Full Fun Day....all under one roof, around the table.....

A lovely lovely day- woke up rested and ready to go on my own...the alarm didn't go off.  Why?  I set my 6:30 wake up time for Saturday....today is Thursday! Funny thing- Joe did the same thing.  The quiet prep time was lovely- I pulled the turkey out of the cold brine, made the stuffing and had him in the oven by 8 am.  We cooked a bunch of bacon so we could have bacon sandwiches after the turkey trot to tide folks over during bloody mary time.

The race was a great morning activity for all of us.

  What fun to share this community event with our family.  Stoners are enjoying being at The Granville Inn being in the heart of the village. And village certainly shows its heart for Turkey Trot. The cool temps didn't bother us for long- great group out running. Loved the GIS team gathering and opportunity to run together.  I loved seeing my healthy sister running this year, my brother gets bonus points for moving along at a fun pace in his jeans.  The hula hoop was a fun way to engage with folks for me and share information about tomorrow's gathering at The Works (11-3!!)  I always enjoying seeing friends and introducing/re-connecting my family with friends- lots of that along the route!  I snuck in to baste the turkey thinking I'd stay put but the course called and I jumped back in to get some more exercise and time with friends!  It wrapped up in happy way back at the house with bevies, catch-up time and breakfast!!

Clare was the perfect hostess and equipped everyone in sledding attire and away they went....first time for the Sunshine Stoners- my brothers family from Oviedo Florida.  Louisa- our 5 year old niece hadn't gone sledding either - watching from the dining room window was a moment I'll never forget. Happy engaged kids that had just run/walked 3 miles charging the hill over and over again- THANK YOU Pfau family for your hill hospitality!  Figure eight moment- use to watch Clare sled with Pfau kids that took she and Peter over while Sally was newborn.

Showers and regrouping while dinner finished was nice transition to the focus point of the day.  It all worked so well- we have hours and hours of experience with Mom in the kitchen and tried and true preparation of favorites- Turkey, stuffing simple bread, celery, sage and onion, scalloped oysters, peas, sauerkraut, country ham- bonus little touch, veggie plate, cranberry, mashed potatoes and gravy.  It was a good meal and all engaged and enjoyed.  All of us under one roof, around one table, toasting, laughing enjoying family favorites- indeed filled with gratitude.  The gratitude tree was a new addition and a special touch.  The cousins unite to make their own fun- something new this gathering- fashion shows from my closet.  Kids asked for themes after dinner and came down 4 times with various outfits- we figured out their favorite high heels that remained constant with costume changes.

Mom's pies this year were particularly good.  often we'll take a walk between dinner and dessert- not this year the walking/ running at the trot in the morning did the trick.  We worked on the kitchen and enjoyed time at the table again.  Joe's fire this year particularly good- prefect backdrop to the day and where I sit now typing.  Watching Peter sit watching football eating peas, the Stoners enjoying turkey sandwiches and the kids plan their evening here while parents and grandparents return to hotel rooms- life on Newark-Granville Road has me indeed giving thanks.

Thanksgiving Eve.......

So the figure eights yesterday also included the fun of family arriving for Thanksgiving!  The blog's title evokes the need to report on true activities within the home on Newark-Granville Road and I'm happy to oblige this morning!  Yesterday's bad weather inspired my Maryland family to make their journey a day early- hooray! They arrived safely in the afternoon having stayed ahead of the storms for the most part.  Sarah and Greg arrived early enough to have Louisa visit Clare's school to surprise her and pick her up early from Math Counts- Clare was thrilled for many many reasons.  Nana and Pap had great timing as well- Pap was able to nap at The Inn and Nana met the kids off the bus- lucky me watched from the porch- Sally and Peter's faces were priceless as it computed who this was waiting for them with outstretched hands.  Louisa beams with love and happiness with abudnent energy when surrounded by cousins.  She may bubble over when the next set arrives!  Joe joined in with Turkey prep- making sure Friday errand completed, enough scotch was on hand and the turkey in the ready- plus a hair cut!!

It really worked well to have the crew settle in...Bodie the dog and Griffey figured one another out, relaxing time at the Inn- rooms across the hall, all girl delivery of Sally to the Nutcracker rehearsal to see her dressing room spot, a leisurely dinner at Brews and real conversations we've needed to have in person- Sarah and I figuring out medical genealogy steps in regard to cancer. The meal had everyone happy with their order and kids even topped it off with Whits.  Louisa stayed with us cuddling with Clare....Life on Newark-Granville Road is pretty full and special.  I count my blessings - I know this these days don't last forever and there are others missing family and loved ones.  I admire those helping others.

So Thanksgiving Eve....I LOVE Thanksgiving and the focus of family, food and friends- I'm off to work, duty calls but then some shopping and shuttling to wrap up the day with food my Mom brought and the arrival of my brother and his family!  The Stoner arrival is figure eight on Newark-Granville Road as my siblings are Denison alums and our family has been like figure eighting from Granville since 1985 when we stayed at the Buxton and explored the fair college on the hill.  It is a magical place and I loved hearing Sarah tell Louisa she'd give her a tour.  The snow this year is early but beautiful our village glistens and delights.  Take care and thanks for reading and sharing my life on Newark-Granville Road. I'm off to embrace the preperation process of Thanksgiving Eve.

Figure Eights over and over......

I admit the week has had its stress and as much as I wish I could roll with it, ride the wave, sit loosely people know when I'm dealing with stress. There is a lot to do at work, at home- all good, all important but just a lot at once.  And then I'm given a wonderful reminder of the good work that is being done and I soak it all in and I am able to roll with it again.....THANK YOU OSUN, Campus Compact and the Pay It Forward Program!  What a treat it was to visit the geography class today and learn about students hands-on learning about philanthropy, industry in our community, heritage of glass and so much more!

Students were given opportunities to volunteer at The Works, The Heisey Museum and with Licking County Recycling.  Then these organizations applied for Grant funds and the students determined financial awards.  Today we received our rewards- not only financial but the lessons they've learned and relationship appreciation- it was amazing to experience first hand.

So why do I consider the time in the classroom figure eight material?  First as I explained to the students- Howard LeFevre.  This OSU alumnus was no doubt smiling on us today.  He created the works and OSU-N/COTC because of his high regard for education and life long learning.  He and Marcia created a thriving hands-on learning experience.  So for the two to meet today, for hands-on experiential learning about industry to happen as part of an OSU-N class @ The works- what could be more figure eight than that!  The other fun for me was I'm working on a grant report.  A report that is to showcase deep learning.  There is no doubt about it- deep learning is happening with the students today. Deep appreciation and understanding of philanthropy, community pride, innovation, natural resource value and many other concepts from the classroom I valued learning about today!

And finally anthropology!  I'm so pleased to share we received an amazing check (pretend for now) signed by each student to support The Works Anthropology Camp and Programming coming soon!!  We've had a great experience with a dig at the canal's lock no 9 site and Allison was with us as a counselor.  Now she is back and bringing her passion and field of study with her- Anthropology returns!  And these students and this program made it happen- with great team work of our education and development team- woo hoo! Figure eights all over the place..making Life on Newark-Granville Road an in-motion joy of learning, connecting, giving and receiving!

innovation and change.....

I love innovation.  My father would sit around the dinner table with us and talk about inventions.  It is no wonder I work at a museum built around innovation and invention.  But reality I don't always embrace the change innovation demands, but it makes its way in to my life and I embrace it.

Silly thing- the grapefruit knife.  I was shopping at the church mission fundraiser Holiday Harvest event- the Grandma's Attic boutique is a favorite.  When buying silver knifes, grapefruit spoons!!! and ultimately the full length mink that keeps me super warm today..I also went with the $1 grapefruit knife when given the chance.  I had seen it but thought- who needs that- innovation- a serrated knife works just fine.  Reality is the regular old teaspoons work too but the silver antique is kind of a thing I love....going back in time and a utensil for everything, knowing their purposes- very cool. But the modern knife to do a task- nah. However in the name of mission and the low price of $1- I brought it home.  I used it today- wow! How cool- one end has two blades parallel to sever the flesh perfectly- so one movement replaces two- reduction of footsteps/handsteps!!  Then on the flip side of the tool is a curved blade to easily and quickly make the next movement.  Reality is I probably saved all of 10 seconds but it was fun to hold innovation in my hand.

IOS7.....I've been avoiding it on my i-phone. But I cracked my screen yesterday- ARGH- and it just drove me nuts to have it like that...Joe agreed I could take the time and funds to replace it.  Clare used an old one of mine that was broken/cracked as an itouch for years- drove me nuts. I don't think of myself as OCD and I live with not so perfect things everywhere...but not on the phone.  The service at the apple store started a bit shakey but it was in part to my being in a hurry and the not wanting to pay the ridiculous price for a new screen.  Turns out they don't even replace the screen- the replace the whole phone.  Lets hear it for automatic backup with the "cloud"...who knew I was even doing that...the cloud totally baffles me and was what was keeping me from going to IOS7 as I have all these photos on my phone that were on my computer and I thought were taking up space that wouldn't allow me to easily go to the IOS7....well the new phone came with the IOS7 on it so when my phone downloaded my back-up from my cloud (is this a fairy tale) there it was...we'll see how it goes...innovation galore at that Apple store- wow!


So there is a sneak peak at my life on Newark-Granville Road...innovation and change for me. I'll keep you posted on how it goes....but know if you're going to replace the screen- it isnt' cheap and will take longer than you anticipate.

singing out loud......

tonight is a night to cherish!  Clare and I hurried up and did our work so we could go see "Catching Fire"- movie.  How nice that my teenager...13!!...Okay with going to a movie with me.  We both read the books. Joe and I took her to the first one- hard subject/topic-the 2nd one is more collaborative and has a better feel.

Then we met the family at MCC for dinner.  It started a bit rough with goofy behavior. A delicious meal was had and enjoyed. Nice group in there and when it was down the the last three parties- all people we really enjoy- the kids were themselves- singing in quiet with earphones in making us all smile.  By the very end- headphones out and pure sing-along dance party in the MCC dining room.....life on Newark-Granville is filled with laughter, music and love.

the cocktail napkins say it all.....

We did a fair amount of cleaning up tonight....company is coming...and they'll be all over the house! The basement got a fair amount of attention- more just put-away, declutter and pitch- all over due!  I broke a beloved wedding gift- sniff sniff.....my fault completely...I rebounded pretty well.  I will miss it. I used it a fair amount and might even have a photo of it somewhere.  I found all 3 children's baby books and that made me smile- I can't wait to share them- they'll love it!  They found their art boxes and it was hard not to let them dig in- but we had work to do!

I also put my table cloth on the table....a gift from my Mom's cousin/my god-mother Judy.  My father brought her a linen table cloth from his time in the Navy and she had stopped using it.  When she moved back to Maryland she realized this- lucky me!  It looks beautiful on my table and will be a nice addition for Thanksgiving this year.

While doing that I went into organizing mode- the linen and silver drawers got my attention.  With this came the cocktail napkins....there it was - the mantra I needed and mentioned in the last blog.  "Keep Calm and and Gobble On"....life goes on during this amazing holiday- we just gobble gobble and keep on going.  We're making our lists and crossing things off...making progress..making progress!  The other napkin I love is just a big old roasted turkey on top of car- so perfect for Granville! I'm going to make that my profile pic on Facebook for this week- just to help keep me centered and focused!  There were some other great napkins in the drawer- come on over for a cocktail and I'll share them with you! Life on Newark-Granville Road loves company and cocktail time and Thanksgiving has both!

next two weeks.......

On Monday I had one of those....how are we going to get through the next two weeks....and not because I dread them- I love them. I LOVE Thanksgiving. I love that I'm hosting my families this year, I love that Sally is dancing in the Nutcracker. I LOVE the theme for Holiday Homecoming and this amazing event.  It just all that has to be done with that, along with, the regular work and extra things we're juggling like interviewing Grant writers that adds up.  You all know what I mean- you feel it too. I truly don't need to hear how many days until Christmas as that will put me over the edge as Tgiving is late and Xmas will come early.....but I can't go there- I have to stay in the Thanksgiving place.  The place about being grateful and appreciating and gathering family and friends.

I can only do this with extroverting about it- hence this blog post. Extroverting with Joe about it as we lay in bed in the morning- he's on his phone and I've got my eyes shut hoping to get a tiny big more peaceful nothing in...other than brain time juggling concern....but with a hug and a kiss we say- we'll get through it.  I need to find a new phrase- getting it through it isn't what I want- I don't want to miss it. So much joy and happiness comes from it...I just need to coach myself and accept and roll with it....oh yes....Sit Loosely in the Saddle...Ride the Wave....embrace the day....embrace the busy....I'll get there....maybe we'll talk about it at dinner- the kids can help me with a mantra!! Maybe we'll find something basketball oriented....be in the zone?  We're in transition mode- I haven't figured out who goes where how with all 3 playing basketball- we'll get there- coaches are communicating- woo hoo! I'm grateful for parent partners who give rides and figure it out with me.  I'm grateful for parent coaches leading and giving our kids these opportunities. I'm grateful for all that is happening with Sally's Nutcracker experience- I hope you've purchased your tickets- call the Midland- so many great efforts- the youth and their leaders put on an amazing show- Tgiving weekend Fri 8 pm, Sat matinee and evening 7:30 and Sunday Matinee.  I'm grateful for all Stoners and Leithausers making their way to Granville for our assigned celebrations and support of Sally. I'm grateful for the coworkers and colleagues, volunteers and donors- doing such good things for The Works.  I'm grateful for the friends that join me in sitting loosely on Newark-Granville Road.

when I grow up......

I'm sure I've blogged about this before and I should of asked my kids before they went to bed to document their perspective at this moment.....what do they want to be when they grow up?  The inspiration for the blog entry tonight-  the Licking County Career Fair today!  Every 9th grader in Licking County visits Denison's Mitchell Center with a full gamut of careers represented.

This is an impressive undertaking by CTEC- not just the coordination, logistics, recruiting, preparation. But also the way it is executed with their student staff hosts- such hospitality, smiles, eye contact, professionalism from young people today- wow!

Unfortunately not many people stopped to talk to The Works.  This was my first year and maybe we needed to do a better job of making our table reflect the fun of our jobs?!  When I think back to what I wanted to be in the 9th grade....Development Director, Museum Director wasn't on the list- I'm not sure the young Susan Stoner would of stopped either.  Where would I have gone.....I remember wanting to be an orthodontist.  I didn't have braces?  Looking back it makes sense, now that I have a daughter with braces and impressive orthodontics practice (Crock Orthodontics) it is about people and process.  Dr. Crock has a great staff and wonderful processes- innovation, technology, relationships all tie to that as well. But at 14 I had no knowledge of why I wanted to do what I wanted to do. It sounded good.  I wonder how many of those students today will go into law enforcement- they all walked right by us and right up to those impressive police dogs and folks in uniform!

While we sat and watched the 9th grade world go by we chuckled about dress code, uniforms and reminisced about what we wore in the 9th grade. Button downs, LL Bean Blutchers, jeans....button fly for me probably.  Not what they were wearing today....short skirts, tight leggings, short in front, long in back skirts, jeans with holes, I went in expecting professional dress- but that wasn't a realistic expectation- pulled together school outfits were what I altered my perspective too and they looked pretty good.  Okay not the jeans with holes, but the bow ties and jackets, and belted dresses all made me smile. Just as I shook my head at flip flops on Denison students, I shake my head at short skirts with no hose/tights. But how quickly I forget going without socks in January making the trek down skin hill and up to fraternity row.  I took some notes to share but the phone needs to charge...I was impressed with the lack of cell phone use and energetic interaction within their groups.  I just wish there had been more interaction with us!

I was there because I believe in those kids. I'm working for those kids- each of them! Licking County has so much to offer- careers, preparation for life- here or anywhere!  There is so much to be inspired by and qualities and values to carry them to happy successful endeavors- no matter what their career choices.  Life on Newark-Granville Road isn't where I planned to be when I was in the 9th grade but I'm glad this is where I've landed.

and the lost shall be found......

http://www.lcounty.com/ac/lcaso/   Shout out to the Licking County Animal Shelter today...and all those involved with supporting dog and owner on Newark-Granville Road.  Not Griffey this time...but we've been there- we know that dread, frustration, fear that goes with missing pets. And the gratitude and relief when dogs are found and home.   Last night and today we were part of the team and supported dog and owner.  I was able to see first hand all those involved and I extend my gratitude here.  I have to call out the incredible care and involvement by the LC Animal Shelter- not only for the dog but the dogs' owner.  It is so good to see good people doing good work and I see a lot of it on Newark-Granville Road.

Church was really good today too- about keeping God's light shining in many ways- through gifts, talent, time.  Denison students and profs provided incredible music - blue grass- toe-tapping, smiling-bringing, sweet harmonies and voices and string picking that makes the Spirit soar.  My children asked to go to the 8:30 service for communion and I was rewarded with music.  It was also good to be together to ask for prayers for those that are lost and need help.  I certainly need help and appreciate the time to focus, reach out and be comforted.  I know first hand hand how many need so much more help than I do and how I can help.  I am grateful not only for what I have to care for my family and me, but for the efforts I'm part of- my church, The Works, my friendships and community that care and support.  Thanks for reading and being part of that help that allows to know I'm not lost, but very much at home on Newark-Granville Road.

Saturday Smiles.....

Just some ramblings today to document and share life on Newark-Granville Road.....right now I listen to Peter playing the trumpet to psych himself up for the Michigan game...yes in the midst of all this Ohio State world I have a Michigan fan. He just walked by with a blue and yellow helmet, blue and yellow sweats and a red jacket playing...da-da-da-da-d...lets go blue....as his Mom I'm just pleased I can tell the tune and it makes me smile not cover my ears!

Great morning at work- such talent, such incredible volunteers, such good energy of learning all @ The Works!!!  Connections galore too- figure eights working well!

Neighbors helping neighbors means a great deal to me today too.  I reached out for assistance and had immediate response- smiles with tears- lots of pain out there but progress, laughter and smiles mixed in to help healing and provide hope.

On facebook last night I posted the picture I put out on the blog just now- Matthew Watson Stoner- my brother- 16 months younger than me.  Clare and Peter are 18 months apart...love how I replicated my family pattern- my sister Sarah and our daughter Sarah are the "babies"!  Someone said recently I don't talk as much about Matthew as I do Sarah.  No reasons for this- I love them each deeply and am grateful and can't wait for them to arrive...Tgiving in Gville!  So another smile- a photo from a beach tradition the ferry to Ocracoke- Matthew and Dawn- love them!

Oh and last night's movie night- we ended up with "Firehouse Dog" Clare dvr-ed it and it was darling..I cried, laughed smiled with my babies.  Life on Newark-Granville Road is just like that but usually ends up with smiles one way or another.

Just me and the kids.......

I have fond memories of these kinds of weekends/ evenings.  Nights where I get to have the 3 kids to myself. Sometimes we go to the movies....I really want to see Capt. Phillips but wanted a movie at the same time for kids- didn't work.  We'll cuddle up for movie night now.  We kept the kitchen clean and went out-they choose Brews- nice to stay in town.  Coffee shop in the morning and the Works for work and fun!  I do get to go out tomorrow night and will bring in a sitter- they love that too.  Sunday we'll move forward and be happy to welcome Joe home...absence makes the heart grow fonder on Newark-Granville Road.

Projects, lists and to-dos.......

I saw a post today on facebook about Meyers-Briggs. MBTI.....I could type and blog for hours about this and maybe someday I will.  All I know is today my ENTJ was showing.  I go to bed this evening pleased that so many things are in progress and moving forward.  I actually was deleting instead of crossing things off my list....I've started using my notepad on my phone and this seemed easier than finding a way to make an electronic slash.

I studied the MBTI in Omaha with Federal-Mogul, it was a very helpful too with team building through a merger.  Then I asked to engage with it as part of a self- directed work team call center environment.  That was fun. I  was moved from Omaha to Southfield, MI to open be on the leadership team to open the center.  MBTI was a key part. I even travelled to Otto Kroeger Associates for certification- I loved it.  A whole week of studying and understanding how it all works and ties together.  It makes such sense to me- we have natural preferences, certain activities take and give various degrees of energy, as we age and mature we become more balanced and able to work within our preferences, times of stress push us back to those go-to behaviors.  The more we know about our co-works and family and know their preferences the easier and more productive we are.

My time in Southfield and the call center was exciting and part of career growth I'm grateful for many reasons- primarily the people and the team we were. The leadership that was exemplified and taught. The care and energy we gave our product, project and colleagues.  I was able to carry MBTI work with me way beyond that position and I smile as I recall having Joe complete the indicator on an early date- maybe the 2nd.  He too is an MBTI...who says only opposites attract.

Life on Newark-Granville Road has many behaviors and preferences...including project management, lists and to-dos that get crossed off and still wait for their turn.

Favorite Desserts.....

What are your favorite desserts?  In my life on Newark-Granville Road- ice cream has to be at the top of the list.  The kids eat more Whit's than anything else.....okay maybe when the candy jar is full (Halloween, 4th of July, Easter...in that order....it is empty as they didn't collect as much this trick-or-treat and the punishment of throwing away a handful for every wrapper I found on the ground expedited emptying the jar).  Cookies don't last long around here either- homemade- chocolate chip, thumbprints, need to make some molasses cookies/ginger snaps- they like the store bought or bake sale version of those.  Joe and I really like Flan...helped Clare make it for her Spanish Class event.  We lucked out and had left overs.....not thinking flan would be that popular with the 7th graders? I follow my father and like tapioca- has to be made from scratch with whipped egg whites.  That meringue and chocolate mouse layer thing I made years ago with friends was INCREDIBLE a top ten dessert for me.  I love a good cream puff-puff pastry in general.  Good ole birthday cakes- chocolate with chocolate or angel food and fruit- no frosting....yummmm  We don't eat as much pie here but do enjoy it. Aunt Ann makes a really good one! Pecan is my favorite.  When we have fresh berries we'll make buckle or muffins or crumble. A good peach cobbler is pretty darn good too.....Reality is desserts are for special occasions- we didn't have dessert every day growing up and I've carried that over to my life on Newark-Granville Road.

with no phone......Cell Phone that is!

Yup- went "old school" today.  Not on purpose, Joe accidentally took my phone with him to work. So here is snapshot of Life on Newark-Granville Road today.....


1. Figured out phone was missing.  When leaving, as how could one possibly leave one's home without their phone.  I was taking Sally to 8:30 Orthodontist appointment. I hate to be late and to me when you are a new patient you arrive early.  So I was frantically looking for the phone.  This feels like a strong word but when I think back on my going up and down the stairs, calling the phone state...a "frantic light" or "frantic-ish" describes it well.
2.  Did well in appointment without the phone.  Good things I did fill out forms ahead of time- phone holds data needed- like Joe's cell phone number.  Talked with Sally, enjoyed the waiting room photos. I'm sure you all missed me on facebook today!
3. Took Sally to school, left a note for a teacher to call me on my cell- whoops- hope Joe answers my phone today.
4. Went home to look for the phone - because again- how do people survive without the phone....and I HATE TO LOOSE THINGS!  I had used the phone in the am, I knew it was in the house, I wanted to find it.
5. I looked everywhere and determined that someone had taken my phone- if it was a child they would be grounded for the rest of month.  Sally even looked in her back-pack to make sure..I was already thinking this when I left the house with Sally.  Bad mother not trusting my children.....
6. I called Joe to warn him I didn't have a phone and ask him to make sure he answers his phone today in case emergency calls- school, etc....
7. Joe answered his phone and told me he had my phone.  Phew.  He was very very apologetic.  I told him okay. He immediately told me he had called a co-worker (who was off today) and tried to call The Works...but no one answered, but he didn't do the prompts to get to my extension.  We moved on to plans for communicating with me old-school.....call the Works- ext 234 to talk to me before 2.  After 2 leave messages at home, I would try to be home by 4 to engage with kids.  Joe also gave me updates on texts, I gave him verbiage to reply, etc....
8. I left the house knowing I hadn't lost my phone.  I left the house kind of relieved Joe was on phone duty and I wouldn't be distracted by it.  (I certainly missed interaction it gives me but it felt like a vacation- a break!!)
9. Okay some people do use the phone for function and scheduling- rides to basketball for Clare, piano lesson- flexibility in scheduling due to aforementioned basketball practice.  But someone both happened without my communications.

No doubt there is a healthy lesson in this and I'll embrace it.  But for now know I'm without my cell phone until Joe is home.....we'll see how basketball practice pick up happens......oh I can call him- we still have a land line!! We've talked about getting rid of it...then there are days like this in my life on Newark-Granville Road.

only 9:30 and happy happy happy!

So how did I get so happy by 9:30......
1. Beautiful Sunrise- soft pinks, grays, tangerines......
2. Exercise! with friend time- double happy happy!
3. Awesome breakfast- for the kids with Joe and take out from FPC's Holiday Harvest Fair- for me!!! The spinach egg casserole is divine! The coffee cake is a treat...miss making those.
4. Shopping with Clare at FPC's Holiday Harvest Fest!!  I wasn't going to go until later....but Clare said last night- let me know when you go.....my friend and I were remembering the past happy times there...so when I returned from walking the dog....Clare and I hopped in the car and popped in- so glad we did!  I love when she says..I love the food there!
5.Clare picked up an old compass- made me smile- she checked it against her i-phone compass....
6. I bought a new spooner! Life on Newark-Granville Road introduced me to spooners....a friend and neighbor uses one.....so I was on the look out for mine.  I found one a few years ago at above mentioned FPC Harvest Fest- didn't love the glass pattern but wanted it for function.  Yes I keep my spooner on my counter- you always need spoons- cereal, soup, scooping peanut butter, etc....just in time- always ready.....I bought a new spooner today!! Anyone need a spooner? If not I'll donate the old one back to the Grandma's Attic area of the holiday fair!
7. I bought all sorts of other little happy things....grapefruit spoons....for the spooner....fair trade chocolate for gifts, very cool craft bowls made out of recycled paper- go green, and some other misc things....All of this things are made or procured with love and support mission and the amazing effort of the women of our church.
8. I walked through our church and was greeted with love and care. The energy there is beautiful and I'm grateful a friend and daughter pointed me there.
9. Yesterday was an amazing day- amazing- wrapped up with beer and burger and sharing it with Joe.
10. Today is work day- house projects, Nutcracker project, and family movie night!
Yes Life on Newark-Granville Road is happy happy happy......

I hope you don't cross the street when you see me.....

I'm a person who isn't afraid to ask for money....I know you know this...many of you recently had me encourage you to learn more about the needs at our church and the importance of pledging....and of course I'm always asking for The Works...and if you are a classmate at Denison..I'm always asking around reunion time...so I hope when you see me you don't cross to the other side of the street.  I try not to ask that often. I try to let you know why I'm asking....

First- our government gives us incentive to give! Tax deductions!  Our government believes we're good people that support good organizations that help, improve people and communities.  I truly believe people are going to give somewhere because they care and the bonus is the benefit....and if you don't know about these good organizations, or are  not asked....you might over look (blank)- insert The Works, your church, your school, etc....

Second- my Dad taught me- like what is happening and want to stay in touch with a non-profit- get invited to the fun events, receive the newsletter, help a child experience it?  Then make a gift to support them. Stay on their mailing list.  And if you really like the place- volunteer, talk to the folks about how you can help with your time too.  By the way- my mother taught this to me as well- both parents walk their talk and lead by example.  So when you ask me- how do I do what I do- now you know- I inherited the ability. 

Third- I know that money really does make the world go around.  We're working on The Works budget and I know where the money goes and how much it takes.  A lot!  Church is in the same situation- in fact working @ The Works- amazing old buildings in downtown Newark- take a lot of upkeep.  Being here for this community, coordinating, delivering programing, keeping it really CLEAN and healthy- takes money. The same for FPC and all those non profits you care about and watch closely....money.  And every dollar adds up and matters.  THANK You to all those that support the amazing organizations in our communities- the food pantry, your own church, local museums, the united way, the local foundation, the band, the orchestra......

I also believe in the rising tide of philanthropy- we all lift one another up- when The Midland succeeds, so does The Works- love good things happening in downtown Newark- and lots of good things are happening!!  Licking County is an amazing place with lots of places that need your support.  Giving feels good and when we feel good it is contagious and makes our community and my life on Newark-Granville Road all the better!!  I hope you'll return the favor and tell me about the things you are supporting with your financial dollars!

wrapping up Cross Country......

I continue to be so impressed with the cross country program.  The coaches, the kids, the parents- it is all professional, positive and proven!  They get results.  These kids are progressing, winning, gaining confidence, poise and building relationships with one another, their coaches and themselves!

It was the end of the season banquet and a pleasure to be a part of- that is how we felt about the whole season.  It is such a nice thing to watch your child interact with other good kids, hear encouraging remarks and see her take them in with pride and confidence.

We don't wrap up running...races await- Turkey Trot- if you are near Licking County come on over- Thanksgiving morning- benefits the Food Pantry- and is a community building good time. Jingle Bell Run in Columbus for Juvenile Arthritis and keeping Griffey happy!  The Whit's run is an all time favorite on Newark-Granville Road.

inspirational lessons.....

A big thank you to the friend that gave me the opportunity to hear Liz Murray speak tonight.  WOW!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EtybvFW0ncY   Here is one small taste of what was shared tonight...I will buy and read her book- "Breaking Light"....I will apply some lessons learned and I will share more!  My big take was "you never know what the person that will change your life looks like, they all look the same".....Such an inspiring, articulate, impressive, wise young woman.  Staty tuned to Life on Newark-Granville Road....my life will be enriched thanks to tonight!

And woo- hoo for an election! Every election gives us information to learn, apply, share, inspire...gives us community connections, shines positive light on goodness....yes tonight's speaker helped shape this perspective.  The Granville School Levy has passed by a hair but it passed- THANK YOU to all that voted for it, to all that voted, to all that worked to support our education system for my/our children. THANK YOU to all those in other school districts....I'm sorry some school districts didn't get the results they wanted....learn and apply...try try again.....

Life on Newark-Granville Road provided many many lesson today...I sleep tonight inspired for the work that waits for me tomorrow.

VOTE!!! election day-Tuesday- Nov 5th!

Tomorrow morning, or today if you are reading this in the morning...is election day- please vote! New voting locations for many, live in the village- you're with me - my life on Newark-Granville Road takes me to the First Presbyterian Church on the corner of Broadway and Main Street!

Yes we're in the village.  A few houses behind us- township, house the west- township.....across the street- village.

Thanks to those that knew they couldn't vote today- and went ahead of time!!

Have a great Tuesday and election day!

Starting off November- preparing the kids.

Okay- trick-or-treat is over and so now I can embrace November.  Trick or Treat is suppose to be on (or if you live in Ohio) around October 31st.  Due to bad weather it was rescheduled for last night- Nov 3rd.  I love the the idea of trick or treat, and luckily I have a brain that can overlook the challenges that accompany it and recall the beauty.  Never mind it is always a rush and challenge to get out the door and costumes are never quite complete, and they come off or cause great annoyance to the "beggar" and last night in particular was cold and dark fast.  My life on Newark-Granville Road has a side walk on the other side and houses spread out and up hills....so few beggars make their way to us.  So we embrace the going out...leaving candy on the door step for those that want it.  Some year I will join us with friends in the village and help give out candy there or just walk and observe- I LOVE to see photos.  I asked Sally if she wanted the village this year- nope- she was happy to stick with tradition and make her way with friends through the sub-division across the street and into the planned community with easy to access landscaping. We're grateful for the social time and the kids are grateful for the candy.  Check it off and welcome November!

Church is always a good way for me to start me week and starting the month is extra special with communion at FPC.  Yesterday I was pleased the kids didnt' want to miss communion and were with me in the balcony.  We had special moment of coaching, coaching I received as an Elder in my 30s.  When the bread and wine are given to you, you say- "thanks be to God"....when serving someone else- you can say: the blood of salvation poured for you, the bread of life, body of Christ for you....it is the for you that I love.   The kids embraced this - they take communion seriously and with delight.  Yesterday was a moment that couldn't of been planned and was a gift.

John Weigand did the children's moment and gave us a gift as well.  He had chairs representing all the "generations" as defined by ??  who does define- gen x, y, baby boomer....hmmmm- I have some homework to do.  And I do- I left church yesterday wanting to know more about what my children will face as they mature and lead.  John put people representing the generations in the chairs and it was an impressive group- Janie Drake, Don Wiper, Barb Martin, Eric Miller, Amelia Anderson and Sally Leithauser.  John asked Sally as she was running into church. She did a great job.  She is gen Z...Amelia gen Y....I learned that Clare is the end of gen Y...Gen Y is going to be larger than the baby boomer group.  And the most common last name in America is or soon will be Rodriguez, not Smith.  All things to help Joe and I prepare our children.  Nothing I didn't really know - I've heard- but yesterday I listened and I want to apply it a bit more intentionally.  The big thought for John's presentation tied to All Saints Day and how the saints of yesterday and today are preparing the future generations from a spiritual perspective.  We're grateful for those that have gone before us and the work they have done and are doing- saints are among us- heaven is on earth- the gifts we are giving our children- not just those that live with us, but our neighbors, community and world children.  My life on Newark-Granville road is guided by this thought and yesterday's reminder and lessons were beautiful. November is off to a good start- I hope the same for you.

lets hear it for the parents.......real life Saturday morning....

Real life snap shot......Saturday morning sleep in...woo hoo! So rare and special- nothing scheduled this Saturday morning. And if there was I and I missed it- don't tell me!  I'm LOVING my morning.  I didn't get out of bed until I heard the coffee grinder.  I'm like a cat and the can opener.  I just looked out the front window- perfect timing- here rides Peter (helmet on!!) from town- he wanted coffee shop and we said no.  He whined and we still said no. He said can I ride my bike?  I said- not to River Road but to town...and he said OK.    He walked in the door- "HELLO EVERYONE, THAT WAS A GOOD BREAKFAST"...I saw the Millers, and Sam and the Kurtz.....

I'm also smelling yummy waffles Joe made for Sally.  Clare is sniffly with a cold so I will run out to get her some OJ and isn't happy about walking Griffey.  Sally - not sure what Saly is up to- I had an early morning hug- she is our earliest riser.  Laundry is on the to-do list as is basic catch up with Blogs, email.....and maybe a quick run with the dog for me.

Oh- so my topic- lets hear it for the Parents.....quick review of highlight of yesterday- my last Elementary School Halloween Party!   These parties happen because of the parents and awesome teachers that create a classroom atmosphere and coach the parents.  I've come a long way....

I remember the awkward Valentines Party I signed up to help with when Clare was in Pre School.  It was a disaster.  I spent way too much time prepping a play list for the CD (Ok I still love to run to that play list.)  There was miscommunication all around with the teacher. I took time off of work and ended up sitting in the hall most of the morning....and I don't remember much else.   And I just asked Clare- she remembers nothing about it.  I remember leaving saying to myself...I plan successful events all around the country, yet I can't execute a party for 4 year olds.

Fast forward to yesterday.  I've learned some things.  And I've learned these things from my fellow parents and friends. 1. Don't take responsibility for the whole party unless you really want to and know what you're doing with this age group and have a good relationship with the teacher.  2. Find an activity that you really like to offer- offer it and if they say yes- do it.  For me it is the "potions/experiments"beverages.  I saw a mom present this as a witch with potions- she was dressed up and had all sorts of bottles with powders-she was excellent!  The next year I borrowed it and had fun.  The next year I transformed it to "Mad Scientist" since I worked at The Works.  What fun!  I was so pleased yesterday when setting up a classmate of Sally's said- are you doing that again? with a happy expectation tone!  And Sally being pleased and grateful I was part of the fun.   Of course anyone that saw me at Walmart at 1:10 was shaking their head..I was getting those powders and Sally's panda tummy....but that is me and my life on Newark-Granville Road!  3.  Be OK when it doesn't work....it doesn't work for everyone.  Some class chemistry isn't the party thing...I've heard this from other friends and experienced it myself.  I lucked out this year.  I don't get to be in the classroom much and I value the chance to walk the halls and see the interactions happening.  I love this Granville Elementary tradition of the parade and greeting friends and seeing all the kids- kids I see at the pool, on the bus, on the playing field, at church...in their costumes.  I'm so impressed with the control Sally's teacher has in the classroom and the respect she has from the students. She playfully teaches and bonds with them in impressive ways.  I'm thankful to the parent that brought the good toilet paper for the mummy game.  The kids had a blast wrapping one another up...but the highlight was the team effort and smiles as they made Ms Browning into a Mummy.  Lots of parents chipped into make it fun- crafts, games, snacks galore- happy energy yesterday in that classroom.  And the take-home favor really made me smile...good ole PCA!  PCA helps soooo much at The Works - the corrugated puzzle/cut-out activities help make STEMfest and other events extra special.  Sally lucked out and took home a coffin....see the picture- very cool!  Lets hear it for that Dad linking work and school!

My life on Newark-Granville Road is rich and I'm grateful for the time this morning to reflect, share and soak in the joy.