received last weekend- I moved things around in the corner cupboard and placed my gorgeous oyster plates. When unpacking the wrapping I smiled to enjoy the box- an old boot box that my children had decorated years ago at nana and pap's house.  They packed the plates in the "Hagerstown Sun"- the local newspaper from my hometown...I immediately went to read my horoscope- no luck...but I did find a sudoku to mail to Clare...no doubt the horoscope is with the crossword that my Dad kept....all these things filled my head with happy thoughts.

I'm still missing the kids but I'm not as blue....and having some tidying done and some tidying to look forward to as we have a simpler week with 2 or 3 children away...keeps my life on Newark-Granville Road a bit brighter.  Photo below of beloved gift from beloved parents....

Friday, July 5, 2013

celebrating birthday with baseball!

Yes- I'm choosing baseball over fireworks....family fun! Great card to celebrate and I can now say- the list as done as it can be....off to enjoy baseball! Have a great weekend!!


Thursday, July 4, 2013

loves a parade!

Happy 4th of July- it has been a wonderful mid-week holiday! Last night was fantastic-met and exceeded all expectations. Facebook posts reflect and share the fun.  In many ways the activities at OSU-N/COTC were like a parade.  We settled into our spot with friends and took the celebratory magic- wonderful music, fantastic fireworks and good good people.

Today's Granville fun was parade like as well- a full day with one event after the other in tradition and holiday fashion.  Sally and I cheered the parade of runners go by, return back and then we made it to town to cheer the finish of Peter and Joe!  I miss running that race and am committed to getting back there at some point.  The question is do we like to be in the parade or watch and why.....today's blog contemplation!

We love the annual 4th of July "Mile Long" Granville Parade for so many reasons. It really happens right down the street on Newark-Granville Road turned into Broadway.  We were exposed to it right away when we moved here and joined an amazing tradition with the Bridges on West Broadway- their hospitality amazing.  I remember caring for newborns and feeling as if the parade had stopped and continued just for me. We shared the fun with sooo many friends and family.  The next tradition was the kids love of riding in Craig Baldwin's truck with the opening political entries.  This kept us at the east end enjoying time with a great group of pals and happy kids.  Joe and I only participated when needed.  This year we made our way west on the other side of the street...and we loved the change of pace. We were perched higher and under a lovely tree, friends and good people all around with wonderful energy.  Peter and Sally abandoned us for a better candy-gathering location and did well. We love their Independence and teamwork.  The Kiwanis do a wonderful job making sure Granville had their traditions and it funds good things for our community- win-win! The parade's theme this year of "Hometown Heroes" was well executed and I was happy to be observing this year and cheering for all those that helped share the message about their heroic efforts- teaching, fighting a disease, raising funds, being an inspiration, leading a swim team, civic duties, proving music with rhythm and style, 4-H industries, Green Revolutions, Granville's reunioners, first responders and most importantly our veterans- all are heroes to me and make our hometown such a special place. I loved watching and taking in all of my parades today. I work hard and was happy for the holiday and am grateful for the amazing hospitality that was paraded out for my family and me. Granville gives my life on Newark-Granville Road much to cheer and celebrate this 4th of July.

Wednesday, July 3, 2013

Happy Birthday America

Life on Newark-Granville Road has our bunting out joining our community in showing our love for all things USA with a nod to our love of baseball, America's pasttime too!  I so value how this community embraces patriotism and appreciation for those that have, do and will protect our freedom.  Tuesday's Rotary meeting was amazing.  I appreciate those that made a day of patriotic music possible using their gifts to unite us in the effort.  We're packing up the picnic- yay Joe's WFH day- and heading out to launch the festive weekend.  Last year we escaped the storm damage and enjoyed family time in Maryland with the bonus of the Maryland Symphony's Antietam Battlefield celebration. Tonight we look forward to our own Newark-Granville Symphony and their special guest conductor!  Time with friends and new and old traditions mixed will make for a special 4th of July!  Let Freedom Ring and light up the sky on Newark-Granville Road!

Tuesday, July 2, 2013

growing up great.....

I love when work and life compliment one another- for me it happens almost every day and I'm fortunate!  And I love that my kids love where I work @ The Works: www.attheworks.org 
Many of you love the Works too and so I'm asking for your help.  A fantastic and fun learning opportunity will be at The Works next Tuesday- July 9th 11 am to 5 pm and it is FREE!  PNC Grow Up Great (a very special nation-wide program) is bringing their PNC Group Up Great Mobile Learning Adventure to our parking lot!   I need your help spreading the word.  I know how busy parents with young kids are- this time of year in particular.  Next week when the 4th of July fun isn't around- what to do....come to THE WORKS!  This adventure is designed for kids 3-6 years old with their parent/care giver.  Activities include: Touch Screen Kiosks, "What I Want to BE when I Grow Up" photo station, craft area and a give away table...Children under the age of 5 will also receive the "Happy, Healthy, Ready for School" multimedia kit!

Fliers have been posted around town but we all know word of mouth is the best!  Dear blog readers that are connected to young kids please help this opportunity be missed!  email me at susanleithauser@attheworks.org and I will send you the flier to forward to friends, co-workers, neighbors, etc...

By the way- that day is also Curious Kid day....at 10:30 in the courtyard Fairy Gardens with Wilsons...and Friday, July 9th...Music in the Courtyard and our friends at Matesich and Velvet are providing Root Bear Floats again...and Friday's sponsor is First Federal Savings (okay- pop in to my head the jingle Clare, Peter and Sally have been singing every time we drive by a First Federal branch-maybe we'll have them sing on Friday!!)

So as you can see my life on Newark-Granville Road merges with work pretty easily.  I could type for hours on this topic. However I'll wrap up this work day blog entry by saying thanks to these sponsors of The Works that make my life and our community's filled with great learning! In particular this week- PNC, Matesich Distributing, Velvet Ice Cream (national ice cream month!!), Wilson's and First Federal Savings. I hope to see you @ The Works on Tuesday and Friday!






Monday, July 1, 2013

going South.....

So I could easily make this whole blog about how much I'm going to miss Clare while she is at camp for 3 weeks!  I certainly did not think it would be that difficult for me to leave her. I was not anticipating missing her so much. I'm the "babywise" mom.  I'm so proud of her decision to go away for 3 weeks.  Many people told me- including my mother- and I thought- p-shaw- we'll be fine. Now I know- my mother (always) and the rest of those that said it- were right.  I'm waiting by the computer for an update of the photos on the website.  I'll be the one waiting by the mail box for the letter with any input about how it is going.  And once again I'm in the role my own mother was in some 34 years ago...except she didn't receive an email from the camp directors saying all went well and the activities included x and y for the first 24 hours.  There were no photos on line....and at that time camp was 3 1/2 weeks long I believe....Wow- another big thank you to Jeanne Stoner. I know what you did shaped me to be who I am and what I've accomplished.  The memories I'm grateful for now were gifts from you and Daddy.  Thank you for the inspiration to keep it going and for the empathy!

Okay- so I won't just talk about Clare at camp...I'll share some of the fun of returning south.  Yes returning as it is where I'm from, my birth place....Virginia Beach, Virginia!  I moved to Maryland not long after but Maryland is a border state with southern influence.  Ahhhh- country ham, biscuits, sweet tea as the only option...friendly friendly hellos and the accent- makes me smile. I so loved being in West Virginia, even if for less than 24 hours. I loved the windy roads, mountain peaks and colors that only the Appalachians can provide.  I spent the evening with my parents back at a destination we've met before- Hawk's Nest Lodge/State Park with incredible views of the New River Gorge! The hotel is a bit run down I'm afraid but it worked as a lovely place to catch-up with my parents and put us both an hour ahead of our return trips this morning.  http://www.nps.gov/neri/naturescience/the-new-river-fact-or-fiction.htm   Daddy asked this question last night and I enjoyed learning a bit more about this special part of the country- here is a link for you as well!  Joe and I have talked about bringing the kids here to understand the socio-economic and natural resource history....and even Clare perked up from her nap on yesterday's drive when I mentioned white water rafting....I left today knowing we'd be back.  The views are wonderful and it was good to be the only child and not have grandchildren's distractions!! It really was the perfect way to kick-off my birthday week (this is how I enticed them to join me!) ahhh life with just me...We were talking with Sally about what it will be like next week when Peter goes to camp and she is the only child.  It is nice from time to time not to share...I love my siblings and I know my children love one another but absence will make the heart grow fonder for all of us no doubt!

It was a quick trip- down and back in 30 hours but better than down and back in 14! FYI- the stop at Tamarack in Beckley was ideal- thank you for the tip!  Great rest rooms, lunch option, glass blowing studio, wood turning happening, it was nice to stretch our legs.  So I'm going to turn in now....but I'll be checking the website for updates from Clare.