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Tuesday, December 29, 2015

On the 5th Day of Christmas….

On the fifth day of Christmas my girlfriends gave to me- a five hour lunch…..Okay so it wasn't five hours but it was long and lovely and filled with great conversation, special thoughtful gifts and yummy food! And yes a mid day drinky-poo that is Oh so decadent!  The break from the break project- painting Sally's room, morning work catch-up at the office and family- what a treat! Worth its weight in gold!

Life on Newark-Granville Road today…yes Sally's room is getting painted. We're doing it ourselves and this is not an easy task for us.  Joe and I just are not home-improvement types.  We each have our reasons for not loving the task and I'll leave it at that.  What we are getting is a big old cleaning job, purging exercise and opportunity to delight Sally. She has asked for this for years!  It gets worse before it gets better and I strongly dislike the disruptions, displacement of stuff.  So any excuse to be out of the house- work, lunch, doctors office, hair cuts- I'll take.  I'll be first in line to put it back together and can't wait to get going on the next steps….making it Sally's big girl room.  What desk, which dresser where, what art…The big kids have taken the hint and embraced the chance….toy chests are in the attic, a chair moved down to the basement- minor cleaning and purging is a good thing for all of us.

Life on Newark-Granville Road is getting a face-lift and dust off- it isn't easy and is teaching us lots of lessons. It won't be perfect, but it is a process and we're doing it together in our own ways.  The fifth-day of Christmas is still Christmasy.

Presents from Girlfriends- pretty packages 2016!

Sunday, December 27, 2015

Cheers to Creative, Caring Christmas!

Our hosts started our holiday gathering with a champagne toast!  I know how fortunate we are to have family gathered in a beautiful home together.  Joe's brother and sister in law welcomed my parents to the Christmas celebration with Joe and Scott's parents- how lucky for our three kids to have four grandparents with them on Christmas.  Ann and Scott have a beautiful home and our kids adore being there.  Ann's lasagna and beef were perfect!  Mom and I had fun cooking together to add to the fesast- scalloped potoates, ceaser salad and pecan pie.  Everyone ooohed and ahhhed and was delightfully satisfied by the Christmas meal.

Thoughtful, caring and creative gifts carried the day….we all know one another and enjoy finding ways to celebrate and please one another!  For me it was the Shelbourne Farms Cheese Joe procured. It stayed in the fridge with a do not peak note on it for quite some time…I thought maybe Tennents beer but this is better! It takes me to a place we found off the beaten path that connects to our lives on Newark-Granville Road- design by Frederick Law Olmsted and Sons!  The visits to this part of Vermont were always a delight. The cheese will tantalize my taste buds and take me there for months!  A new bike- needed as my old one was stolen- supporting the Newark bike store and equipping me- yay!  Family memory photos made real- magnet and frames, Derby helpers, magazines, hand made lotion and ornaments, Tshirts just oh so perfect, clothing and jewelry perfect for the recipient. Our givers were indeed thoughtful and careful and brought Christmas joy all around on NG Road.

To surprise or not…that is the question. It is fun to give someone exactly what they want…but having someone identify what would please you, and they know you probably not buy yourself is pretty special.  Wrapping a gift to throw off the recipient can be part of the fun.  The desired monogram driving mocs were just that for me. My brother and sister-in-law wrapped up a flat box in the most beautiful way and I knew it would be a great gift- but I thought perhaps a scarf or blouse- something Lilly. Nope- the shoes were made to fit in the rectangle box and I was oh so happy at the reveal! Merry Merry to me!  Trying to surprise Clare was part of my fun.  She wanted and needed the new phone- we opted for the 6 instead of the 5 as reward for her good word. I wrapped the charger in a decoy box - it didn't work….she blew by it not noticing the subtle change in cord.  At least I was able to draw out her reveal….part of me think we could of just had the phone in her stocking and Christmas would of been complete.  Gifts are for the givers and we had fun making her day.  It helps us too- she is a good partner with coordinating rides and schedules and information.  Of course none of us need all these things.  What we need is love and support, caring and time and we're surrounded by friends and family far and near and that is what we toast this Christmas.

Merry Christmas-On the 2nd Day of Christmas Mama's Living Room came back…...

Yes we embrace all 12 days of Christmas starting on the 25th!  This year will be special as we will be here, I have lots of  time "off" and we jumped right in with gifts and giving to ourselves, our home and one another!  Regular readers will recall it was almost exactly a year ago that we arrived home from holiday travel to find our basement filled with six inches of water due to the water main break on the street.  Yesterday thanks to a caring family member it all worked out to borrow a trailer to pick up furniture we found at Granville Mercantile on High Street for the basement.  We moved in and last night watched our family movie there- not in the living room!  We also picked up a coffee table for the living room- a piece I've been in search of for quite some time.  It really helps complete the room's seating areas.  Life on Newark- Granville Road is using more of the whole house again and I am pleased!  Is the furniture what was in my mind?  Nope- but the price was right and function carries the day and it works in the space. We'll see where we evolve and how it all plays out as the rest of the wish list items and as decor is procured!  Yesterday had many many blessings and opportunities for which to give thanks. We are very grateful for the care and time together thanks to the light of the world.

As I reflect on the first day of Christmas sitting by the beautiful tree, that will stay up until at least Jan 6th, I can't help but think about our  break "to-do list" which is pretty ambitious and important- we need the garage back too and the rest of the basement needs attention and Sally is getting an updated room….and we're in Christmas mode with gifts to deliver, cards to address and mail….Putting it in writing is another step to success.  Piles- piles are my personal project on top of the house ones….it is time to take down the piles in my life on Newark-Granville Road!

Lets see what the third day of Christmas holds- I'm not sure we can be as productive as yesterday- what a gift and I believe reflections of the first day of  Christmas deserve their own post…I'll sign off and wish you continued gifts of Christmas as we wrap up 2015 and welcome 2016, thanks for sharing my life on Newark-Granville Road.

Thursday, December 24, 2015

Go to sleep you little babes, go to sleep you little babes….

Your papa has to wrap and Santa needs to come…..the day has been tradition and Spirit filled thanks to friends and family!  We're so close to saying "Merry Christmas" for real.  We said it after the 4:30 and 6:30 pm FPC services and it felt very true…..but we went back into "anticipation" and wait mode with a beautiful dinner.

So I almost got it all done.  We're wrapping just a few things from us and then waiting for Santa to arrive.  There are still some Christmas cards to mail and gifts to deliver to local friends- the 12 days of Christmas will give me that time.  We've savored the day today with family, friend and church in beautiful ways.

Life on Newark-Granville Road gathered around the table after ice skating--what a treat!  I remember well the idea when it was presented and it still holds true- great way to get the energy out of kids- let them skate!  The Prophater-Jump tradition has been around since before Sally! I pushed her on the ice in a stroller!  Now we connect with friends we may only see at this gathering. The day flies with the trip west and includes lunch at Max and Ermas.  A stop at the store to get the last needed items and then home to prepare for church! The beautiful church services had ample engagement by all three kids- Peter the narrator with Rose, Clare as Mary to Jack's Joseph and Sally in the choir and then Clare in the choir, Peter ushering and Sally with us. Nana and Pap appreciated experiencing it all first hand and value the worship and music.  Dinner at the table prepared with love by mother, daughter, grandmother was all we wanted it to be.  The plan set for tomorrow- another day to be celebrated and cherished on Newark-Granville Road!  The question is….when will Santa arrive. When can we put Griffey to bed and put out the cookies- the beer is waiting- Sally's instructions!

Wednesday, December 23, 2015

The night before, the night before…...

Dear friends have turned this day into one of my very favorite days of the year.  My mother's favorite day is tomorrow- Christmas Eve.  The anticipation, stillness, preparation….she always made it special and still does.  This year Mom and Dad are with us for "Leithauser" Christmas and I'm so grateful. They safely arrived today- over the mountains and through the fog…to their daughter's house they came!

We had a good day, a productive and lovely day on Newark-Granville Road. Joe needed to rest so I went to work early and came home early- the work will wait until next week.  Clare and I ran some final errands that were bonus errands- finding lights for the back staircase that is too dark, a swag of green for the back entrance, a gift or two.  We shared fun conversation and laughter- quality mother daughter time, similar to some interactions with my Mom in the past.  Much of our chatter was about expectations and preparation, savoring time and seeing the big picture.  Clare is growing up quite nicely- a gift I'll take this holiday season.  I also found missing objects- a pile that was shifted to an odd location.  Hints of missing mail and a request for a form sent me on the search! What a delight to open a Thanksgiving card, party invite (assumed inability to attend- family event far away) and some great catalogs!

Welcoming my parents to town was a treat and unloading the treats that accompanied them from Maryland was too!  My Mom makes the best Christmas cutout cookies- they are thin and crisp- sand tarts is what we call them and to me they define Christmas.  Christmas isn't Christmas until I have a Nana sand tart.  How wonderful to have them hand-delivered this year!  They made it to enjoy Clare's JV basketball game and Mom joined in on a beautiful holiday party hosted by good friends. I love when Moms meet Moms/parents/parents- it makes sense they get along and connect quickly.

The eve of the eve party is one we hate to miss and last year's family travel was worth it.  However this year I love being home, in my home, at parties with my friends, at my church.  I've set the table for our Christmas Eve dinner- my Mom is preparing. The meringues are in the oven, a few more minutes and I'll turn them off for their overnight set. They will be served with peppermint stick ice cream for a festive dessert.  A late night door knock was a pleasant surprise- the night is filled with love and friendship all around until the very end of the day.


Tomorrow we wake up and the day will fly with more traditions, fellowship and fun!  In the night we will celebrate the special birth of our King. We don't change our expectations for Him, we are inspired and in awe of the greatness he brings, the Hope and Love he shows, the world that is ready and waiting. Let us savor and be ready indeed.



Saturday, December 19, 2015

Dear Santa….

Dear Santa,

Yes I know the calendar date is the nineteenth, yes the nineteenth of December.  You know I'm one not to do too much holiday until December and being "just in time" is fine with me!  I embrace the twelve days of Christmas starting on the twenty-fifth! So if Mrs. Claus does not receive her Christmas Card/ Derby invite this week- no worries in my mind.  Isn't it fun to have the cards trickle in, even in early January?!!

So here is the list this year!  You do an amazing job with this list and I'm grateful. How can I not put one together when you've delivered "my" perfect boyfriend/husband, beautiful babies, Sebastian the convertible, and all the practical much needed things. I know you are working hard on the world peace on most lists too- thank you.

This year I would appreciate:
-more peace, less war and violence.
-to reach the stretch goal for the Denison Parents Fund- 1 million dollars and increased participation. Denison is doing such good things and the annual fund makes it possible.   Having parents and grandparents of students and alums support the college is important.  I buy into my father's philosophy- do you like to receive the magazine, stay in touch, value what the organization has done for you and the world- send them a check, stay on their list!  Every dollar counts and participation matters!
-Same for the Denison Annual Fund- I would like every Denison alum I know or have met to make a contribution/ participate!  We owe Denison so much and the annual fund- those that went before us!  Our education and experience is what it is thanks to philanthropic donors. Plus it feels good to give!  Participation affects the college rankings- so the more that give, the better we showcase! We deserve to be more highly ranked- Denison prepares students for rich, beautiful lives- everywhere!
-So on that note I'll ask for a Denison Vineyard Vine Polo- size XL- it is darling, love that the on-campus book store caries these!
-I always forget to put it on my list when I respond to my sister in law's email asking what I want…..lambs wool on the bottom flip-flops.  I think Bean makes them….Uggs use to….I've just learned how to wear real flip flops and I can't think of anything more comfortable. I saw a neighbor with them years ago…..Size 8 1/2.
-I need a new bike- want to ride more- so nice to be working in our beautiful town.
-happy, polite children- we're on it but we appreciate and accept help- it matters!
- support and engagement for the organizations we care deeply about- The Works, First Presbyterian Church, even Moundbuilders Country Club and so many more.
-good health and happiness to all those we know and love and you know need an extra dose- this ties to the first point about peace….we all need to have peace in our hearts- it helps.

I'll end with that and wish you a pleasant and happy ride on December 24th. Thank you for your work all year.  We Believe.

Warmly- Susan

Thursday, December 17, 2015

Go Big Red Christmas 2015 Card

Merry Christmas, Happy New Year, Belated Hannucah and Happy December.  We hope this finds you well. We are all about increasing Denison's visibility and I take it to heart!  I returned to work at Denison (I worked there from 1999-2005) in May with an exciting role working with Parent and Family Engagement and Philanthropy.  It made sense to do our holiday greeting photo shoot- at Denison!  This one is on the new turf- love the "go big red" red and field green- very Christmasy.
Since the kids probably won't go to Denison- never say never- we went ahead and let them get a Denison sports shirt that showcases their sport- more photos below.  Here is what is happening with:

Clare:  Currently on the JV basketball team for the Granville Blue Aces! She is loving her freshmen year of high school.  Latin is her new language, other favorites are the Global Studies class and program and yes- Geometry- lots of home work and study time.  She also ran cross country and looks forward to lacrosse in the spring.  She finished a third year at Camp Alleghany this summer and had a good time with nice friends.  You can find her at FPC too these days- confirmation class and choir. Not too much teenage stress in our lives, we're grateful.

Peter:  Currently running winter cross country, in the fall he juggled cross country and took up a new sport that included walking down the street to the now Denison Golf Course (a gift to the college).  Baseball - seems like there is always time for baseball too- playing, watching, talking about it- just like his Dad.  8th grade is a bit more challenging for Peter but he keeps up with it as I try to keep up with his growth.  Always smiling- on the swim team, tennis court, or while running with Griffey- Peter keeps us moving!

Sally- Our 5th grade girl is growing up too!  She loves lacrosse in the spring! Basketball is her winter sport with a great group of girls that also enjoy the soccer fields in the fall. Sally joined Clare as a Camp Alleghany Girl this year and loved it!  Water in the river was high so parents didn't go over on the barge to set up the tents- Clare was a big help and Sally the trooper!  Sally sings at FPC as well and enjoys being a girl scout- let us know if you need cookies!!

2015 had all sorts of fun with our family- celebrating 50th anniversaries- congratulations Nadine and Jim (were at Apple Valley Lake with Scott and Ann's family) and to Jeanne and Mike  (the Virginia Creeper Bike Path and Martha Washington Inn).  NYC for spring break and Thanksgiving in Maryland. The Greenbrier/Lewisburg, WVA with camp fun and the beach at OBX with the Stoner  "under one roof" tradition.  Joe is challenged and happy at Cardinal Health with data/IT work.  He  keeps things moving as I travel for this new role.  The family enjoys attending Denison activities and you can join us: check out the website http://denison.edu/events-calendar  many events are open to the public and so are the dining halls!  Also know our 25th Reunion at Denison was a stand-out 2015 memory- thank you to all those that traveled and were part of it. Those unable- you were missed- I blogged about that here…..http://lifeonnewark-granvilleroad.blogspot.com/2015/05/our-25th-denison-reunion.html

I could go on and on about the dog, work travel and dear friends I have loved reconnecting with this year and the wonderful support and good times we have here in our lives on Newark-Granville Road! Also know we still support and volunteer for The Works: Ohio Center for History, Art and Technology and encourage you to engage with us there! Instead of more typing for me I encourage you to scroll down and check out the blog entries and come back to stay-up on our happenings!!  Derby Details will be posted here in April- once invited, always invited, bring friends and those new to town on the first Saturday in May! Also bring your high school students to look at Denison and tell your friends, coworkers, neighbors! THEN let Susan know- leithauser@denison.edu! We're counting our blessings and thankful for the wonderful helpers, coachers, sitters, drivers, friends and family- all the supporters and those that share this beautiful life on Newark-Granville Road with us!  Pictures tell a fun story…here you go- Go Big Red-Denison holiday greeting photo shoot!  

 

 Joe did not attend the photo shoot- he never likes this activity- but this year it went well. Joe was cheering on the Big Red Basketball game instead. So here is a fun photo of Joe at Keeneland- we're always preparing for Derby and doing math on in our lives on Newark-Granville Road!   Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays and Woo-Hoo to 2016! Thank you for staying in touch.  Warmly- Joe, Susan, Clare, Peter and Sally

Sunday, December 13, 2015

Tree- traditions and change, updates and memories!


  Our December Newark-Granville  life now has a Christmas tree- ahhhh! Another successful trip to Messerall's Tree Farm! We've been going there since Sally was a baby and Peter saved Christmas- story blogged in past posts- many!  We had fun retelling the story to Mrs. Messerall this year.  So the tree that called to us is a fir not the spruce we've done in the past.  It required a new stand as the trunk is much smaller.  It is nice to touch this tree and not itch or be feel the prickliness.  It fit well and was easy to carry in the house.  Decorating went well today, although not every ornament found a home on this tree and it took some rearranging as these branches don't hold heavy ornaments without reshaping the tree!  I kept my patience most of the time and embraced the kids approach.  Only one small tweak to placement.   Joe now puts the angel "Ga-Ga" on top- kids are not quite tall enough and can't be lifted…now fighting over that decision either- yay! We also are throwing away, pitching some ornaments that are broken or no longer what they need to be.  Lake Tahoe- the water inside turned brown- ick.  It was a great trip and I'm grateful for the Denisonians and Ann Leithauser that made it a special event.  The Clara ornament from the Nutcracker- lost her foot- ouch. Not sure if that was Clare or Sally's…other nutcracker ornaments remind us of those special years with COYB!  The childhood Mickey, Lucy and Santa Mouse…..thank you for years of happy Decembers on bows of the evergreens.  Good memories made today and we're just a bit more in the Christmas Spirit!

Saturday, December 12, 2015

Light and Love- Happy

Thank you to the Temple Beth Shalom- you welcomed us last night to an evening of learning, light and love.  As part of the confirmation classes at FPC- we're visiting other church/religions to better understand our own.  A car load visited this Reform temple in New Albany for a lovely evening.

Great timing- Hanukkah!  Happy Hanukkah to all Jewish friends and readers- the comfirmands were able to help light the beautiful menorahs - I was struck by the variety and artistic approach to many of these.  The evening was filled with beautiful songs, chants, blessings, prayers, honors, sharing, a story, community, acceptance and love.  Reflecting with the students I understand how it can be a bit "awkward" if this is your first exposure to Hebrew. I'm grateful for the many trips to the syn agog in my hometowns growing up and send gratitude to those families that took me, invited me to share in the ceremony.  Also sitting at the meals and hearing Friday night blessings and partaking in rituals.  Seeing Barukh atah Adonai is nice, but hearing it is a comfort to me.

My life on Newark-Granville Road will return me to a service at this lovely temple:  http://www.tbsohio.org  Clare was not with us last night- I was fortunate to be there as a mentor.  We loved attending a friends' Bar Mitzvah there not too long ago as a family with other families.  Family outings and adventures, traditions and experiences are key to this wonderful life on Newark-Granville Road!  With that…time to get a Christmas Tree!

Sunday, December 6, 2015

Figure Eight Relationships- Hour of Code with Denison and The Works!

Worlds unite- another form of figure eights….the sweet spot the middle where they unite.  The Works and Denison unite on Monday with Hour of Code- woo hoo!! Sally will be there with me- can't wait!  Last week there was all sorts of special moments like this- the Business and Industry Breakfast, the Explore Licking County Impact Awards…I could go on and on….but I know my life on Newark-Granville Road is as good as it is because of these connections, overlaps and new loops that overlap making wonderful figure eights in all sorts of ways.  At the base of it- people and relationships- reconnecting, supporting, engaging with one another- thanks for reading. Tune into Twitter on Monday we'll tweat about Denison's Hour of Code with The Works: Ohio Center for History, Art and Tecnology.

Saturday, December 5, 2015

Welcome December with Peace in my heart

Good December morning…..for whatever reasons I have snippets of songs in my head as I think of post phrases.  Right now- Fum-Fum-Fum…instead of "on this Joyous Christmas Day" I have
Good December- Moooo-or-ning, sing fum fum fum…..
Good December Moooo-or-ning, sing fum fum fum….

For a Day and Seaon of Peace- Prayers that all fighting might cease
For rest and quiet today, understanding and love always
Sing Fum Fum Fum

Maybe that is all I need for today's blog.  It is December 5th- the shopping has started, we'll ease into decorating.  There feels like a lot to do, but I type here with a sense of peace knowing it will happen.  I type grateful for the morning we've taken to just breath, sleep, organize a bit…I have not unpacked shopping from last weekend.  Good news on a friend's health and awareness that others struggle and are sad at this time.  I light a candle, savor my coffee and pause for prayer and think of my friends and those in need, but aren't we all in need- some more than others depending on the day and circumstsance- and share some more…...

Peace inspiration- "the rest of the story" behind the scenes, the why…. a funny happened in our home this week and I so value the response.  The person that helps us keep our house clean- I'm so grateful and value her partnership.  Walked in the door needing to use the rest-room and put her things down.  She pulled the door shut as she sat down (this is the closet like power room off the hallway) (and shut the door because the dog was following with his big old sniffer going) and the door knob (interior) promptly fell off.   She was there for three hours!

She started to wheeze and told herself, no- calm down.  She mediated. She started to sweat, she said no- don't do this.  She found a paperclip in the trash and tried to fiddle her way out….she removed the artwork that cover the access to the washer drier- that gives gave her air and light…..she turned off the light and took in the quiet. The dog stayed close- unless someone was walking buy…she wishes she could of stretched her legs a bit more…..she took in the peace of the time.  Barbara let her out when she arrived to walk the dog, help with the kids and house- phew!  When I came home and heard this news Barbara said she was fine with being locked-in and it was OK.  I called to apologize and ended up at home the next day to say I'm sorry in person.  How wonderful she came back the next day to do the work she committed to- she easily could of said- my day with you was spent in a bathroom- see you next week! Nope she came back and in person told me it was OK. But it was reading the note she left that let it sink in- she found peace.  She goes from house to house, is busy, juggling, lots going on with her and her husband….she took time to sit and reflect, think, rest and accepted the gift.  Ahhhh- Peace. She also told me that at Wendy's the clerk reminded her the day was hers to make. This came when the response of "how are you today" was "OK with a not so energetic tone"- Our house helper heard that loud and clear- we have the attitudes and approaches and control to make our days better than OK- they can be great and filled with wonder and joy, peace and acceptance and most of all love.

Thank you for lessons, for the care of our home and commitment. Thank you for helping me find peace in this busy, special season in my life on Newark-Granville Road.

Saturday, November 28, 2015

shopping local

What a lovely day of shopping local yesterday for us!  While on holiday with the Stoner family we followed my mother's suggestion and headed to Greencastle, PA- the town we've driven through for years.  A population of 4,000 (smaller than Granville) it was an impressive offering of shops to delight the Stoner women!  We made it a girls trip with my sister, sister in law, Mom and me. Let Christmas shopping commence!  The ELM Men's store- old school department store- had just what we needed.  For year's I've struck out when shopping for my Dad- not this year! 

We also had the best lunch at an organic cafe- Pure and Simple. We shared a shrimp bisque that was incredible, a roasted Chicken Salad wrap and pizza that were quite tasty.  The smoothie and juice selections quite tempting and impressive. Lots of space in a renovated store front with tile and tons of charm.

The stationary store has added a gallery and coffee/tea components.  Fantastic offerings of cards, gifts, novelties- we all purchased there!  Inner Beauty, antique shops- one with added greens and arrangements provided much inspiration!  ELM Shoes has kept the kids in shoes for years- Nana always delighted us by making sure the kids had good shoes when they visited for an extended trip. No longer offering kid shoes- the adult shoes selection combined with the service made for an exceptional experience.  No need to take a number- we were treated with care and it was delightful! When was the last time I had a clerk put a shoe on my fit and help me think well about fit.  Ahhhhh

Shop local- not only on Shop Local Saturday everyday- where ever you are at home or away.  I look forward to fine tuning my Christmas list and enjoying what Licking County has to offer!  Life on Newark-Granville Road encourages you to support those wonderful entrepreneurs supporting our communities and making a shopping experience like yesterday possible!

Wednesday, November 25, 2015

"Home"...the home we know so well....

So a Denison video appeared on Facebook at a very interesting time. There is SO much to say about this video and I will not take the time to explore, share, journal, reflect, transition the rapidly firing thoughts, memories, emotions that dance in my head when I watch or even just think about this video. But I will share it here, put it here for preservation and safe keeping and tie it just a tiny bit to this exciting day.

In a week of gratitude this video is a gift for many reasons. The video is a Denison Admissions Video from 1989!  And it shows- our hair, clothes and the campus- check out the road behind Slayer! Amazing amazing people are in this video- dear friends, inspiring colleagues and classmates and some I didn't know.  Yes, you can go to a college of 1900 (statistic at the end) in a small village and still not know everyone!  It captures Denison so very well- not just visually but the essence and script/copy ""Denison, yours to Discover"  It is ours to discover or rediscover....through the eyes of our children looking at college, through matured eyes recognizing just how special the foundation our friendships of four years on this hill are and the routes to friendships beyond our classmates.  I am indeed grateful for Denison.

Foreshadowing? In this video my head shot is with the village- the downtown scene- and I'm talking about Denison being "home", a community that gives to and receives from Denison.  A thought I've been mulling around as my deep regard and knowledge of Licking County from my time at The Works travels with me up the hill to this new role- how does it all work and fit together?

But for today the video is about home and how lucky I am to call Granville home, Denison home- literally. To be here raising children with Joe that will always refer to Granville as home. Today I leave for another home- Hagerstown. The video says Altoona and that was home for awhile. It was a wonderful home and I'm grateful for the friendships and foundation it served for an important time in my childhood and upbringing. Today I will be welcomed home by my parents and united with my siblings on Thanksgiving day. I'll visit familiar and fun family, friends and places that I hold dear. I'm filled with gratitude for his trip home and the trip home via the video.  I'm filled with gratitude to return at the end of the weekend to a full life and my home on Newark-Granville Road.

Here is the video- I would love to talk with you further about this- call, email, Facebook me!

Denison 1989 Admissions Video: Yours to Discover
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C6hMqzFV6eA#t=958ld


Sunday, November 22, 2015

A day of prayer, praise and thanksgiving...

A beautiful way to spend a day in my life on Newark-Granville Road…going to church!

It started with Clare, Charlotte and other confirmands from FPC, sponsors and our Associate Pastor, Trip Porch attending a Vineyard Grace Fellowship in Heath. A wonderful component of the confirmation class at FPC is to visit other churches/worships/faiths to understand our own. I'm fortunate to be a sponsor and learning with these 9th graders.  We were warmly welcomed at VGF and given background information to help us on this journey.   Due to several of the girls, including Clare, we only stayed for the worship component of the service. We were sorry to miss the sermon, although due to its length Clare admitted to appreication for the return to FPC.  The 25 minutes was Spirit filled and I do hope to return another day.  I am drawn a traditional service as part of my Sunday preperation- yet I welcome the energy of praise music.  I also value the opportunity to learn and walk in the footsteps of others of faith.  Yes- more opportunities for blog post materials as these confirmands explore their faith.

Back at FPC this morning we were delighted with the return of Karen Chakoian to the pulpit. I knew it was happening, but forgot- so was happy to be in the pew for this.  A beautiful sermon, heartfelt, healthy, introspective, personal, meaningful.  A message of gratitude at a service of gratitude in a day of gratitude.  All fitting as we started our weekend grateful for friend time, celebrating Leithauser thanksgiving on Saturday and being in a place to thank the one who makes is possible.

And finally the evening service united our community, our village churches coordinated the Ecumenical Thanksgiving service.  The middle school and high school youth from the churches gathered ahead of time to make pies for St. Vincent de Paul and enjoy pizza pie- happy our children embraced the idea and attended.  Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday and I soak in anything connected- an ecumenical service all about community- perfect!

The only thing that made the day better- friends of course!  Sitting with a friend I don't see often at the service, finally stopping by to pick up a generous and beautiful gift from friends and sharing a drink, surrounded by wonderful women at a friend's gratitude party, catching up with friends in between these services and while sitting at Sally's basketball game. I'll wonder across the street for a Sunday night tradition my heart saying a prayer of praise and thanksgiving.

If you are reading this and need a prayer, comfort and/or someone to share good news- know I am here and can help you to connect to others.  There are so many caring, devoted people and churches in our communities to help you find a fit. Or like our comfirmands, help you as you explore and question to make your way. God works through all to show Jesus' love and compassion, the Spirit strong and united- life on Newark-Granville Road shares and connects, thank you God.

Saturday, November 21, 2015

west coast wow, inspiration and learning!

The beautiful scenery was only part of the wow of the west coast visit.  The fantastic Denisonians engaging with me about supporting the college, sharing their stories and perceptions of their children's education- wow!  I am very fortunate to work for such a school and community- a community far reaching beyond Newark-Granville Road.

All of the parents I met embrace Denison's goal to increase our brand and visibility as well as the goal to prepare Denisonians for the future. All have active roles with the college in ways that match their work and life styles.  I had the privledge to meet one woman, a co-founder of http://leanin.org Lean In. Org and learn of her quest to increase Denison's brand and the pursue the common mission for all to understand compstuer science. The method- https://hourofcode.com/us  Hour of Code - please visit the website- take the time to understand the co-founders admirable and important quest.  We can all play a role.

I so admire this woman's willingness to introduce me to her neighbor- the co-founder of Hour of Code. He clearly explained the "why" hour of code, understanding computer science needs to happen- beyond just job and career preparation, understanding the world we live and how things work. He aligned it to the liberal arts, what we did at The Works: Ohio Center for History, Art and Technology.  It demystifies, unveils what a small part of the world understands. Education is the answer to the world's problems and this is an important concept for everyone to learn.

Thanks to this Mom engaging with Denison's president, professors and staff Denison is embracing Hour of Code- more coming soon. One way for those of us in town to get involved- bring our kids- Sally is signed up - http://www.attheworks.org/visit/calendar.aspx?date=12/7/2015   Monday, Dec 7th- The Works is coordinating at Denison- Hour of Code!!Register today!

I also went home with the new book by Sheryl Sandberg: Lean-In for Graduates.  Wow! I'm right back to my Mom and AAUW and the mantra "only she who attempts the absurd can do anything"….we still have work to do for equality and an equal playing field. The book explains why things are happening and encourages us to own the solution with our actions- lean-in!  I hadn't embraced the book and concept-- but to be honest I had not read it.  I so enjoy the Lean-In Facebook updates and what is shared there. I will explore the Lean-In circle concept for myself and share with the Denison community.  I'll keep you posted.

I learned so much on my trip to the bay area!  I'm inspired, learning and equipped to learn more, exploring and as always sharing.  Thanks for not just reading but engaging with me in this important exercises and resources!  Life on Newark-Granville road- computer science/coding plays a key role and we're learning more of the how, I hope you will too!

Monday, November 16, 2015

Brain on Blog...thoughts from the flight to California....

Brain on Blog…..
I’m sitting on the airplane wanting to nap but as I close my eyes my brain lights up.  My brain wants to process, share, document, capture, explore what I’m seeing, thinking about, experiencing. The place and way I do that- blog.  I don’t journal- I’ve tried that but never keep up with it.  It must be the extreme extrovert and accountability of posting that makes blogging work, appealing.  Maybe also the closure part of my behavior preference- get it down, capture it- move on.  The J in me for my MBTI friends.
Early flight- 6 am, which meant a 4 am alarm, out of the house by 4:30, parked and through screening for 5:30 am boarding- bonus, time for coffee. But should I have done the coffee- it is wake up, get going routine. It is delight and comfort too.  I liked the dark drive, the quiet shuttle- but the airport was wide awake, very bright and bustling.  Now the cabin lights are dim, the Midwest below dark and peaceful.
I do like to travel.  This seems to be the biggest question people have about my role at Denison.  I traveled for Federal-Mogul- the company I worked for after college, ten years, and four positions one with travel at its core- training and development with Columbus as home base- I went to the facilities needing my support- Tennessee, Mexico, Bradford in the UK, Southfield, MI.  Working for an international company, moving to a place where I knew know one- all meant travel was part of the package if only to go home for the holidays.  And then my first role at Denison with the Alumni office- planning events around the country- that too was focused on travel.  Joe’s work post Denison was all about travel as well- but now he is happy to have Dublin, OH and Granville for his work focus.
So my brain is on why I like to travel.  I’m a why person- again with the MBTI- my ENtJ is showing.  When I see something I like about travel I capture it- my brain says- oh yes, this is why!  Sitting on a plane just getting to think, contemplate, taking in this peaceful beautiful site from up above.  The lights of a sleeping, resting, night time/early morning city are beautiful.  I really do like window seats when time allows and I’m in the mode to get comfortable, taken in the sights below. I love takeoff and landing and finding my position. Lately we fly over OSU a fair amount when landing at CMH and it is cool to see the stadiums- baseball, the shoe plus it gives me my bearings! 
After reading the Jerrie Mock book Three Eight Charlie (while flying!) I pose the question to myself- do I want to learn to fly myself?  If I am so enamored with the activity?  I don’t think so- I think I like to be flown.  If Joe wants to get his pilots license I’d fly with him.  I love the fact that Jerrie talked about writing letters, typing, while in the air- wow, I didn’t think about her having the time to do that while in the air.  I heard at some point the recognition of her introvert- being able to spend so much time alone in a plane aligns with that behavior preference I’m not sure I could do that being the extrovert I am. I also have no desire at this time to learn something so complicated. Maybe in the future- the learning I’m doing now for my new job is rewarding, fulfilling and time consuming enough.  I like the idea of learning how to fly- I’ve just really come to understand the physics of it but my brain goes to the magic of it-fabulous concert. Hip Hip hooray for all those that figured it out and have developed, innovated us to a place that I can be sitting here x miles above the ground sitting and typing while sipping coffee!( And hooray for the innovation of computers and lap tops and the ability to type instead of write!)
Changing topics- traveling in the dark….I believe I am a natural night owl.  I get energy to do things and can stay up late. I really don’t wake up naturally and ready to go….that 4 am alarm was tough. But something about getting up in the dark, the quiet of the house, the darkness feels quiet, peaceful- not always- sometimes I’m over tired and lonely- the darkness is not a comfort but allows me to sleep and bring a fresh new day.
So this is where I am, where my brain is – this is what my brain wanted to share instead of resting, napping in the quiet darkened cabin of the plane propelling through the night/ early morning sky.
Other points to note- to coat or not to coat.  Great forecast for California this trip- grabbed the coat to be comfy in the car- Granville morning was in the 30s per the car temp- glad I did!  Was thinking I’d leave the coat in the car….am I glad I didn’t! The plane is chilly and I love the blanket feel as I tuck the coat over my lap.
Cheers for Southwest- I am so pleased to be experiencing a direct, non-stop flight to Oakland! A Denison parent raved about this new addition to SW’s offerings and I agree! Last week’s flying west to go east and plane changes making a whole day of travel out of what should been faster does make me pause.  I don’t think of the “line up by number” as a cattle call- I see it for the good process it is. I love how we exit the plane in order too.  I feel flying on SW is fun and civilized- a positive regard for taking turns- but fellow travelers and great snacks!  These 100 calorie snack packs make me smile.
We’re not even an hour into the flight- I’ll check back after 4 hours in one place- I might not be so Pollyanna about this opportunity/component of my work.  The reality is I embrace that my desk will always have to-dos, my house, my kids, my body- we’re never caught up and we don’t want to be- that is where the challenge and growth happens.  However travel lets me sit and type, think, work, read- while being active- moving and going somewhere to be with good people, connect them to good things. Yes I like to travel and I’m glad it works in my life on Newark-Granville Road. I’m grateful to all that make this possible - Joe, Clare, Peter, Sally, my colleagues Kelly plays a huge role and I’m grateful for the support and partnership and time to contemplate and explore my thoughts.

What a gift to travel like this just before the holidays.  I can take it in to prepare, ease into when I’m ready to go all out Xmas. I love November for November and Thanksgiving- but the world gets into gear so those of us who do Xmas in December can jump in. Those uber planners, get it done early- jump in now or sooner. Our neighbors next door have their tree up, the kids love to tease me by selecting the Xmas music station on the radio- I’m quick to get it off and that makes us all giggle and smile- how I love time with my kiddos like that!  Nice memory to bring back as I depart from them for a few days….the hardest part about my travel but thanks to a great husband, care providers, friends, relationships that matter- I can do it.  Technology helps too- texts and calls- not so much face time….maybe I’ll try that this trip although time zone differences have an impact.
I’m loving the sunrise from the sky- another bonus of this early morning flying thing. It makes me remember back to early exercise days and the reward of dawn.  Leaving the house to exercise in the dark was hard but all worth it.  When I went to bed for five hours last night, I went back to the place with babies.  When they had to eat in the middle of the night- setting expectations – realistic expectations is key to our happiness, planning with room for wiggle and adjustments.
Just read Oprah’s December O Magazine – some good things, quick take a ways to capture. If I had my journal with me- I opted to keep it at home this trip…hmmmm mistake or not?  Still figuring out what to pack and how- look forward to getting it down.  A big help is my new travel purse. It is small enough to fit into my carry on- SW can get serious about only two.  It goes across my body and makes keeping/finding what I need- driver’s license, credit card, phone fast east. Gives me a place for receipts and cash. Colleague recommended this and made all the difference. I welcome travel tips! Hmmm Maybe Oprah should do that…..

Bonus- whole row to myself….not just a window seat but the middle for my stuff..and I love to use that tray table. Also two easy escapes to the rest room with no one in the aisles- lucky me!  I’m getting my daily water intake in one flight

Saturday, November 14, 2015

choose people….

I left my desk yesterday at 4:25 pm- walked away, computer on, folders open, projects started and not tucked away…it was time to (actually past time) get to the Denison Museum's event with the Vail artist,   Regina Carter.  I saw this opportunity on Friday morning and seized the chance.  A new coworker said- let me know when you are going, I'll go with you.  I'm glad he said that- it made me walk out the door.

I thought I'd go back and and wrap up the day….but the women's basketball game started at 6 and I went there instead- Joe joined me.  It was nice to sit with him and watch the game.  I had the great opportunity to meet Denison basketball parents for the men's program.  Kids joined us for the scrimmage and dinner. I met wonderful people.  I never got back to my desk.

8:15 this morning- time to volunteer at church.  I didn't do much- my role was to bus tables and greet, talk and engage with FPC's Presbyterian Women's Harvest Fest guests.  I can do that.  I shopped - crafts made by wonderful women, collectibles merchandised by fantastic women- people uniting to support mission. A church full of good people.  Thank you Marcee for inviting and encouraging me to start my morning in this way.

I juggled another stop-by with good folks doing good work. I reflect now and realized I missed some stops on my day of holiday fairs and markets- sorry!  I did make it to the high school girls basketball scrimmage and saw Clare on the court (she scored!)  More good people doing good things and quick catch-ups with friends!  I did go to the office for 30 minutes to wrap up yesterday, prepare for the new week- phew…..Taking in the game from the amazing view at our office building.  Then the roar of the crowd, called me down to be with the people.  Reconnected with Mercersburg friend- so much fun! Meeting parents and students looking at Denison- highlight of my job- future parents to engage!  Seeing Denison through their eyes.  Hearing about the fun and friends during M'burg's 30th reunion for his class- choosing people!

Denison won the two games on campus this afternoon- watching, seeing parents and players, fans and family- happy, shiny people…..and now family time- football, Vail concert and just being with good people that I love.

The tratedies in France remind us life is short and time with people matters.  People make differences and matter.  I took in the people around me on in my Newark-Granville Road today, people, good people.

Wednesday, November 11, 2015

travel smiles....

The TSA Agent believes I changed my hair color- mother nature has an impact and probably photograph's lighting.

No TP in the potty- good thing I grabbed my tissues from the back of the car when I got gas- felt like I was back in China.

NY/NJ- pizza- yes- I saved all my calories and found a place for a slice- ate it in the car- couldn't wait to check in to the hotel.  And yes burned the roof of my mouth- but not too too badly.

Good thing I had checked out Joe's rental car- I knew to use the key fob push button start, not try to insert- but there was a key insert part??

Reading Jerrie Mock's book of her historic flight "38 Charlie" while flying- very cool...more on that one later- lots of lessons...I finished it on the return flights- cried, loved it!! Yay book club- thank you!

Mapping technology- wow- it got me all over NJ and CT- on time- wow!  I still miss maps and don't want to loose the ability to navigate on my own but WOW!

Hilton Member- I like the free water waiting for me at the hotel.

Coming home and knowing right where to go- no navigation....kind of like sleeping in my own bed.

This trip was another good one- love the beautiful New England architecture- charming and of course the fantastic Denisonians I spend time with. Special opportunity to reconnect with an old friend too in a beautiful place.  More to share there too.

Life on Newark-Granville Road filled with smiles while traveling this week, but oh so happy to be home.

Saturday, November 7, 2015

crying through laughter- thank you Truvy

It felt really good to laugh and cry last night.  I valued the opportunity to see a play I've always wanted to see as I LOVE the movie.  Steel Magnolias. I am grateful the timing worked, I bought tickets and went to the Granville High School production.  I'm glad I supported a friend and the great work she does with students. I enjoyed taking in the community that brings out a school play- all ages, people I don't see every day.   The show was wonderful- the acting, the set, all the support that executed a well done production. Lots of lessons were learned no doubt- the script alone teaches so much.  I am glad I was there.

Life on Newark-Granville Road is always in motion with lots of moving parts- the high school was the meeting place for us on a Friday night.  Joe out of town with friends and the play at started at 7. Peter's basketball try-outs ended at 6:45, Clare's basketball practice ending at 7:15.  Sally was with me to pick up (and learn the term will-call) the tickets and find our seats.  Clare ended up sitting in the back with friends watching the play.  Peter was next to me in the dark - both of us comforting the other. The disappointment of not making the team, and not having my child get something he wanted- both of us needed comforted.  Laughter through tears is my favorite emotion- Truvy Jones quote from the play/movie- was just what I needed on Newark-Granville Road last night.

And back to the theater-  So many quotes that make me laugh out loud and smile in Steel Magnolias- which is your favorite- see them here: http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0098384/quotes  The story is a sad one and boy did the tears flow- well done students!! If you have time to go tonight- I would encourage you to do so!  I do love to escape to the theater!! Denison has a play right now too!http://denison.edu/events-calendar/current/all/theatre  Best Friends by Jeff Daniels - opportunities through next week.

I hope you find laughter when the tears flow- life is filled with the ups and downs - and sometimes the best way to cope is to sit in a dark theater and escape to the theater.

Wednesday, November 4, 2015

traveling for work…..life lessons.

The lessons of the road all came back to me this week.  I learned one of these lessons in high school and feel like I've shared on the blog prior. It is a lesson to repeat as it ties to life on Newark-Granville Road too!

As you can tell from my prior post- the scoop on my Denver hotel- The Art Hotel, which I highly recommend for those out of towners traveling to Denver or in towners looking for  meeting spot- go, now!  I thoroughly enjoyed my stay and hope to return.  However there were moments that it wasn't the case.  A 5:15 am wake-up to get to the airport on Sunday morning after a full fun weekend put me in a tired traveling state.  And when I'm tired I don't see things clearly and I found myself wanting my routine. Good company and great taste helped put me in a happier state of mind- but there were dips.  A great night's sleep (the room was so dark!) put everything into perspective and I woke happy and inspired to do my work.

It was an extended trip with a variety of work and a special event- Denison Connecting.  Many happy reunions, conversations and "ups".  On the other spectrum-another late night and time zone shifting again found me cranky and blue at times.  The advice I gave myself- get out, find fresh air, call a friend,  embrace the support of coworkers, focus on the good, exercise. Self talk of the lessons of the road, the learning all around and privilege to be where I was with such beauty and inspiration (art in the art hotel) a city of growth supported by good people-  couldn't  allow me to stay down for long.

I do like to travel, and I love to come home. Ups and downs are everywhere- the road far away, and right her on Newark-Granville.  The advice is the same- talk to friends, get a good night's sleep, get out in the fresh air, reflect on the good and beautiful- it is there to comfort and inspire.

When in Denver….Art Hotel- this week's home away from home- lucky me!

What a treat to stay at the Art Hotel while in Denver this week!  Denisonians made this facility available for the fantastic "Denison Connecting" event- Denver style! And how lucky this was part of my work this week and tied to meeting with very special Denison parents!

So the hotel is amazing for many reasons.  Not surprising- the art!  Every step you took, including your room was like being in a gallery.  And having spent five years at The Works, being in a gallery daily, I was right at home.  The art delighted me - the car entrance lighting- spectacular.  The lines, lighting, fixtures and material- every where beautiful.  You enter on floor 1, floor 4 is reception, lobby, restaurant, amazing out-door/indoor event space and banquet/meeting space- all intiment, yet inviting. The large horse was certainly a delight for me and not to be missed.

The individual hotel room was spacious, comfortable, clean filled with extra touches- a luxurious shower with big thick towels and cozy robe.  The turn-down service, dark comfy sleeping, snacks and beverages- even a bottle opener and wine glasses for my sparkling treat last night.  

The staff at every step- parking attendents, check-in, servers, housekeeping- attentive, kind, encouraging, accomodating and happy to be of service, genuine and pleasant.  I worked, rested, relaxed, networked, caught-up and connected with my Denison family at  The Art Hotel.  Life on Newark-Granville Road likes a good journey and experience and shares the scoop!

Friday, October 30, 2015

BOO!

Thank you for the fun "Boo" that was on our front porch!  Whoever you are- thank you. What a treat for Sally to find a package for us on her way to the bus stop! Then unpacking it (she goes out early so there was time) with lots of oohs-ahhs, full face smile and giggles.  I appreciated treats that were not only sweet but festive!   Clare and Peter arrived home that afternoon, texted a photo asking to dig-in and eat. I said yes- they texted back, thank you.

Sally immediately jumped into planning our Boo back or better said on.  I picked up the new items this morning and had fun taking my time strolling the store following your lead.   I was going to post a photo of Sally on her way to return the favor- but that would potentially give away our identity. Know that Peter joined the fun with delivery that included a ding-dong-ditch- rang the door bell when they placed the Halloween goody!

No Boo-Hooing in our lives on Newark-Granville Road this Halloween! We changed things up with Mom out of town for Gville trick-or-treat but setting up a great night for Sally, Peter and Joe with friends in town!  Clare happy to be on the basketball court delighted by Sally's sharing her candy stash! We loved Denison Athletics trick-or-treat for staff- giving Mom time with Sally in a festive low stress way!  And tomorrow is the real Halloween/ All Hallow's Eve….stay tuned!

Monday, October 26, 2015

I Voted- Nov 2015

I will be traveling on election day this year- so that means an early vote for me. Here is the website on how to do that if you too can not cast your vote on election day- Nov 3rd-AND where you can find your ballot, so you can read the language and be prepared when you vote.

http://www.electionsonthe.net/oh/licking/

The language confuses me so I look for help with clarifying.  The League of Women's Voters is one place.  Local newspapers also assist, chambers of commerce, etc....here are some of those links:

http://www.lwvohio.org/

http://www.dispatch.com/content/stories/local/2015/10/25/pot-monopolies-101.html

(this one gives examples- I found it more helpful)

http://www.granvilleoh.com/pages/election2015

I also will miss the opportunity to talk about ballot issues on book club's night before an election meeting. A wonderful tradition I value and will miss!

It is important to not only vote, but be informed and I'm feeling a tiny bit behind the on this one. I'm also confused and need to sort out clarity.  I wish it was not so complicated and I know I'm not alone. I do know the right to vote is a privilege and the United States with all its issues is still the best place to live and I want to be an active and engaged citizen.

My life on Newark-Granville Road is hoping Issue 3 does not pass- I do not believe the state of Ohio is ready for legalized marijuana.  I'm not ready for our community's and my children to believe that it is OK and "legal" to get high on pot and for pot to take on all sorts of other forms.

Life on Newark-Granville Road is hoping to celebrate the re-election of Jeremy Johnson and the election of Dan Finkelman to Granville Village Council.  We know both of these gentleman and appreciate their positive economic growth and collaborative approaches to leadership for our wonderful community.

I have my "I voted" sticker- make sure you get yours!

Sunday, October 18, 2015

lessons from the weekend….Newark-Granville Road.

So many nice happenings on Newark-Granville Road this weekend.  All filled with lessons, some deeper than others. Here are my musings…

-Friday night football- Peter's 8th grade opportunity to participate with the high school marching band. This put me with friends in the stands catching-up- sooo wonderful.  Seeing folks I don't get to see on a regular basis and folks I don't know at all. Some nice observations- the other team cheerleaders being so welcomed by the Granville cheerleaders- love friendships that go beyond our school district, little kids playing football in the grass, kids catching and those that have caught the band-bug- not Peter but others.  No doubt football Friday nights are community builders. A friend was surprised I don't love to attend football games. I explained it isn't always a welcoming environment- people are congregating that know each other well, see each other often and that can be intimidating to folks only there occasionally or new to the community. I learned of a similar reaction an individual had to a group I am part of and I can see his perspective. It isn't intentional but it happens.  The lesson is the one we share with our kids - be kind- always be kind.

-Friday night fall bonfire to wrap up soccer party. Joe enjoyed connecting with the parents from the side lines, meeting new people, getting to know those we know from Sally's age group better. As usual I wanted to be in two places at once. We appreciate the hospitality her coach offered and her communication this season.  Kids sports have their ups and downs and Sally's season at first glance may seem like more downs- no wins.  However I don't feel that way.  The girls improved their footwork, learned about this game, were active and connected to one another and had fun. Sally had a great season so that means I did too- the strong communication helped! Their parents cheered for great efforts and high fived from the side lines. Sally's had wonderful partners ride bikes with her to practice over the Rotary Bridge extending these same benefits. Thank you Electric Lamas for all the lessons sports provides.

-Friday night outing- to the bar…I asked Joe at 10 pm- want to go to the Granville Inn bar and see if we can find some Denison alums?  I knew there was a good chance we'd run into alums in town for reunion planning and I was right!  We met a wonderful Class of 2001 alum by herself at the bar, found two 1991 alum friends we had not seen in ages (although we are somewhat in the know with one another thanks to Facebook) and closed down the bar. While preparing to head home, we found a dear friend checking-in- the Denison chatter started immediately and we moved to the Broadway pub.  Conversation passed the time and who knew we had the energy go close that bar at 2 pm! The lesson was simply confirmed- always good to reconnect and meet Denison friends and in person is best of all.

Saturday was another day filled with nice happenings and lessons, including:
-Cross Country is an amazing sport!  I choose to be with Clare and Peter at the Licking County League final meet of the session. I watched Clare finish strong and run in her uniform (shorts and tank) in very cold weather and not complain.  I caught up with the parents of these impressive runners and take in the energy of a licking county only sporting event.  I also was able to be with our Godfamily and cheer for Nick's good race! Most Cross Country meets are packed with people.  Peter made me smile and sigh.  He walked through the central Ohio field with a Michigan blanket. He is a big fan partly due to an early allegiance of dear friends and partly to be the contrarian he is at heart.  I admire his courage and individualism.  However I learned he was out of uniform and breaking the guidance from coach with the blanket- sigh.  I see the coaches point. The ups and downs in so many ways teach us lessons .
-Shopping with Clare.  We're just-in-time shoppers and it was proven again as clare needed a fall outfit for Monday.  When she told me her dress plan for the field trip on Monday (a summer frock) I quickly cleared Saturday afternoon for mother-daughter time at Easton.  She was sweet- wanting to use gift certificates from her birthday and created our plan.  When walking past Gap- she remembered we had success there in the past and sure again lightening struck twice.  I admire the fact she won't spend money for the sake of spending. When we didn't find anything that fit right or make her happy at her favorite stores- no go.  We came home with only what we needed- new jeans and two new dress up outfits.  Lesson confirmed- Clare has great taste and retains my trust and respect. Life on Newark-Granville Road with teenagers is just fine!
-Back to Denison for quality Denisonian time!  I admire my colleagues and their work all the more so understanding first hand the demands of our work cycles.  What a treat to meet with these wonderful volunteers back to plan their reunions and bring Denisonians back to the hill in June 2016! Joe joined me- not really wanting to make the trek up the hill, however reflecting on the way home how glad he did.
-Sunday was a nice sleep-in- not by length of sleep in, but quality- no phones next to our bed! Neither Joe or I charged/brought our phones to bed so we wok up naturally with the sun. We contemplated a carefree lazy morning at home but could not miss church with the angle choir singing. I was glad not to miss Sunday school either.  I so appreciate our book study this year- Sabbath In the Suburbs by MaryAnn McKibben Dana. We had the privilege of having this author speak at church as well as lead worship.  Her message certainly spoke and continues to speak to me through the chapters and discussion at Sunday school.  Once again lesson for life on Newark-Granville Road reoccur- slow down, savor, gather family, reflect, choose your perspective, sit loosely….and so much more.

I found sabbath time today with Sally.  I knew I wanted to get to the pumpkin patch for a family experience and for the house to don outdoor decor for not only Halloween but Thanksgiving. Joe (yay) moved the summer flowers to the green house and our home was asking for orange company. Work was on my to-do list and when Joe took on the grocery shopping and dinner for the night- voila time to do both! Sally and I made our way to the patch to find it sold-out.  No worries we took a country drive south to see our friends the Devines!  What fun picking out an assortment of shapes, sizes and colors for the house entrances.  Good times with my girls.  We made our way to Denison- Sally reading, coloring and hanging out while I started the week with a head start on work!

I'm now ready to move to the dining room table and reflect on these lessons with the family. Life on Newark-Granville Road values the lessons life gives us and likes to share. Thanks for reading and sharing it all with me.

Tuesday, October 13, 2015

Overlaps and figure eights with Africa and China this morning!

Life's figure eights can be deep patterns and then wisps, but oh how I love to revisit a place or with people that had an impact.  Our family was fortunate to travel to Senegal in 2013 to stay with friends living there- it was our spring break trip.  This morning when I read this article, viewed the video I was back in Dakar.  My life on Newark-Granville Road enjoys the figure eight patterns and overlaps and connections to our fair college on the hill in Granville, Ohio. More than a physical visit, this reminds me of the valuable lessons from this trip for my family and me.  Zhihao Cao '16- thanks for sharing your experience in Senegal and your rich journey from China to Granville. Readers I hope you'll visit this link:  https://news.denison.edu/2015/10/embracing-differences/ 

I recall as well my wonderful trip to China- so many to thank for re-sparking my love of travel and lessons I learn when I venture beyond Newark-Granville Road.


Friday, October 9, 2015

BRW, Parents Weekend, Homecoming.....Denison's BIG weekend...

Blog updates float around in my head- some make it to post and some continue to be only ideas. The treat of seeing these photos taken during Denison's BRW had to be shared. So much so that I didn't want to wait until my usual posting time- so I pause in the work day to share part of my work.



One of the things I personally love about these photos and the article- they showcase what I missed! There was no way to do it all that weekend. So many happenings, so many good folks to see and meet.  The Denison parents were here for their students- their kids- not me. I'm fortunate I do work with volunteers and donors that took time out to advance the college. A big component of why our life on Newark-Granville Road Granville is so rewarding is the opportunity to connect with Denisonians in town.

And today and this weekend is another occasion.  The Denison Trustees and Alumni Council are here and what an honor it is to spend time with them!  Another inspiration for today's blog post.   I want to share the good things happening where I work, at the college I love so well.

Tuesday, October 6, 2015

back in my own bed….

I'm back and ready to sleep in my own bed, put Sally on the bus, sit at my desks (work and home) and embrace the awesome life on Newark-Granville Road.  Going off road gives me amazing perspective on our wonderful community.

The trip to Maryland to honor Susie and Eric Smith was good. My cousin Jessica- their daughter did amazing so did Alex.  Their dearest friends did amazing too and we all benefited. Your prayers help- thank you. It still is hard to believe they are gone and we'll take the lesson. I'll make sure family and friends know how much I value and appreciate all they do and who they are!

Then to Boston for work- I love this city! I was able to retrace some steps and further some relationships- such a blessing.  I ventured out of the city and explored the historic and notorious Concord and Walden Pond areas- how cool! Yes work!!  I met a Denison parent of an alumnus who is in the public service sector and doing good things.  I was given honest feedback that will help me do my job better- good trip!  I slept in big beds and rested and missed my family. I ate seafood and walked all over the city- taking in my beloved Make Way Ducks and Swan Boots. It was a good trip.

And I'm back- the yard signs are in the yard- it is time to get serious about elections. I'll need to vote early due to travel. I love this- it makes me really get ready! My conversation with the Denison parent (not current) in public service made me again realize all that goes with putting yourself out there to serve, to be lead, to disagree, to motivate, to learn and to decide- thank you to all those running.  There is a candidate night for Granville on Thursday- I'm sorry to miss it.  EVERYTHING good is happening on Thursday night- more and more good things adding to my commitment- HATSOFF! kick-off, Vail Concert, Peter's golf banquet and more…..go where you need to go, join me if you can, catch- me up and I'll catch you up….life on Newark-Granville Road- good to be back.

Wednesday, September 30, 2015

Join me

Taking the opportunity to encourage you to find yoga…..My life is better when I have time on the mat, time to center, breath, stretch, strengthen, focus, be in….this morning was just what I needed and so often I find that to be the case. Join me on Mon-Wed mornings - often- not next week.

https://breatheyogagranville.frontdeskhq.com/schedule#/list?dt=2015-09-30&lt=staff

Give back, engage, support an incredible community resource and have fun- The Works: HATSOFF! committee- learn more on Thursday, Oct 8th!  RSVP to Becky at 740 349 9277- 6 pm dinner meeting. Join the acquisitions committee-we'll have a great time! Other great opportunties too.  Let me know if you have questions.

So grateful for the support, prayers for my family, hometown community and me- thank you.  I feel it and yoga helps too.  My life on Newark-Granville Road benefits from you being part of it.


Tuesday, September 29, 2015

Savor, Soak it in…..give thanks, live and love.

Life on Newark-Granville Road- life- real life, hard and challenging with beauty and reminders.  The lessons of death are too prevalent these days.  The universe, God, the powers that be are slowing me down today to reflect on how good it is to be here.

Family first- my mother's side of the family has had a terrible loss.  Susie and Eric Smith  (69 yrs old) were killed yesterday. Their car went off the road and struck a tree. They did not survive the surgeries. They were driving home to Hagerstown, MD from South Carolina. I don't know much more. I know when my mother called to tell me my world went spinning.  Susie and Eric hosted countless family gatherings, danced at our weddings and shared all the details families share.  She was my Mom's 1st cousin- my mother without any siblings counts her 1st cousins as siblings.  Susie and Jeanne shared life in Hagerstown together for many many years- raising children, going to church, the pool, the club together - walking too and from one another's homes, catching up by phone when a part.  They grew up not far from each other. Vacationing often together- sharing life, keeping company, debating and sighing, declaring and celebrating- living.  And now she is gone.  Eric her trusted companion, steady partner- our family dentist and kind soul- gone.  My parents friends- more than family. What a loss- their daughter, son, son-in-law, grandchildren- I feel so deeply for them.  Susie's brother, sister, sister-in-law- my heart aches.  My home town, home church- the adults who danced, talked, served, cared for one another. It just doesn't seem possible that they are gone.  Their energy will be missed.

I'm not sure when we'll go to support and mourn in Maryland- I want to get in the car now to hug my parents and relatives. To reflect and share and honor these lives.  My sister is there and I'm grateful.  Life on Newark-Granville Road is special, but there are days I want to be other places.

Today Don Wiper was laid to rest and his life celebrated and honored at First Presbyterian Granville. A life of service, influence and impact. A beautiful funeral with song and verse, reflection and words and people gathered to praise and give thanks for Don's life.  Don's life and spirit that will be carried on by  his family.  Don welcomed me, taught me, supported my efforts at church and became my friend and Joe's friend in Granville.  An early Granville attender of the Derby party.  He introduced me to his daughter and wife and they became my friends.  I am pleased to be here to celebrate his life and give thanks.  Don will be missed.

The death of Cheri Mitchell devastated the Denison community and the Columbus arts world.  I did not know Cheri well but well enough to be saddened by the loss of a giving, impactful, happy spirit that lifted up so many including her dear husband Frank Hassebrock. When I learned of the tragic accident I just could not get my head around how someone can be here one day and gone the next.  Life does change in an instant and we must savor, soak it in, take it in, be grateful and giving.  The opportunities are there- we must live our lives.

Today I ended up walking to work and I'm grateful. I heard church bells, the Denison Carillon played Moon River, I wore my rain boots and chatted with my sister and brother- told them I loved them. I went to work to keep moving forward on an effort I believe in that deserves attention and fulfills me- I'm grateful.  Last night my kids all hugged and cared for me = sad for my loss.  Our dinner was late and it didn't matter and everyone liked it.  Joe joked that maybe we should always be starting when we sit down at the table.  We laughed- he is the funniest in our house and thank goodness he is here with me.

All of these people no longer here on the earth will stay with me and their families.  They all had amazing impacts in the way they lived their lives- the people they loved, the words they shared. Their life and death is in love and with life.  This is what is happening in my life on Newark-Granville Road today- thanks for sharing.  Thank you for keeping those in need in prayer and savoring this beautiful life we have.

Thursday, September 24, 2015

Welcome Home

When my parents visit I shop for them. Stock my shelves with things they like to have at their house so I have them at my house.  Granville is getting ready for the Denison alumni and parents!  I visited the Denison book store and was wowed with the offerings. Gingham check button downs, sweater vests, polos by popular UnderArmour and lots of others great items!  Everest Gear- aka-Town and Gown- is a sea of Denison red! Fun selections among the beloved classics.  Even CVS aka- Taylor's- said they are ready with extra staff. Granville adds extra shopping with the Robbins Hunter Antique Sale- always a find there!

On campus the tent is up with great events planned to delight all ages!  Little Miss Sunshine will be shown- a great movie featuring Denison alumnus, Steve Carrell.  I love this addition to the schedule.  A full schedule can be found here: http://denison.edu

Life on Newark-Granville Road is excited to welcome and connect with the Denison parents this weekend. The fun of seeing their reunions with their students takes me back to the great parent weekends when I was in school.  I am happy and proud of the efforts our town and fair college are doing to welcome the Denison family home.

Monday, September 21, 2015

The Last Weekend of Summer

On the last weekend of summer I stepped into a garden of beauty and learning, took home generational zinneas, inspired, colored and delighted our home and my soul.

On the last weekend of summer I watched a pink sunrise and a yellow sunset, looked for a rainbow - the gift of rain and sun's teamwork.

On the last weekend of summer I snapped Sally's pictures over looking the land lab at GIS, took in the individual and soccer team energy and togetherness.

On the last weekend of summer I wore flip flops to soccer and the casual component of a wedding reception.  Put my toes in the grass, sat barefoot and soaked in the warm sun.

On the last weekend of summer we wore our bright florals, colors and a baseball uniform- summer's uniforms- to church.

On the last weekend of summer- lucky me rode a ferris wheel representing love and life's go arounds.

On the last weekend of summer I shed tears from all the abudance of beauty- the voices of the choir, a song of faith, the piano's serenade.

On the last weekend of summer I had my nails painted pink- natural and light- not what I selected but perfect and matched to me and my summer mood.

On the last weekend of summer I made a very long put, took a long walk and hit the ball well enough to take me back on the links.

On the last day of summer I watched a parade, drove with the windows down and enjoyed custard and the chatter of teenage girls.

Summer loving in my life on Newark-Granville Road.

Thursday, September 17, 2015

Denison's Summer Research- Live and In Person


Summer Scholars- I've been impressed and touched by this program for a number of years through my work and participation at The Works. STEMfest and other hands-on science activities that engaged Denison science students thrilled me. I am always delighted to meet current student and see them helping make science real for children in our community.  In the past two weeks I've had the honor to learn about the research that happened on campus summer 2015. The posters and presentations have blown me away- and I wanted to share it on the blog.  Certainly you know how much I support and believe in the liberal arts.  The opportunity to see the examples of how deep, transferable, important and real the students' work is was something to write about as it inspires my work and time in my life on Newark-Granville Road.

Here are three examples that go beyond what I realized what was happening the hill and I believe represent the Denison liberal arts well.  Know that Knobel Hall was jam packed with these types of presentations- all equally inspiring. These three caught my attention and I'll share why.

Kate Ramsdell '16 Communication and Psychology- Professor Alina Haliliuc- Laughter as Social Corrective: Russell Brand's Negotiation of the Fool Persona- she took me right back to the late 80s sitting in a social media class at Denison.  (Lucky me I was instructed by now VP Student Life, Laurel Kennedy.) Student and faculty's role to reflect, think and understand what we take in, what surrounds us- ahhhh.  Kate's research was the entertaining and caring Russell Brand.  Walking through the sea of research I couldn't help but want to know more about happenings in my own major and this actor that makes me laugh. Kate engaged with us well and presented herself well.

Anna Yokuah Teye '16  International Studies and Women and Gender Studies-Professor Isis Nusair Microfiance, Healthycare and Education as tools for Social Emancipation: the Case of Women's Empowerment NGOs in Ghana.  The opportunity to hear this poised and articulate young woman from Ghana share the simple but concrete lessons from her research was a beautiful part of my day. As we look to lift up girls all over the world and in our own back yards (or dinner tables) we cannot dismiss the importance of goal setting and planning. Equipping goes beyond providing skills- encouragement with sites plays a critical role.  Something I've been fortunate to have my whole life. This ties nicely to the talk I heard at lunch from our visiting Vail artist on Tuesday- enriching Friday's Vail concert. And a bonus- new direct views of Africa.

Gretchen Giltner '16 Art history and Visual Culture and Biology-Professor Joanna Grabski Visualizing the Ebola Mediascape: A Case Study of National Geographic and Newsweek.  The Ebola epidemic fascinates me so I was drawn to this poster. When I heard she say biology and art in her opening sentence she had me! I was reminded again of the importance of our sources and how we see to perceive the world. (Real life connection for me as Clare engages more with the "news" in her Global Studies class.)

All three of these women are intelligent, articulate, and passionate about their education and Denison experience. The choice and opportunity to remain on campus over the summer was valued. It isn't just the students that impress and inspire. You have to look deeper to understand the Denison value.  The faculty making this real and effective- the relationship and mentoring.  The dollars-philanthropy at work and so much more.  The campus and town may seem quiet June-August but I assure you the classrooms and labs, residence halls and library are buzzing with learning. I am Denison Proud and honored to have had time with these women last week.

Monday, September 14, 2015

Book Club's List for 2015-16

Christmas came early- the book list is here!  What a delight to gather around the table and share, recommend and select books for a year of reading. Books we wouldn't pick up on our own. Books some will like, love and dislike (we rarely hate).  Books that keep me reading a chapter at a time or in long car rides.  The extrovert in me will have an enhanced and more rewarding book experience thanks to the discussion with these intelligent, thoughtful, smart, caring women.  Thank you all that read with me, discuss with me, read along with me and value this list and our process. Life on Newark-Granville Road was all about the books tonight!  The theme was non-fiction when it came to the recommended list- ask me for the spreadsheet I'll email you!  We enjoyed some delicious sweets and a few savories too!  Griffey was given attention and my family recognizes the importance of groups gathering around the table and reading all in one! Here it is….the 2015-16 Book Club list.  Email me and I'll send you the spreadsheet with authors.

October-The War that Saved My Life- we start with young adult/ coming of age
Nov-Brain Rules or The Organized Mind pick one of these brain books!
Dec-Three-Eight Charlie- Jerrie Mock's Travel Log of her record setting flight around the World!! 
Jan-So Long a Letter- we're going to Senegal!
Feb- Lila- Fiction
Mar- Americanah-Fiction
April- All the Light We Cannot See- yes
May- Half the Sky-important read- non fiction
July The Bookman's Tale- book lovers book
Aug-The Things They Carried- our classic
Sept- read to recommend for the year - read from the recommended list!