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Friday, January 31, 2014

cheeks hurt from smiling…..

One of those very special days…quick recap:
1. Licking County Chamber Commerce Ground Hog Breakfast- they get better and better! This one was amazing. Thank you Chamber staff and volunteers, Velvet Ice Cream- woo hop- 100 years and Donato's- CEO and local franchise owners, plus Steve Lehman a great Ground Hog!  Inspiring, healthy, happy stories, messages and perspectives- awesome start to the day, wrap up to the M-F week.
2. Work- Cocktails by the Fire prep with incredible colleagues and volunteers, in person check delivery and opportunity to showcase how AEP's money is invested in the community via The Works, play with a beautiful young man- 1 year old, almost walking- I helped a friend to the Works with childcare for less than an hour. Yes I stopped what I was doing to play in the museum, interact with a sitter with two young girls- took me back to babysitting days.
3. Pirates of Penzance!!!!  I LOVE GILBERT AND SULLIVAN!  I knew this was being performed at Denison tomorrow night.  (OK- if you are not attending Cocktails by the Fire the only other place you should be is watching PofP!!) Bonus was learning I could catch it tonight.  I only attended the 1st half- I'm tired (left house at 5:25am) but I smiled so hard my checks hurt. I was delighted and impressed and can't wait for my parents to take our kids. I came by this love of operetta from my parents and know they'll enjoy the treat tomorrow night.  8 pm Burke Hall- get there early for a seat.
4. Happy kids came home a bit after me- 2nd time this week- so happy to see me, talking all at once, a mile a minute, delighted with their activities and days engaged at school, with the HS Basketball game and being out and about in our community.
All of our lives are rich and fulfilling on Newark-Granville Road.

Thursday, January 30, 2014

we get by with a little help from our Friends!

I know you all are so interested in how Peter spent his no school day- did we send him with Clare, leave him at Denison, leave him home alone or did we have a "helper" again at work?  None of the above- the answer Peter loved best of all- friend time!  A dear friend heard the call for help and came to the rescue and the bonus is the friend of mine who helped me, has a son who is a friend to Peter too.  So Peter went to Math Counts- woo hoo! Then had some alone time, then joined his buddy for lunch at Subway, Xbox game time with some homework/ on-line home work in the mix. It was a great day for Peter.  I still feel for his teachers getting him back into routine.

Great day for Joe and me too- we were both productive at Work with big projects/ events.  Cocktails by the Fire is really coming together.  The Works staff meeting was inspiring and exciting.   Friends with preschoolers visited today and I really really enjoyed the time together. It took me back to our Mom and Me preschool/co-op playgroup days often spent at The Works too! A very productive and generous meeting at LMH about HATSOFF!  A rescheduled meeting with a school administrator who understood and apologized for the challenges the week presented.  Errands crossed off, Clare's game at Newark Catholic (really St. Francis- cool gym), dinner Day y Noche- LOVE the cucumber margaritas- and a call saying- all schools are open tomorrow-life is good on Newark-Granville Road and I have friends to thank for it!

Wednesday, January 29, 2014

what to do with Peter….

Okay- seriously another day off from school- really? As usual I start out annoyed and after extroverting enough I deal with it.  Actually I was even laughing and so I'll share the chuckles for preservation sake on the blog and because you may laugh with us.

Seriously- the past two days with no school- two days of juggling occupying the kids time while we work.  We're on the 7th snow/cold day this season.  They had a long holiday break and then had two snow days on top of their break, and lots of delays too. They've been out more than they've been in school. And then the call comes - no school for Peter. His school- the intermediate school - has a water main break. Here are our honest thoughts about what to do with Peter tomorrow:

1st- why can't the school find a place for these kids.  Why not put them in the HS theater and have them watch documentaries.  I'll even do a Works Science Show- come on parents- we could help.  Come on school district- get creative.  Can't they meet in one part of the school? The school is in pods- are all 3 pods inhabitable?  The gym- Peter could live at the gym all day.

2nd- speaking of gyms- we'll drop him off at Denison.  He can blend in, look like a Doogie Houser. He could spend all day at Mitchell- swim, shoot hoops, climb the hill for lunch, back down….If my Dad could spend a weekend at camp by himself Peter can survive a day at Denison.

3rd- send him to school with Clare.  We're back to the point that he needs to be in school. We've rolled with this, we've taken our turn- back to our tax paying rights- our children in school 8 to 3:55- that is what we plan for- really- we have jobs. He could just go to her classes, sit in a seat near her- it would be good for him- early orientation!  What do you think the school would do. What if they called me- Mrs. Leithauser- please come get your son he doesnt' go to this school.  What if I said- not my problem- yours?

Speaking of that- it would be nice to have the schools acknowledge this inconvenience- I'm sorry goes a long way. I know they are our children and I love them but…..I'm not thinking there are many snow or sand days in India. I actually am feeling sorry for the teachers- how are you going to pick up, get back into any routine….

4th- He goes back to work with me, he goes to work with Joe, he gets left at home…..tune into tomorrow to "As Newark-Granville Road Goes By" to see what happens in my life…and Peter's.

Tuesday, January 28, 2014

I'm in!

Not just because my job is all about connecting people with The Works in philanthropic ways….but because my parents modeled the way, it feels like part of my make up and it feels good.  Because I like to give, I like to receive.  Another thing that probably connects me to my job at The Works and really to volunteer- I usually volunteer where I give and therefore receive over and over….

So lately I've had the chance to sign up on Facebook to receive supportive efforts from FB friends. I'm intrigued and I feel the need to join this fun! I'm going to add a twist- I'm going to connect my effort to the blog….so if you are reading this blog please let me know.  I don't have access to view who reads my blog.  I want to thank you personally.  I'm not sure how you'll be thanked yet but you'll hear from me.  You can notify me in writing- email (ssleithauser@gmail.com) or on Facebook. Or if you have my cell text me or call me and leave a message- or who knows maybe I'll answer- and of course you can tell me in person.  Many of you do this and I will try to remember who you are- tell me again please!

We survived the snow day on life on Newark-Granville Road today…..my colleagues were patient with my kids at the museum today.  I loved the creative imaginative outlet they had in Create It Lab - thanks Allison!  I didn't like the disrespect for my office- the coats on the floor, the gum wrappers- it is their home away from home- sigh….I loved taking Peter to Rotary.  All 3 kids now know more about Service about Self and where I spend my Tuesday lunches.  They engaged in great ways with me while we were there- I will treasure the opportunity for one on one time with my loves.  I was somewhat productive at Work- lots to do still- Cocktails by the Fire is really picking up steam- THANK YOU to many of you have bought tickets and helping with this event to support The Works- can't wait to see you on Saturday!!

So life on Newark-Granville road has me "in" into snow days and kids, work for the good and supporting one another and the organizations doing good- lots of good out there!





Monday, January 27, 2014

a happy moment in Granville.

Life on Newark-Granville Road often includes a stop at the IGA.  Recently we were recalling the various forms, designs, lay-out and components of the now Ross Granville Market.  When Joe and I were at Denison it had a beer drive through, a drive up beer window.  When I returned to Granville to work at Denison often it was a lunch destination for take out vegetable soup.  When Clare was 1 I happily purchased her first Halloween costume there and I remember quite fondly being able to purchase cocktail hour Scotch from the relatively new liquor store. I remember parking myself and my cart in a corner to talk to my sister about her cancer diagnosis- never again will I judge someone on a cell phone. I had to take that call exactly where I was and let time stand still.  Joe will tell you five wonderful times in his life- our wedding day, the birth of our three children and the day he found Cardu (single malt Scotch we loved in Scotland) on the IGA shelves.    A wise friend told me a beloved parenting technique - you instruct your child that the punishment will be twice as harsh if "you hear about it (your inappropriate behavior) at the IGA".   I'm a visual person so when I heard this approach I go right to the scene- we're in the produce section picking out salad items and a friend will approach me to say…..hasn't happened yet!!  Yes our IGA is a special community treasure for many reasons.

I witnessed this happy community feel tonight.  It was one of those moments I count my blessings not to have been too much in a hurry or preoccupied.  I was able recognize the beauty the moment contained and savor it and so now I share it.  The call came to one woman in the pasta aisle. I heard the voice from her phone and I knew but didn't immediately place it. But she looked up and said- there it is and I knew- school was cancelled.  I made my back to the check out counter- Peter was unloading our cart and I shared the good news with him.  Big smile from Peter, fist bump in the air and a woo-hoo.  The young clerk took notice and looked at me- really- school's cancelled?  I confirmed. She then told the next young coworker.  While we made our way closer to the register, groceries on the belt I could hear the happy buzz and chatter.  Then the text from Clare at basketball game and only then did I get my own call from the school district with - the news.  I'm not pleased- I'll be working tomorrow, Joe will be working. However how can you not appreciate the joy a "snow/cold day" brings not only your own children but the community's youth.  So often I only experience that happiness on Facebook- and more from my parent peers.  Lucky for me my life on Newark-Granville road gave me first hand opportunity at the IGA to be part of this happy reaction in person.

Sunday, January 26, 2014

escape to the slopes…..

Well not the ski slopes- the tubing chutes is what they're really called.  Clare was really looking forward to church youth group outing to go snow tubing today. We found her a new jacket to keeper warmer this cold winter and were happy to have her socializing with kids she has grown up with at our church. We understood why the trip was cancelled- liability and unnecessary risk for parent drivers with a car full of 7-8th graders.

So when I realized the full day that was on the docket was wiped clean thanks to cancellations and weather I jumped at the chance to delight my children and erase Clare's disappointment.  I grew up on the east coast, I think of my childhood winters and I think of snow.  I recall all the rough weather my parents drove through to keep activities and activities moving forward.  A friend of mind (also an East coast native) embraced the idea and we loaded our car with our kids and a close family friend and headed west.  Good for us roads were not bad and actually very good on the drive home.

Kids had a great time. I too took to the chutes and enjoyed easy sledding: what isn't to love about comfortable, easy to pull tubes, magic carpet/ moving walkway to take you up the hill, staff to give you a push.  I went down with Sally a few times, Clare and even Charlotte- we smiled, laughed and inhaled crisp cool fresh air.  Leigh Ann and I chatted and caught up while I warmed up and watched the happy kids go by.  FYI- we were at Mad River Mountain.  This was a place we'd visited in the summer, I enjoyed the chance to take it in this winter.  Tubing prices were good- 3 hours $25.  I'd like to experience Snow Trails some time too. We'd like to ski but with basketball tubing is a good fit- less risk of injury- I think.

When life on Newark-Granville Road gives me the chance to escape- I take it, I particularly love it when my family and friends go with me!

Saturday, January 25, 2014

Peter's turn…..and awesome "GREEN" tip to apply to my Life on NG Road with new and old friends!

Here is a picture of Peter. I realize he hasn't made the blog recently.  No reason for this but I want to correct that omission. Last night at the wonderful art exhibit opening of "Ditch to Dazzling" Peter found his favorite piece, explained why and I snapped this photo.  He and Clare both liked this very creative refrigerator done by the Licking County Health Department! They used all re-purposed materials in fun ways- I love this! We all get a science lesson in keeping food safe to consume too! Science and art together- love it!! Love this boy of mine too- he wore green to the opening of this "Green Revolution" event!!

Another awesome GREEN part of this event was from a friend I've seen 3 times this week.  Don't you love that feeling of making a new friend.  The joy that happens when you realize you share values as you support similar efforts and organizations. You also enjoy the opportunity to connect and share.  Well my new friend- a woman I respect so very much for her STEM leadership role in the community and her path to landing here.  Anyway she said when she forgets her bags in the car for the grocery store- she just has them reload her cart- no bags and wheels the food from the store out to the car.  By the way it saves time too!! Then when she gets to the car she loads it up.  I was saying I really like boxes for groceries at places like GFS- she said- use boxes in your car and use this tip!


I won't go into the details of this wonderful exhibit- the Dispatch did a nice job- link below I will tell you it was a special night for many reasons a few are:
- "Green Revolution" started with Denison- thank you Denison Museum!! and we've been on this journey to bring sustainability, recycling improved efforts to Licking County together.  The DU Museum opening art exhibit is coming up  http://denisonmuseum.org/exhibitions/upcoming/  Feb 20th and will be wonderful too.  That is what is so cool about art- interpretation, expression.  These shows give artist of all ages the creative challenge and they all do it in their own ways- really really well!!!
-Teachers and students very involved with this exhibit and program- girls from Library program really neat- fashion from recycled materials!  (by the way my life on Newark-Granville Road on Sat am includes Sponge Bob in the background and it is driving me nuts…hard to find appropriate language to describe the wonderful evening last night- you're going to need to visit it on your own and make it special for yourself please!!)  anyway-
-last night was special for sooo many reasons including meeting a new friend- an author- a friend of friends- I could of talked to her for hours! I'll share more about her book in a later blog!!
-and of course the connection to donors- so many with us last night- even if they were not there last night they helped us get to that point and they'll be with us over the course of the exhibit- many next Saturday night- Feb 1st for the grown up night at the museum- Cocktails by the Fire- Feb 1! Green Revolution theme too!!!
-and finally seeing something like this come to fruition- not always easy but we did it and the talent in the Works staff is inspiring!!

I hope you'll share with me your thoughts and your favorites!  Sally loved the bird flying over the earth! I haven't found my favorite yet- more blog fodder!!

http://www.dispatch.com/content/stories/life_and_entertainment/2014/01/23/for-students-others-trash-becomes-artistic-treasure.html


Thursday, January 23, 2014

HATSOFF! … special part of my life….

Since the first day we set foot on 1142 Newark-Granville Road we've been connected to The Works.  Encouragement by fun neighbors and figure eight connections we didn't know existed put us at the very first HATSOFF! in 2003- lucky us.  And since that first event and the 2nd one where I volunteered - my life on Newark-Granville Road has been enriched.   Of course The Works brings us together- but truly it is the people I've met and the relationships I've benefitted from that make The Works what it is- starting with Howard LeFevre, continuing with his family and all the volunteers and staff that are united to execute the mission and raise up our community.  Tonight the 7th HATSOFF officially launched with the volunteer meeting and I couldn't be more inspired, proud or pleased to be involved.  Everyone that spoke shared their feelings about The Works and why they volunteer- we're all on the same page.  Everyone that attended is ready to work on The Works behalf in a fun, creative, innovative, personal way to make HATSOFF! 2014 the best yet to keep our community strong and make it more vibrant and ready for the future using art, history and science together.  So many emailed and called and volunteered to help even though they couldn't join us tonight- they were with us in spirit.  Tonight is a very good night on Newark-Granville Road.

Wednesday, January 22, 2014

3-D printers- changing life as we know it on Newark-Granville Road.


Yesterday was a great day. One of those days I'm pleased with my parenting.  These are needed as there are many days I regret that I yell, or am focused too much on my own efforts- like the blog- days like today warm me deeply for many reasons and therefore I have to share. I already did on facebook but I want to document in the blog.

On Monday Clare said to me- "you know what we need to get?"  " a 3-D printer"…I replied- ooo guess what your home away from home is getting one- The Works! She smiled and said "cool" and explained that she had read an article about them. She knows that her school has one but it is in a room she doesn't access.  So the next day sitting in a meeting when I received the notice that school was cancelled I arranged for Clare to join me at work.  She was going to see the 3-D printer The Works will receive this summer (we have to make it museum ready, secure some supply funding, determine use/process, etc…)and better yet she was going to meet the inventor.  A bonus was she joined me for Rotary and heard the inventor- Michael Cao- talk about his life, perspective and philosophy.  She was happy, interested and impressed- that doesnt' happen everyday in our lives on Newark-Granville Road with a 13 year old.

I too was happy, impressed and interested.  Michael Cao is pretty amazing.  He has a full time engineering job, a 5 month old baby and a manufacturing company that is globally executed with "VA" virtual assistants in different countries and time zones- so work doesn't stop.  He invented this affordable 3D printer because he needed to engage his brain, needed a project.  This is beyond the cool automotive work he is doing.  He manufactures the material/plastic/polymer that is used in the machine.  He is making it affordable and partnering with schools to reach into the education fields because he embraces the purity of engineering.  This is a good man. This is a smart man.  This an organized leader who can delegate, communicate clearly and is helping the world evolve.   He is modest, confident and just is- a pleasure to meet him, introduce him to my daughter and have him make my brain itch!!

I knew about 3D printers- kind-of..I had heard about them, even read about them- but until I saw one working, thought about it, listened to other questions, paid attention to how it is working I didn't get it.  And then I got it- this is truly life as we know it on Newark-Granville Road altering.  Will we buying one any time soon- no…but I know things coming into our home will soon be made via this just-in-time technology. It will impact my children's careers, maybe my own in the future.  It is amazing.

I have to share my appreciation to Rick Platt, CTEC and the Newark-Heath Licking County Port Authority for making this possible.  Not only securing this item, but leading the vision of STEM @ the Works to support Licking County and our next wave of innovation and realizing this is key to that awareness, development and acceptance.  For introducing us to Michael Cao, bringing him to us to share his inspiring story and approach to life and work and giving so many the chance to interact with him. Check it out for yourself- like them on Facebook-  IC3D LLC- affordable desktop 3D Printers and Filament- Michael Cao- CEO Founder.  www.ic3dprinters.com

Tuesday, January 21, 2014

is wonderful…..tell you about it tomorrow!

3-D printers, time with one child and only one child, girl friends, philanthropy, grace, culture changes, change, change, change, fellowship, laughter, smiles, kids, adults, learning, friends, wine, scotch, snow, crutch, scents, technology, inspiration…..a very good day in the life on Newark-Granville Road.

Monday, January 20, 2014

family dinner, full day at work and trip to Columbus!

Just because I LOVE to show my Columbus friends that Granville/ Licking County isn't that far…which means The Works isn't far or social time with us isn't far….I'll share my afternoon/ evening plans-activities tonight.

Kids were with sitter @ The Works today as it was open- hooray!  So appreciate my co-workers going the distance and being open to the public on Sundays and then these winter holidays (MLK and President's Day Monday)- so nice for families have a great place to visit!  I had a productive day. We needed to run a quick work errand at Easton.  We left the Works after 3:30- we stopped at home for dog walk, dinner adjustment (crock-pot turn down) and headed west.  We were back in Granville for Sally's basketball practice! Yes- hop, jump and skip to Columbus.  Dinner still works as CLARE- yes Clare- has the roast chicken in the crock pot!  Life on Newark-Granville road is in motion but comes together with family and learning at the center.

Sunday, January 19, 2014

on my walk this morning….

On my walk today I saw deer tracks, dog and runner tracks, snowplowed areas now covered and areas un plowed. I saw colors of gray, green, brown and black transformed to new shades with the bright white and glowing gray atmosphere. The cardinal and squirrel against this background their flurry of action.

On my walk today I felt Jack Frost on my cheeks, warm chilled tears, the slip of the path, crunch of the path, the wind-chill-fresh and energizing.

On my walk today there was only cool neutral smells- fresh and clean.

On my walk today I heard the peace, the sound of boot and dog on the crisp snow- not really a crunch, not really a squeak- something in-between that only happens when the temperature and snow fall is just so. I didn’t hear the birds or the squirrels. I heard the cars swoosh by. I heard my breath and Griffey’s puffs.


On my walk today my company was the right side of my brain to capture my walk.  Robert Frost was with me and my hippocampus did its duty but let me remain in the moment of beauty that all of my senses delivered. My life on Newark-Granville Road has made all the difference.

Friday, January 17, 2014

Full Week of Work!!

Thank you Mother Nature for not interrupting my work week!  It felt so good to get a full 5 days in…not everything is complete but progress, progress, progress! What really felt good was to connect with co-workers, meet, plan and start back up. The same way with volunteers- the amazing folks that I can't work without- really.  2014 is a BIG year for events @ the Works- important events not just because of the dollars we raise, the creativity and connections that happen and the relationships formed and strengthened. This week was largely dedicated to Cocktails by the Fire and HATSOFF! and I'm feeling really really good! Life on Newark-Granville Road is all about preparation and hard work, fun and relationships- just like this week!

Wednesday, January 15, 2014

Lets go Big Red!

Joe and I are both Denison alums. Joe played basketball at Denison.  Because all 3 of my kids play basketball I've learned to value time in the gym watching basketball.  I've also had a lot of fun over the years watching Big Red Basketball for many reasons.  So life on Newark-Granville Road tonight includes a trip to campus to watch Kenyon vs Denison- GO BIG RED! I'm grateful to others that share the info about these games.  Denison president, Adam Weinberg, mentioned it in a meeting yesterday so last night at dinner we could tell everyone- do your homework early.   Clare's basketball team was reminded about the game today and encouraged to attend- way to go parent that shares!  A tour of the works did a figure eight and connected to the games tonight…..Peter is watching the game on my phone- go DU Women….piano lessons keep us from being at that game- we're there in spirit!

Tuesday, January 14, 2014

if headed east and in Hagerstown, MD visit Gordon's Grocery!

I love my life on Newark-Granville Road, but there was life before I settled here.  My home town is Hagerstown, Maryland.  I wasn't born there- that was Virginia. I didn't graduate from High School there- that was Altoona, PA - but my fond memories of growing up and the place I love to return home to is Hagerstown.  It is where Interstates 81 and 70 intersect so many of you have gone right by.  Many of you stayed there for our wedding (although we were married in Mercersburg, PA) and enjoyed the fun of our reception at FHCC. It is a very special place for many reasons.  The Appalachian Mountains provide amazing backdrops, the Antietam Battlefield historic and sacred ground- it is the east coast but a bit off the hustle and bustle of the big city but we have amazing access to all the big cities offer.  There is an amazing business there, nestled in the neighborhood where I grew up.  This article does a nice job describing one of my favorite places- Gordon's Grocery- in Hagerstown, Maryland.  Congratulations and Happy Birthday/Anniversary to this "mom and pop" two isle amazing store!  You really can get it all here- hostess gifts, fantastic meats, appetizers, seafood, Utz chips and snacks, fresh veggies and fruits.  They offer unique and special, staples and gourmet. It is presented well and all delivered with great service. Service that deserves to be honored.  They unite, connect and embrace this special community within a community. Whenever I visit I love to see John and Cynthia and always see someone I'm happy to connect with in town.

I have such fond memories - stopping by on my walk home from the Junior High School, getting suicide slushies (yes kids I did it too- my kids love to "mix" from the soda fountain at the Grill's Deli) going with my mom to pick out dinner for the night on the way home from the pool. Now it is a must-stop when I go home to Maryland.  It also is the must stop for my Mom when visiting me- she delivers chicken salad and spreads.  You know how I love cocktail hour- I REALLY love cocktail hour with Gordon's cheese ball.  I love how John and Cynthia know my kids even though they only connect with them once or twice a year.  I encourage you to read this article and be pleased family operations like this still exists!  Please join me in congratulating these hard working, service oriented folks.

http://www.heraldmailmedia.com/news/local/gordon-s-grocery-celebrates-nine-decades-of-small-town-service/article_7bc48162-7cc5-11e3-9ea5-001a4bcf6878.html




Monday, January 13, 2014

go to the auction…...

I know some people are tired of auction fundraisers. Some say their time has come and gone and to some degree I can relate to that statement. I'm all about creative, fun fundraising (the 1st three letters in fundraising are fun) and auctions can get stale- however they're also successful for reasons and have a generic meaning- auction is almost synonymous with charity event, fundraiser, benefit.

I can't believe it has taken me this long to post in my "see you at these events" section on the side- The March 1st Granville Elementary and Granville Intermediate Schools PTO Auction!  It is an event that is a must attend- if your kid(s) attend the school(s) then go.  Do not pass go, do not collect $100 just sign up now.  I'm waiting for my paper sheet to submit my check and sign up…I don't want to pay the on-line fee…I hope I don't get closed out- eek!  I want to be there. I want you to be there.  I want this event to sell out ASAP!  And because this blog is about the "why" here are the reasons why- you should attend.  And heck even if you don't an immediate reason like a child in the school you can still attend if you want- it is fun.  There are great things available to purchase that benefit the kids' and their education in our community.  A great group of people will be there, you'll see the amazing classroom projects that show kids finest work, that show creative parents hard work and dedication.  I don't know all the ins and outs this year.  I applaud the volunteer leadership making it all happen.  I'm working on one classroom project and am grateful for the partner volunteer parent and the teacher.  (2 years ago- the auction is every other year- I did all 3 kids projects- I know I was NUTS.  I thought since I worked at a museum it would be easy. Yes I know I get a bit over zealous at times.  I learned my lesson.) Anyway- I remember exercising with a great group of women and hearing about the auction when Clare was still in pre-school. We were asked to join a table and attend to get a taste of what was to come- we declined.  If I could do it over- I would of attended- I would of supported the schools and volunteers then- it really is that much fun.

This year the auction returns to where it came- Appletree Auction Center! I'm a big believer in figure eights, life repeating itself (kind of not exactly- just like figure eights on the ice) and I love the return to a previous successful site. I've loved them all- the snowstorm year at CVL, the Granville Inn event, the year I sold raffle tickets, the year we bought Clare's tile white board/chalk board, the year we didn't buy Peter's quilt- oh David Schnaidt we miss you.  The year a friend bought really cool things..I could go on and on and on….amazing memories were made with great friends for great causes. I'm so grateful life on Newark-Granville Road includes those memories and support of our schools.  And I'm grateful to do it again on March 1st- join me please!

Sunday, January 12, 2014

my faith is a focus today.

A wonderful weekend filled with many wonderful things and since it is Sunday it I'll share my gratitude for my faith, my religion and my church.  Day by day I need my relationship with God.  I'm able to ask for help and forgiveness.  When the day ahead feels particularly hard all is better if I center myself and ask for help.  We all know I have a lot of responsibilities and within those responsibilities are lots of responsibilities- prioritizing is key and sometimes I'm not correct in my decisions and order of actions.  But God's love helps me move on and keep moving forward.   Our religion and church help me to know this and have this base to keep me centered and happy.

This weekend I attended two beautiful funerals. Death is something I accept- I'm a realist. However the emotional side of me is often sad by the loss or removal of good people on this earth. Dottie Mann was a Works member from the very start- a loyal donor.  Her support and leadership of the wonderful Dawes Arbreum so valuable to our community.  I met Dottie as a Denison student and enjoyed continuing my relationship as her neighbor and fellow FPC member.  Charles Sinsabaugh another noble leader, an older member of our community that valued education his whole life and supported The Works.  I had such lovely interactions with him when introduced to him at The Works.  His son, daughter in law and daughter follow his footsteps in philanthropy and I feel for there loss.  Again thanks to my faith I believe the spirit lives on and I feel this emotionally as well.  However I'm someone that needs closure and the church does a wonderful job with a funeral to honor, celebrate, comfort and explain death to us.

Not so good things, bad things happen to all of us and are all around.  We know too many people that are sick and struggling.  Our baptism brings us to a place to work through and find comfort. I believe God doesn't want to see any of this suffering and our faith and church are to help us address this discomfort. God is comforting to me on Newark-Granville Road.  My time in the beautiful downtown Newark Lutheran church and FPC, plus the kids bluegrass, Trip's sermon, scripture and time to be in relationship with god made my life on Newark-Granville road happy and with a sense of peace.

Thursday, January 9, 2014

what is it?

Thank you, thank you, thank you for sharing the fun of this sewer project.  Today I heard from quite a few of you (or quite a few friends who engage in the real life on Newark-Granville Road not just the literary one) your thoughts on our front yard.  What do you think it looks like?  My favorite from a friend that texted about our "moat" in the front yard.  Another told me in line at the Soup Loft that are yard always looks so good and so they were concerned about the disruption. I'm passing that compliment about the yard to Joe. He isn't uber involved with our yard but is pretty darling (sexy) when mowing with the push mower in his black socks and sneakers.  I personally think of Caddy Shack and the gopher when I see it. I'm wasn't crazy about the big dirt bulge in the yard and then tonight's snow came and made it oh so much prettier!  The snow also came for my friend that was sad the snow was melting.  However being in a positive place I can share how impressed I am with the soil that was turned over- it looks so rich- kind of inspiring to get serious about some landscaping!!

So there you go Life on Newark-Granville Road.  You may be growing tired of this project- I hope not- thanks for reading and sharing!!  I will share with you that my life today on Newark-Granville Road also included wonderful passion and care, more proof that relationships so matter and carry the day and volunteers are noticed and make the world go around- they certainly do make life on Newark-Granville Road all the richer!

Wednesday, January 8, 2014

Finding the Positives…even hard for me….making progress with the Sewer!

Many people think I'm always happy, always positive.  When I get stressed or sad I can be human and not be so positive.  I don't like to be like that, I understand that it is OK to feel frustration but it really doesn't help matters.  Today I was sad to see the big brown bump in my yard.  I had some work to do in the neighborhood (really awesome work* I must say) and got a glimpse of the progress on tapping into the sewer.  Instead of coming home- I went back to work- probably to avoid the bump.  But also to keep work moving forward. (I'm so glad I went back- great volunteer was in the building to help me move an exhibit and membership forward) and fun to keep progress moving with tasks like depositing payments!

So I ended work on a positive- it didn't start out that way- mistakes get made and I get sad and frustrated with myself and I'm not positive.  But the good shines through and a positive activity happens- like having lunch with amazing Park National Bank new employees and sharing what The Works is all about and experiencing philanthropy from a good person- I do have a great job- so then my mood switches to the positive.  I have a hard job but I do love it.  And ending on the positive was all the happier as I came home to Joe safely there from work trip to Nashville.  Sally jumping up and down telling me she made a mess in the basement and it was allowed!  I love that- it makes me smile.  I thought Joe and I would be cleaning out the cupboards in the basement so the plumbing for the sewer could be working on late tonight.  It was complete.  Clare was able to start dinner- pulled enchiladas made from New Years Eve Burrito Chicken from the freezer!  kids were happy post school and we all caught up around the table.

Tomorrow the septic gets its last pump and plumbing moved to the new system….keep your fingers crossed!! The blue piece sticking out of the yard is a marker to where the emergency shutoff box will be.  We are far from done but we're making progress in our life on Newark-Granville Road in more ways than one.  *By the way the awesome work I was able to be part of was an install meeting for a piece of glass sculpture.  I'm so impressed with what happens in The Works Glass studio. I've never been on an install and it was a privilege to see the artist, the art appreciator/acquires, the home where it will go, see all the math that goes into the install.  It was another positive moment in my life on Newark-Granville Road.

Monday, January 6, 2014

baby its cold outside….artic blast no school or work day…..

The temperature right now as I type is negative eight!  School was cancelled, work was cancelled and we embraced a stay at home day! We took the ornaments off the Christmas tree today, put away Christmas decorations,  pulled out Valentines and winter items.  We cleaned, updated photos and ordered the 2013 photo book from Shutterfly.  We did cold weather activities like blowing bubbles and watching them freeze and turning boiling water into snowy steam.  For me it was a slice of heaven on Newark-Granville Road. I've needed a day like this- I'm so grateful for the window given to me to make memories and share moments together- albeit very cold moments.  The walks with the dog were brisk and the mouse in the house discovered by Peter gave me the icks. We followed it into the printer, took the printer to the garage and placed him there-lots of straw there for him to bed down.  We had reading hour and then tv hour- I extended TV hour to 2 hours and I watched the first Downton Abbey episode and drank tea and ate biscuits.  Clare made her crock pot dinner (scheduled for Wed night) and we decorated the tree I don't want to take down without Joe (he is in Nashville for work) with snowflakes.  We had to google and watch u-tube video but the snowflakes look great.  Yes little scraps of paper all over the house.  I worry about those that are homeless or dealing with pipes. We'll pick up Grandma Shirley at the airport tomorrow and I'm sorry she has to come home to such a cold village.  Life on Newark-Granville Road is cozy and content and I'm counting my blessings and turning out the light.

Sunday, January 5, 2014

four steps forward, three steps back, five steps forward, three back- side step-shuffle ball change…..

Those that know me well know that my mantra for years has been "sit loosely in the saddle of life" Robert Louis Stevenson….lately my other go to and maybe my 2014 mantra will be:

Growth is an erratic forward movement: two steps forward, one step back. Remember that and be very gentle with yourself.  Julia Cameron
I've been using it a fair amount.  My ah-ha moment was hearing Sean Swarner- the two time cancer survivor- an amazing hero- talk about climbing the world's highest peaks- how mother nature makes you do this- go up and down in waves to prepare to ascend, and when you get back to camp she has moved your gear as you're on a glacier that moves. Natures way.  (by the way I need to read his book: 
Keep Climbing: How I Beat Cancer and Reached the Top of the World Paperback by Sean Swarner
I'm inspired to share this quote as I just received the call about no school tomorrow.  Really?  Mother Nature- how could you do this? They've been off of school for months…okay weeks but it feels like over a month. We've had enough snow days already- I've done the juggling and the plate spinning.  I have work to do….important work.  But yes as I type this I know I have work to do as their mother.  I heard the sermon today- a window has been opened by mother nature or God or both and I will embrace it.  Sally turns 9 tomorrow. We're celebrating tonight as Joe has an early flight scheduled. We have/had a full night tomorrow…we'll see what gets cancelled, what goes on….I will do some work, I have to, but I will take the side step and shuffle (it isn't going backwards to be with the kids) and I will embrace this crazy snowy cold life on Newark-Granville Road.  

Saturday, January 4, 2014

reservations required…..but the bar will work!

I did indeed have a lovely day.  I not only sat in on my three children's basketball games, I connected with friends and engaged in our wonderful community.  It wasn't perfect though- the 1st game was great.  Peter was off a bit and we still have lessons in rolling with loss' to learn.  It is wonderful that Joe and Peter are so dedicated and passionate, however I'm a big fan of focus on the positive and roll with it. It is fine to be disappointed- you can't win every game.  And Sally's game was late and I was tired and hungry. But Mr. Mike came- how nice that this Works volunteer who has seen my kids grow up came to cheer the baby he met 9 years ago to a victory.  And I did enjoy the company of her great team's parents.

And we did get to enjoy the new restaurant in Johnstown- The Old Horseshoe Tavern!  http://www.dispatch.com/content/stories/business/2013/11/12/johnstown-restaurant-keeps-focus-on-local.html  Friends have told me about it, we'd tried to go earlier- they are not open for lunch on Saturdays and tonight we were almost closed out- you need a reservation!  How wonderful that they're doing that well. I applied Granville logic and assumed no reservations- I assumed wrong.  Luckily they were willing to serve us at the bar and we had incredible service.  The food really was outstanding. The kids loved it all, tried new things and engaged once we had them nibbling on some food and happy with their root beers.  The co-owner took care of us and gave us inside scoop and a peak at the new menu coming soon.  I would not of ordered the Risotto Cakes in the tomato sauce with balsamic syrup (not vinegar) I'm soooo glad I did.  It took me right back to my mother's table- he does a breaded veal with a made from scratch tomato sauce that is very similar and a family favorite.  Even Clare liked the lamb egg rolls- points for my picky eater.

I can't wait until life on Newark-Granville Road gives us some time to return with a reservation and enjoy the updated menu and time to savor the beautiful decor and cuisine at a table.  The bar worked and I'd repeat depending on my mood.

Friday, January 3, 2014

where is Susan?

Tomorrow I'm happy to say I get to see all 3 kids play basketball!  It is a full day and I'll be moving but this is so rare. Usually we're pulled in too many directions and one kid misses having a parent at a game.  We're OK with this- we can't go to every game with three kids and two adults and work and volunteer commitments.  But when I can I go that is my motto and I'm excited for my life on Newark-Granville Road tomorrow.  (Today was good too- lots of great work at work and home to happy kids and dog!)

If you're looking for me, want to join me we have:
Clare at 10 am at Licking Valley Middle School- need to figure out that where exactly…
Peter at noon at Granville Intermediate School
Sally at 3:15 (ish) at Johnstown Middle School (I need to call Mr. Mike!!)
We''ll wrap up the day with dinner at the new Old Horseshoe in Johnstown!!

Go Granville!

Thursday, January 2, 2014

what gets measured is what gets done…proof!

I love to say this (what gets measured is what gets done) at work and I totally believe it! I learned the lesson while working as a manager in a start up call center in the mid-90s.  My life above 8 mile in the Detroit area was a time where I was learning sooo much so fast and loving it. We moved order entry from facilities all over the country (and Canada) to two centralized facilities.  The call center gave us so many ways to measure performance, one was the number of calls the service reps took, another column on the daily report was short calls- they were hang-ups.  Sure enough one employee was reaching her goal to take the x number of calls, the problem she had an unbelievably high number of short calls- she was hanging up on people.   Of course there were many more lessons associated with this certain situation- training needs, coaching, accountability in our self-directed work environment but the point about what is measured stayed with me.  Fast forward to my life on Newark-Granville Road and my observation from our holiday break and what is happening here.

Football- football is what is being measured and embraced on Newark-Granville Road.  It hit me when I went to work today and I was sooo happy to hear the a news show.   I realized the majority of TV time in our home the past few weeks- football.  Joe put Peter in charge of our college football bowl pool.  We all got sheets of paper with the schedule, we circled our predicted winners and turned them in…I don't even think we agreed to a prize?!   All of a sudden we all start talking about football, caring about what games have been on when and what the results of the games were/are.  This happened before Xmas and has continued….I've even been pulled in- I watched the Rose Bowl for the football game between two teams I don't pay that much attention to- I'm not being negative. I've been to Michigan State- lovely campus, have friends who love them, attended the school and thanks to facebook I knew some were there!  Stanford is a gorgeous campus and college that fascinates me- but for me to really pay attention like that- fascinating to me.  And for all 5 of us to be so engaged- interesting.  The blog is about the "why" as I love the why in life- it matches my MBTI preference and this football behavior had to have a why.  Again I'm not being negative- there are lots of positives associated.  It has led to fun conversation about colleges, how you select-we love to visit campus on our trips.  I actually have a lot of colleges I cheer for- Nebraska, Penn State, OSU- knowing this you understand why I didn't select any Florida teams- sorry brother Matthew living so close to Central Florida- and no I couldn't do it- I was footballed out last night and went to bed.  We've seen some great football and fun commercials- the Chick-fil-A Bowl- Duke vs Texas A&M great example.  We stopped at Duke this summer, we all know know what the A (agriculture) and M (mechanics) represent from the schools history, and it was a great game!

So that is what has been happening in my life on Newark-Granville Road. If you are interested current standings:  Sally is leading by 2 games, Peter and I are tied for 2nd behind by 2, Clare is 3rd and Joe is last.  Joe wants you to know he is doing much better in the work pool.  We'll let you know what happens when this all wraps up on January 6th- go Tigers- maybe we'll make Sally a blue and orange cake.